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Kissing a guy in public.. how far do/should you go?

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...just a hug wasn't enough last night when I had to get on the train back to London after a great weekend, I'm going to miss him so much. I guess Oxford station on a Sunday evening was sort of OK with so many other people saying goodbye but as we were kissing I couldn't stop myself thinking - should we be doing this?
 
oddly, i've kissed a guy in busy Penn Station, NY and not felt weird about it...however, kissing a guy in a smaller setting would make me feel uncomfortable
 
I think it depends on the "gay friendly-ness" of your city.

Here in Saskatchewan, some areas are ok, but others would be a terrible decision to make.

I know when I'm out with Daniel, I'm worried about making any kind of physical contact in public...Just my nerves I guess, but you never know.

Although, together, it's pretty obvious we're not friends...Especially when we have to go to a cash register...
 
I've done it on an "off" street in Seattle, and I'd do it again. Just go for it, who cares?
 
i think it depends on the time and situation and the gay friendliness of the area. i think a peck or lips are fine , i hate even seeing straight people sticking tounges down throats, passionate kisses are for the private :)
 
My brother and my mother get a hug and a peck on the cheek in public, as does the love of my life. Aunties get a kiss on the cheek and uncles and my father get their hands shaken. I am really put off buy guys who start shoving their tongues down someother guy's throat in public. My reaction to straight couples swapping spit in public is the same so at least I am evenhanded about my dislikes.
 
Gay or straight, I think making out is too much for anyone to do in a very visible place. If you want to do that in a public/oudoors location do it somewhere a little more secluded. IMO, a peck or even a short open mouth kiss is perfectly acceptable anywhere.
 
There's no law against it (in the UK, anyway). The only worry is whether you're in an area where homophobes tend to lurk. If not, go for it.

Lex
 
Depends where you live and how gay friendly it is.
 
joeslifeyork said:
I've done more than kiss a guy in an "off" street.... well, it started as a kiss, then a snog, then well, hands began to wander..

It wasnt long before... use your imaginations..
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Wow..nothing like that! As we only had a couple of minutes we made the most of the time we had left and then I let my imagination take over when I got on the train, that made the journey a bit more bearable. Got stuck at Didcot yet again.. thanks First Great Western.
 
As like, every single person has said, it depends on how gay-friendly the area you're in is.

However, being the kind of person I am, I'm quite happy to do whatever I want, where-ever I want, because the way I dress immediately denotes me as being different - and the same kind of people who'd try to beat you up for being a goth are the same who'd try to beat you up for being gay.

So really, it comes down to how comfortable I feel kissing my boy in public - and whether or not the setting is appropriate (formal social situations, I mean) but on the street?

Fuck 'em. If people don't like it, they can not watch. I'm quite happy to defend myself, given my uh... Functional and concealing clothing (whee for steel capped boots and hidden sharp pointy things) it's fairly easy to just frighten someone out of a confrontation, rather than actually having to use force.

But as I said - it depends on your own confort level. Fuck what other people think.

-Laz.
 
i always kiss my boyfriend goodbye at the station (funnily enough that's usually York station). We don't make out on the platform or anything, but there's nothing wrong with a kiss. You see straight couples doing it. Sometimes people stare at us, but that makes me wanna kiss him even more!
 
Like ViscountLazarus wrote, fuck 'em if they don't want to see it. Life's too short for worrying about what most fuckheads think. Now, if there were skinheads or Jerry Falwell or somebody like that standing around, maybe I'd hold back or at least be ready to run fast :)
 
I'd say take it as far as any other decent couple would in public.
 
It all depends. For most situations I'd say closed lip to slightly parted lips is okay as long as it doesn't go past 10sec. In most cases I'd say full blown frenching is a no no. But if you haven't seen each other in a really long time then I'd allow you a good make-out as long as it doesn't go past that 10sec marker. This goes for gays and straights.
 
I'll kiss a guy in public if I want.

Anyone doesn't like it, they dont' have to look.
 
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