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Hypothetically, I am dating a guy, and his brother comes to stay a couple of days. Thing is his brother is hotter and smarter than he is (he also speaks 3 languages), and I am attracted to him. Hypothetically, what should I do?

Should I hook up with the brother while my guy is away?

Should I break up with my guy and then start a new relationship and the brother?

Should I suppress my feelings for the brother and recommit to my guy?

Should I tell my guy that I find his brother attractive and talk about it and our future?

Should I pretend I don’t find his brother attractive and just picture his brother while making love to my guy?

Should I suggest we have a 3 some of some sort? Though that could be a bit creepy, yet kinda hot if you think about it

It’s so hard I don’t know what I would do, thank goodness its hypothetical right, wink, wink.
 
Don't covet your boyfriend's brother.

That really ought to be a no-brainer.

Try to not hurt people. You will have a better life.
 
If the brother is "coming to stay a couple of days" that suggests that the brother is from out of town, right? If so, then the logistics of a LTR seem difficult.

No matter, though, it's a bad idea to start anything. Those of us in relationships find other people attractive (physically and intellectually) all the time. Rarely, if ever, does it threaten the relationship. Nice people, smart people, great looking people are eye candy (and mind candy). But, it's your partner who's the cake and not the icing.

Moreover, dumping someone for their sibling almost never works (unless it's a mutual breakup). If you have doubts about your partner and that relationship, then dump him and search beyond his family tree.

Good luck!
 
I don't get it...

I guess love BLINDS me...

Some chemical is created in my body and controls my brain...

I ALWAYS think my BF is THE HOTTEST guy in the room...

I appreciate other good looking guys -- but they DON'T compare...

Hypothetically...

I would reAFFIRM JUST HOW HOT your BF is -- he might be feeling a little insecure at the moment...

Have a hypothetically GREAT DAY!!!
 
Hypothetically:
We meet, and get along great, I want to come to visit you...

I come to visit you and stay with you for a couple of days.
You have a room mate .
Your room mate speaks english, french and spanish.
He is "hotter"
Shall I trick with him?
Shall I tell you?
Would that be ok?

hmm...
 
Be happy that you have a boyfriend. There are those of us who literally ache for a loving, caring relationship. Why would you even think of jeopardizing that??
 
Wow a relationship is not about who looks hot. Think with your head not your dick -
 
I wonder. I wonder. I wonder.

The person starting the thread says that this is a hypothetical situation. Therefore, the relationship mabout which he writes does not exist. However, he has still placed it in the relationshups area which is a no flame zone. I have noticed of late, that similar threads, many totally unbelievable, have been started in this no flame zone.

Is placement in a no flame zone a ploy by which other posters are prevented or discouraged from saying what they really think?
 
Ramindra said:
Is placement in a no flame zone a ploy by which other posters are prevented or discouraged from saying what they really think?
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The short answer is no. Not, at least, to Brian and my knowledge.

"Hypothetical" here was with a wink, wink...
 
This doesn't seem fickle at all to you? How can you date a guy when you're willing to drop him for someone hotter and smarter who you don't even know well. And that you'd consider dating him even though he's your current boyfriend's brother? Does that seem at all strange to you?

Maybe? I mean, if it really doesn't seem odd at all to you, then by all means do what you want.

But if it does seem weird, then trust your gut and you'll know what to do (or rather, who and what NOT to do).

You keep saying that you want love, not just a hook up. So try sticking to a guy for a while and get to know him better.
 
Everyone else has more or less said what needs to be said, so I'll just say:

Hands off, bucko.

Lex
 
Should I tell my guy that I find his brother attractive and talk about it and our future?


Thats your best option. Talk about it to your guy, don't go behind his back and hook up with his brother if his brother is that way, and defiantly don't break up because you don't know where it will go considering it is his brother.
 
I shall politely say, with my taste sensor lodged firmly in my jaw covering, and with a fire extinguisher at the ready: " Oh no not again";)
 
I would really encourage you to discuss this openly with the guy you're dating and see where it goes from there....and then let us all know how it turns out.
 
"Should I suggest we have a 3 some of some sort? Though that could be a bit creepy, yet kinda hot if you think about it "

That is exactly what i was thinking.
 
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