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sorry I'm so late in responding to bluedragon; didn't get back here til now. yes, I'm 39 and no, I didn't say I was currently doing all those fun things with young guys! I said "in the past" and then I opined there are at least some younger guys today who are less uptight than guys were when I was young. I do in fact know of a few personally, but from their talking to me about it, not doing anything with an "old guy" like me. didn't mean to confuse anyone. It was an interesting discussion all around, I thought. again, sorry for such a tardy add-on.
 
Actually, the idea does make some sense to me as a taboo-breaking activity -- e.g., a kinky straight guy having gay sex as a way of pushing/expanding his own limits. But if the experience successfully expanded his limits, then I'd say he'd probably be less inclined to think of himself as exclusively straight. Or maybe another way of putting this is that I think some degree of bisexuality can be deliberately cultivated. Not enough to change one's fundamental orientation, but enough to expand it to a wider range of possibilities.
 
I know some people are nymphomaniacs that will have sex with anyone-man or woman, regardless of their preference
 
There is no such thing as a straight guy doing gay or bi sex for a kinky type of excitement. That is that little security blanket so to speak that they say to fool themself because they want to be "normal". Being true to yourself is nothing to be scared or embarrassed about. Sexuality is just one of the ways we try to fool ourselves from the truth.
 
I suppose I can identify with this. I personally see gay sex as something "kinky" because it is not the 'norm' for me and it is somewhat 'taboo' to me due to my lack of experience with it.

My experience with it only two short encounters in my adult life that most of you wouldnt even bat an eyelash to. While I still jerk off to the occasional gay porn, my wife hasnt the slightest interest in it whenever I try to include her. This place is sort of my support group and I like that there are other guys out there that feel the same way that I do.

I have found that if you insist on labeling yourself, it makes things much more difficult. Each person perceives things differently. If I had 20 people try to label me (gay, straight, bi, or in between), I'll bet that I would get 20 different labels slapped on me.

Be yourself without the label, you'll be much happier.
 
Raven03 said:
A straight guy having gay sex is either curious or if doing repeatedly lying to himself about his sexuality.
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But I have gay friends who sometimes have sex with their fag hags. Is that somehow different? And believe me, hehe, they're gay but they describe it simply as "sex."
 
Hi! ;) Gay sex = kinky sex, who knew? (!)

Seriously, I know girls who don't have lesbian sex but do have kinky sex with other girls! :p

(!)

T
 
When it comes to sex, you are what you usually do.

No one will really 'label' two college dudes experimenting with each other 'gay' right away.

We all know, that if locked up, one way or the other, men will try to find a sexual outlet, since they must find one in order to remain sane.

But if there is a pattern of man2man or man2men sex in someone's regular behavior as opposed to m2f sex, the dude is either gay or bi.

The rest is just another attempt to remain respectably str8 why regularly messing around with other men under the pretext of kinkiness...

No one should really buy into that theory.

SC
 
Well, I wouldn't call any guy straight if he sucks cock or takes it up the ass. As a matter of fact I wouldn't call a guy straight if he's only topping too. If a guy has sex with another guy, for whatever reason that is, he is not straight to me. I can see most guys here said that straight guys can have "kinky gay sex" the majority here tho are bisexuals. Personal experience with bisexual guys : no offense please, showing much respect.... so... most bisexuals I've been with are ashamed of having sexual desires towards guys and tend to avoid labels, many of those guy do not even like being called bisexual, they call themselves straight although they have regular sex with other guys. I do not know why that is but that's what I have noticed. Furthermore, most of the bi guys I've been with prefer gay sex to straight sex but tend to prefer a relationship with a female for some reason. I'm not surprised most of the posters in this thread answered positively to the question but to me this doesn't make much sense.

Calling a guy who has sex with other guys straight is like calling George Bush a democrat.
 
I've always thought it funny that those who argue we shouldn't label ourselves seem to label themselves straight.
 
Erickivan said:
Look is RRRalph Havent see u in a wild :P

I had one friend back in school who say that 2 guys havign sex whats the kinkeist thign ever, eventhough he said he was straight and was a player he had like 4 girls at the same time, but also told me he masturbate to gay porno as a kiny thing :P

Still into this day he is straight
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I believe you!
 
I pretty much consider my sex with other men as just an act. There's no other commitment. I call it bisexual, but if you told me I could lower my cholesterol 50 points by not doing it, I'd quit.(I'd still jack it to gay porn though) I like cocks, I like the way guys suck cock, and I like the way a cock rubs my prostate. It's pretty much just sex to me. No different than getting a massage at the spa or scratching a persons back for them. Man. Woman. Gender is not an issue for me. I have a smokin hot girlfriend, we live together, and we fuck a lot. I am straight. But because I get tired of gay guys accusing me of being gay, I just admit bisexuality.

We should change the label to a percentage. I have sex pretty much 10%M 90%F so I'm a 10M.....Not Hetero, Not Bi, Not Gay. Maybe that would work better?
 
I have seen quite some very cute str8 guys getting their pants down and presenting their ass "en plein public". As a matter of a fact I have seen it last week at soccer's. And I have already done it myself too.
 
D-Base said:
Well, I wouldn't call any guy straight if he sucks cock or takes it up the ass. As a matter of fact I wouldn't call a guy straight if he's only topping too. If a guy has sex with another guy, for whatever reason that is, he is not straight to me. I can see most guys here said that straight guys can have "kinky gay sex" the majority here tho are bisexuals. Personal experience with bisexual guys : no offense please, showing much respect.... so... most bisexuals I've been with are ashamed of having sexual desires towards guys and tend to avoid labels, many of those guy do not even like being called bisexual, they call themselves straight although they have regular sex with other guys. I do not know why that is but that's what I have noticed. Furthermore, most of the bi guys I've been with prefer gay sex to straight sex but tend to prefer a relationship with a female for some reason. I'm not surprised most of the posters in this thread answered positively to the question but to me this doesn't make much sense.

Calling a guy who has sex with other guys straight is like calling George Bush a democrat.
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A str8 guy can take it up the ass only because of great anal sensitivity. Most str8 guys are anally extremely gifted. Being anally gifted does not mean your sexual orientation changes. So, a bottom can perfectly be str8, but the reverse is not true. As soon as a guy tops, he clearly craves for male ass and when you crave for male ass, you are gay.

It is obvious there are numerous bi guys prefering sex with men, but have a relationship with a female. I know more men married with a woman having sex with men than others
 
bulge said:
A str8 guy can take it up the ass only because of great anal sensitivity. Most str8 guys are anally extremely gifted. Being anally gifted does not mean your sexual orientation changes. So, a bottom can perfectly be str8, but the reverse is not true.
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:confused: :confused: :confused:

What on earth does 'most str8 guys are anally extremely gifted' mean???

And I totally disagree with your theory that bottoms can 'perfectly be' straight. And I agree with D-Base, any guy who takes a cock up his ass is soooo not straight. You might as well say, gay men are 'gifted' with their dicks, therefore they can enjoy vaginal intercourse with women and still be 100% gay.
 
I think they do, only the person themselves can say if their bi straight whatever I have a couple friends who have had sex with guys but only did it as a what the hell why not thing.
 
It all comes down to what they want to call themselves, I know a lesbian who fucks guys, but she’s a lesbian because that’s what she wants to class herself as.

I'm personally having a hard time with a straight guy who uses alcohol as an excuse for snogging my face off saying he’s bisexual when he’s drunk, straight when he’s sober. That’s another topic though.

But basically if these guys say their straight, but enjoy sleeping with guys that’s up to them, they’re straight because they say they are, end of. I personally think there has to be an attraction to have sex with someone, and I think that guys/girls who sleep with people outside their label (e.g. lesbians sleeping with men, gays sleeping with women etc) are lying to themselves, but its not my place to judge.
 
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