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Keeping my Relationship from a friend

Never date the ex of your best friend especially so soon. I seem to be learning alot about relationships this year.
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No I think you should never freak out and text your boyfriend something like "we need to talk". Because he may think you're furious and want to argue lots of things. And you should put yourself into your bf's situation to know how he's feeling...
 
there are a number of lessons to take from this. first...don't dick over your friends. yes, we all succumb to impulses...but you deliberately went behind your friends back about something you knew would hurt him.

and lol your friend was the one who told your bf? wtf? wasn't your friend the one who you didn't want to tell in the first place? wait...did the bf tell the friend? wtf is really going on here?

my suspicion: you had the hots for this guy your friend was hooking up with, but they were not 'really' dating. you asked the friend about you hooking up with this guy, and the friend was upset...for obvious reasons. then you proceeded to hook up with the guy anyways. he was never your boyfriend. he was merely almost your friends boyfriend till you stepped in between and fucked that up. the this "bf"...who was really just playing you both, lol...told the friend about you two...probably because he wanted to go back to him.

oh, drama. i think your friend and you got played. and i think you deserved it. and i think your friend is getting laid right now.
 
Hopefully you have learnt several lessons and won't make the same mistakes in the future. While I agree that what you did was not cool, all the parties involved share some of the blame. Hopefully you realize the Nick is neither objective, trustworthy nor a true friend. I have the most problem with his actions as all he was trying to is cause problems for everyone involved. If it were me, I would change the "best friend, sort of ex" into ex-friend.
 
I'm not opening this thread again because you come accross flakier than a puff pastry.
First you had 3 bfs before Sam & now you claim 2.
First Chris was your best friend and then you changed Nick to being your best friend.
There are too many inconstistencies to believe anything you say.
 
^ I'm not buying most of it either.

It all sounds like a 16 year old guy's idea of what gay relationships and friendships should be.

Too much exposition.

Not enough pathos.

I repeat my original advice. Get over the notion that everything is like 'High School Musical'.

Or 'The Hills'.
 
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