I guess I’m not qualified to give my opinion here because I have never kissed a man. Or had sex with a man yet. But, I am going to hopefully sooner than later. I’m finally coming out after all these years of pent up frustration. I was gay before I knew what gay was. I have always desired sucking cock and eating cum. I thought it was just some passing fantasy when I was young, very young and has never gone away. But I never considered kissing a man early on. I just didn’t think I would want to. But, as time has past and I realize that my desire to suck cock and eat cum is more than that, I realize that I want it all. I want to please and be pleased. Versatile for sure. Now I can’t imagine having sex with a guy and not kiss. Really I want that first and foremost. I want to share on a deeper level and I think that kissing is the most intimate thing you can share. Foreplay without kissing would not be foreplay. Also, after him sucking my cock I want to kiss him and taste my cock and cum in his mouth. And of course when he cums in my mouth I want to share it with him. Everything in between before and after and during, I want to kiss deeply and look in to his eyes. I can imagine only kissing and playing around without having full on sex. It seems to me the connection would be so much more meaningful. I want all that sex has to offer with no boundaries as long as it’s tender and respectful. But, I want more than sex. I want a lasting relationship. So, kissing is a must for me. I’ve also never thought I would or could love a man. But, I also realize that once I started coming to terms with who I am and who I want to be…and coming out, I could totally fall for the right guy and share on a deeper level. I guess that’s why I know it’s not just a fantasy anymore, I am gay, I have always been gay, I’ve just never acted on it. I’ve always wanted sex with a man. I’ve never wanted anything else. So, that’s a big clue. Lol. But, kissing is a must for me…yes.