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Kissing?

Never kissed a guy, but my gay fantasies usually involve a good amount of kissing.
Try it. You'll like it. I was averse kissing a guys until a lover pointed out the incongruity of my love of sucking cock and cum but and my aversion to kissing. I tried it. Did not like it. I loved it! (To boot... You've never really enjoyed a mouth full of cum until you've shared it with another guy.)
 
Try it. You'll like it. I was averse kissing a guys until a lover pointed out the incongruity of my love of sucking cock and cum but and my aversion to kissing. I tried it. Did not like it. I loved it! (To boot... You've never really enjoyed a mouth full of cum until you've shared it with another guy.)
It's hard to argue with that logic. As time goes by, I am turned on more and more thinking about making out with a guy. Cock, cum and tongue seem like the perfect trio.
 
I am bi and I have never ever kissed or been kissed by a man. I have never ever had any interest in doing so. I have sucked lots of cocks and part of giving a man a BJ for me involves kissing the man's cock, his balls and his anus but kissing a man on the mouth is NOT something I want to do.
 
I am bi and I have never ever kissed or been kissed by a man. I have never ever had any interest in doing so. I have sucked lots of cocks and part of giving a man a BJ for me involves kissing the man's cock, his balls and his anus but kissing a man on the mouth is NOT something I want to do.
That was my outlook until a lover pointed out that I liked cock in mouth but tongue was taboo!? So we kissed and now I'm hooked.
 
That was my outlook until a lover pointed out that I liked cock in mouth but tongue was taboo!? So we kissed and now I'm hooked.
Back in the late 70s when I was first getting into sex with men I became involved with a very good friend of mine who was gay. I knew he was attracted to me and one night when we were talking at his place he told me he wanted to "give me a BJ". I turned him down but inside I actually was very turned on by the idea of being with him sexually. Three years later I called him on a Saturday morning and told him I would do it and he told me to come on over and I got naked (he kept all of his clothes on) for him and he sucked me off. I had let a man, a complete stranger, give me a HJ in a straight porno theater in 1March, 1976. After my friend told me wanted to give me a BJ I went to a bath house in SF in February, 1979 where I gave a man a BJ. I wanted to see if I could take a man's cock into my mouth and suck him off to completion and would I like it. I knew right away that I loved it. Nine months later I went to a bath house in West Hollywood with the intension of having a man suck me off to see what it was like to receive a BJ from a man. I loved it and when he finished sucking me off and having me cum in his mouth I returned the favor to him. After those three experiences I knew I wanted to submit to letting my friend suck me. and that I wanted to suck his cock as well and that is when I called him on that Saturday morning. .

Eventually my friend told me he wanted to kiss me and I told him he could kiss my neck and suck on my nipples (I have very sensitive nipples and love having them sucked) but that I would not let him kiss me on the mouth. He settled for kissing my neck and sucking on my nipples, both of which I thoroughly enjoyed. During the ten years when we had very intense sex off and on we never kissed on the mouth.. If I was ever going to let a man kiss me it would have been him. Sometimes I regret not having let him kiss me and included making out, etc. as part of our sexual experiences.
 
For a long time when I was younger I was not into kissing with guys. I would have sex with them - but kissing? Well that was gay...

Now I realize how intense and sexy 2 men making out can be.
 
I don’t enjoy kissing a man or a woman! It doesn’t turn me on. A hug is OK BUT, the sight of a cock is what rocks my boat!
 
Met a guy on CL, went to his house (as our emails predicted) I got inside his door and he grabbed my dick through my commando shorts. Walked me over to the bed. I dropped trou and he climbed up between my legs and drained my balls in his mouth deepthroat. I get up and he goes in for the kiss. I turn he hits the cheek apologizing for his cum breath, ‘but it was your cum.’ His intense blue eyes blazing.
My not accepting his kiss I think deflated him, I said anything I can do for you, he said ,’no’
I left.
Should’ve kissed him.
 
I don't feel I've made love, or even shared the love of having sex, without,
1. tasting his kiss,
2. feeling his penetration.

Just SOMETIMES, I can get by without the kiss.
but only with my boyfriend, when he wants to 'dog' me - in a kind of 'rape' fantasy. we share
My BF is the only one I'll allow this fantasy.
 
I don't feel I've made love, or even shared the love of having sex, without,
1. tasting his kiss,
2. feeling his penetration.

Just SOMETIMES, I can get by without the kiss.
but only with my boyfriend, when he wants to 'dog' me - in a kind of 'rape' fantasy. we share
My BF is the only one I'll allow this fantasy.
Amen!
 
I guess I’m not qualified to give my opinion here because I have never kissed a man. Or had sex with a man yet. But, I am going to hopefully sooner than later. I’m finally coming out after all these years of pent up frustration. I was gay before I knew what gay was. I have always desired sucking cock and eating cum. I thought it was just some passing fantasy when I was young, very young and has never gone away. But I never considered kissing a man early on. I just didn’t think I would want to. But, as time has past and I realize that my desire to suck cock and eat cum is more than that, I realize that I want it all. I want to please and be pleased. Versatile for sure. Now I can’t imagine having sex with a guy and not kiss. Really I want that first and foremost. I want to share on a deeper level and I think that kissing is the most intimate thing you can share. Foreplay without kissing would not be foreplay. Also, after him sucking my cock I want to kiss him and taste my cock and cum in his mouth. And of course when he cums in my mouth I want to share it with him. Everything in between before and after and during, I want to kiss deeply and look in to his eyes. I can imagine only kissing and playing around without having full on sex. It seems to me the connection would be so much more meaningful. I want all that sex has to offer with no boundaries as long as it’s tender and respectful. But, I want more than sex. I want a lasting relationship. So, kissing is a must for me. I’ve also never thought I would or could love a man. But, I also realize that once I started coming to terms with who I am and who I want to be…and coming out, I could totally fall for the right guy and share on a deeper level. I guess that’s why I know it’s not just a fantasy anymore, I am gay, I have always been gay, I’ve just never acted on it. I’ve always wanted sex with a man. I’ve never wanted anything else. So, that’s a big clue. Lol. But, kissing is a must for me…yes.
 
Wow. I can’t wait to share that experience. Because I wanted it my whole life. So, in some strange way, I already feel like I have been my whole life. I think kissing will be the first thing. I guess that would be making it to first base huh.

When I first kissed a guy in 2020 it felt odd yet incredibly familiar and a few minutes into it it was as if I had been kissing guys all my life!
Once you've kissed a guy it IS like you've been kissing guys your whole life. :kiss:
 
I guess I’m not qualified to give my opinion here because I have never kissed a man. Or had sex with a man yet. But, I am going to hopefully sooner than later. I’m finally coming out after all these years of pent up frustration. I was gay before I knew what gay was. I have always desired sucking cock and eating cum. I thought it was just some passing fantasy when I was young, very young and has never gone away. But I never considered kissing a man early on. I just didn’t think I would want to. But, as time has past and I realize that my desire to suck cock and eat cum is more than that, I realize that I want it all. I want to please and be pleased. Versatile for sure. Now I can’t imagine having sex with a guy and not kiss. Really I want that first and foremost. I want to share on a deeper level and I think that kissing is the most intimate thing you can share. Foreplay without kissing would not be foreplay. Also, after him sucking my cock I want to kiss him and taste my cock and cum in his mouth. And of course when he cums in my mouth I want to share it with him. Everything in between before and after and during, I want to kiss deeply and look in to his eyes. I can imagine only kissing and playing around without having full on sex. It seems to me the connection would be so much more meaningful. I want all that sex has to offer with no boundaries as long as it’s tender and respectful. But, I want more than sex. I want a lasting relationship. So, kissing is a must for me. I’ve also never thought I would or could love a man. But, I also realize that once I started coming to terms with who I am and who I want to be…and coming out, I could totally fall for the right guy and share on a deeper level. I guess that’s why I know it’s not just a fantasy anymore, I am gay, I have always been gay, I’ve just never acted on it. I’ve always wanted sex with a man. I’ve never wanted anything else. So, that’s a big clue. Lol. But, kissing is a must for me…yes.
Nicely put, babe. Now act on it. I once had no desire at all to kiss men, though I'd done everything else. Then I finally gave into a lover who begged me to try kissing him. Now I need the kiss. Kissing is, in a way, the most intimate of physical connection. Btw, cum kissing is fantastic!!!

P.S. Try breaking up your thoughts into paragraph. Easier to read. :sneaky: :luv2:
 
firsttimeagain said:
I can’t imagine having sex with a guy and not kiss. Really I want that first and foremost. I want to share on a deeper level and I think that kissing is the most intimate thing you can share. Foreplay without kissing would not be foreplay. Also, after him sucking my cock I want to kiss him and taste my cock and cum in his mouth. And of course when he cums in my mouth I want to share it with him. Everything in between before and after and during, I want to kiss deeply and look in to his eyes. I can imagine only kissing and playing around without having full on sex. It seems to me the connection would be so much more meaningful. I want all that sex has to offer with no boundaries as long as it’s tender and respectful. But, I want more than sex. I want a lasting relationship. So, kissing is a must for me.
I can relate to allot of of what you said in your post..
If I ever do anything with a guy, I want the kissing, the intimacy (plus cuddling/simply being close/etc) and all that, pretty much over anything else.
But I'd also desire a long-term meaningful (and monogamous) relationship (one based on love not sex). Probably not something most bi/gay guys would want, but its just always been the way I've felt.
Though in all reality it'll all just remain the stuff of daydreams for me...
 
I remember one time when I was at an adult store long time ago I would make out with this black guy in the booths in the backroom and it was nice it was just the two of us
 
I can relate to allot of of what you said in your post..
If I ever do anything with a guy, I want the kissing, the intimacy (plus cuddling/simply being close/etc) and all that, pretty much over anything else.
But I'd also desire a long-term meaningful (and monogamous) relationship (one based on love not sex). Probably not something most bi/gay guys would want, but its just always been the way I've felt.
Though in all reality it'll all just remain the stuff of daydreams for me...
Funny how different we all are on JUB. That's what makes it such a great forum for us. Me? Cuddling is the last thing I want. I don't want a relationship with a man except in the lusty physical realm. Do I like kissing and hugging a guy? Yes, but as a preliminary to our fucking and sucking and licking over the course of hours.

You said, "If I ever do anything with a guy..." Why the "if"? Just do it. It's too beautiful to pass up.
 
magicdick said:
Funny how different we all are on JUB. That's what makes it such a great forum for us.
Yep so true!

magicdick said:
You said, "If I ever do anything with a guy..." Why the "if"? Just do it. It's too beautiful to pass up.
Um yeah 'if' because the chance of me actually ever finding a boyfriend is slim-to-none. (not because of lack of wanting one, but because of 'just me' and how I am / being basically unfriendable/unloveable)
 
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