I promised myself I wouldnt make a thread asking for advice. First let me say I consider myself bisexual and no one knows that I am, let alone my guy friends. Last Friday night I came home pretty tired from work and I didnt feel like doing anything. one of my good friends calls me and tells me about this party, i tell him im too tired but in the end he convinces me to go. So we go and the party is pretty good, lots of gilrs plenty of beer. but this one guy caught my attention. hes mixed black/white. he has these amazing blue eyes and needless to say hes cute. anyway i forget about him and the whole time im dancing with some random girl and gettin pretty drunk. i go outside to get some more beer from the keg and i notice my friend talking to that guy. i walk over and i say whats up to my friend and he introduces me to him. his name is Will hes 22 lives in the apartment with 2 other roomates and he goes to a different college than i do and it also turns out hes throwing the party in his apartment. so we're talking and checking out some of the girls and everything is going pretty good. that girl i was dancing with finds me and drags me back to the dancefloor. so once again im dancing but them i feel some one rubbing up against my ass. i look back and its him dancing too with some girl. he looks back and says sorry for bumping into me. i didnt think anything of it, but the next time i could have sworn he grabbed my ass. i mean a handful of my ass lol...i turn around right away and his back is turn to me and he doesnt bother to look back or anything...so again i dismissed it. i keep dancing and this time i feel his butt grinding againsnt mine. i decided not to move or look back, so hes there grinding against me for about 1 minute or more...an hour or so later its about 2:30 a.m and people are beggining to leave. everybody starts leaving and i decided i should head home too. but before I leave I tell him I should get his number so we can party some more another night. he gives me his number and he also gives me this smile. not like a friendly smile but more like hes interested type of smile...
Now its Saturday morning and I dont go to work until 4:00 p.m. im pretty tired but I hate sleeping in. so i wake up around 8:30 a.am. i take a shower and get dressed and head to starbucks. i get back home and i decide to text him and heres our conversation:
ME: anything goin on 2night?
HIM: not that i know of yet
ME: call me if you hear about anything
HIM: k. i will.
I go to work at 4 and around 6 i get a text from him telling me there is a small get together at his place. only him and a couple of friends. i tell him ok ill stop by. and he says "ok. but come alone. is that koo?" and at first im thinking he doesnt like my friend or something. but i said ok that fine. so when i got off of work i go home shower and head to his place. i get there and its only him, some guy and 2 girls. and we're all drinking alot. we're listening to music and having a good time. and when it comes time to leave everybody is in walking distance of their house but I am waaaaay to hammered to drive. so i reluctantly asked him if i could crash at his place. he says yea and he brings me pillows and a blanket for the couch. we start talking and we move to his room because his roomates are finally going to sleep. when i entered his room i noticed it wasnt anything a straight guy would have. he had a poster of a shirtless 50 cent and another of Denzel because thats his "favorite actor" and i jokingly asked "whats up with this? are you gay?" he laughs and says "maybe...no im playin with u i aint gay". he tells me hes getting sleepy and asks me if i mind if he changes and i glady said no lol...he strips down to his boxer and i couldnt help but to stare at his MASSIVE bulge and his nicely toned stomach. and i knew he saw me stare and he just gave me this smirk lol..well he goes to sleep and i go to sleep. and meanwhile im thinking if i should make a move or something...can you guys give me some advice? is he gay? bi? is he interested at all?
Now its Saturday morning and I dont go to work until 4:00 p.m. im pretty tired but I hate sleeping in. so i wake up around 8:30 a.am. i take a shower and get dressed and head to starbucks. i get back home and i decide to text him and heres our conversation:
ME: anything goin on 2night?
HIM: not that i know of yet
ME: call me if you hear about anything
HIM: k. i will.
I go to work at 4 and around 6 i get a text from him telling me there is a small get together at his place. only him and a couple of friends. i tell him ok ill stop by. and he says "ok. but come alone. is that koo?" and at first im thinking he doesnt like my friend or something. but i said ok that fine. so when i got off of work i go home shower and head to his place. i get there and its only him, some guy and 2 girls. and we're all drinking alot. we're listening to music and having a good time. and when it comes time to leave everybody is in walking distance of their house but I am waaaaay to hammered to drive. so i reluctantly asked him if i could crash at his place. he says yea and he brings me pillows and a blanket for the couch. we start talking and we move to his room because his roomates are finally going to sleep. when i entered his room i noticed it wasnt anything a straight guy would have. he had a poster of a shirtless 50 cent and another of Denzel because thats his "favorite actor" and i jokingly asked "whats up with this? are you gay?" he laughs and says "maybe...no im playin with u i aint gay". he tells me hes getting sleepy and asks me if i mind if he changes and i glady said no lol...he strips down to his boxer and i couldnt help but to stare at his MASSIVE bulge and his nicely toned stomach. and i knew he saw me stare and he just gave me this smirk lol..well he goes to sleep and i go to sleep. and meanwhile im thinking if i should make a move or something...can you guys give me some advice? is he gay? bi? is he interested at all?
)
on this one!
