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Last night *sigh*

He's dropping so many hints all over myspace haha. He put me on his top friends, changed his mood to happy when i commented him.. made that bulletin about how his one wish is that the one he met this weekend would be the one for him. I just keep thinking about watching t.v. that morning when he snuggled into my arm and just looked up at me with his beautiful eyes.

Mick J said:
I think im gonna see him on saturday at my friends b-day party!!!! WOOOHOOO giddy girly time, ill be dancing around my room
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Doh if we're at my friends b-day with a bunch of my peers i cant exactly be .. myself. . maybe since he lives so far away and it'd be late he'd have to sleep somewhere.. (*8*) i love life. i really appreciate all the input. Goodnight :)
 
wow im pretty much spamming my own thread but another update: He is commenting with the girl i was gonna come out to. (This is open commenting meaning anyone can see , which im kinda freaked about?) and he said "I just really like him, lol i think he can read these comments, oh well i want him to know" and she said "Hes just not comfortable with his orientation yet" ............................. ............. ........... .......... .... .. . okay i wanted to see this and im glad i did but everyone can see it... but also wow okay so that disturbing fact aside, im glad she said that and im glad he said that! and as much as i keep saying "im comfortable with myself".. i think maybe she is right and i really am not?
 
Hun, you're halfway out already.

Hop on out and enjoy the fresh air.
 
either way i need to confront her before they keep "puclicly" outing me! Ok fine she knows he knows my few other girls will know but thats all i want..
omg hes gorgeous, funny, perfect, experienced (i think i heard him say he had a bf once). obivously he's socially outgoing (im not!) what does he want with ME... seriously going to bed now. though i doubt ill sleep.... homework not finished.. but who cares.
 
It seems you're comfortable with yourself, just not comfortable Being Youself in Public/Social settings. !oops!

I was raised to be SUPER Socially Sensitive as a preacher's kid! It's taken years, and years, for me to get over most of it. And, it even still kicks in every once in a while, even (or, especially) around strangers! #-o ](*,)

So ... Trust me on this!:

Most people really don't care what you're up to as much as you might think they do. And, if they should have a problem with you, it's just that ... THEIR problem! It's something that They have to cope with, not You! [-X

Oh, sure!, some people are into gossip, and are always out to find "something/someone" to talk about. And they're going to jabber even if they have to make it up! But, most of the people that know them have learned not to listen so much. And, once it isn't "News" anymore, they move on. :eek: :slap: :rolleyes:

DO NOT let what others might think, or what you think they might think, lead Your Life for You! If you do, you will end up being miserable most of the time. Follow Your Own Heart and Mind! You will seldom be lead wrong! Just Be YOU!! (group):hurray:(!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Oh Mick this whole thing is so sweet it makes me feel good to here about stories like this and you said that you feel very good about coming out and if you think its the right time then I say do it and this other guy seems like he really likes you but the only thing that matters is what you want maybe this guy just wants a one night stand (sex) with you and nothing else (I would not like that but this me LOL) or maybe hes interested in having a relationship with you but you just find what you want out of the whole situation but am so happy for you and I wish you the best
 
looseliam said:
Nonono, well, maybe.

But it's for persuasion only, I swear.

I hope he seizes this opportunity!
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Why Looseliam....is that a cattle prod in your pocket or are you just happy to see me? :p

Looseliam...your cattle prod is digging into my hip! (line from Ace Venture but it was gun not cattle prod!):badgrin:

Yeah I hope the kid does indeed get this over with...the drama. Did it ever occur to him that maybe if he just hook up with the guy, he'd have an ally to help him over come these fears of coming out. Things go alot more smoother when you have team work! :)
 
Love_chair said:
this other guy seems like he really likes you but the only thing that matters is what you want maybe this guy just wants a one night stand (sex) with you and nothing else (I would not like that but this me LOL) or maybe hes interested in having a relationship with you
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ahh didnt think of that!
 
(I only read the first post.)

Gay men make it so hard for discrete gay men to return feelings of romance and attraction when they make their moves in public. WHY DO THEY DO THAT? Esp when they know the other guy hasn't gone public with his sexuality.
 
This is great Mick J. When u talk to him, put it on the table what you want from him (what you're looking for) and what he wants.

It seems he wants to have a relationship, so you may want to see if want that too. Whatever you do, make sure you are comfortable with your sexuality and if you want to be discreet that he needs to know that too.

Just try to talk to him and if your friends are already being supportive, then your fears have been lessened.
 
Hey Mick

Let me tell you about a friend of mine. I'll call him "Bobby"

Myself and all of his friends had known ever since we met him that he was Gay. His mother even commented to us that she wished he would find him a nice boy. But he insisted that he was straight. he did this for a good 5-6 years with us.

When he wasn't around the topic of conversation would at some point come to Bobby and his "glass closet". We called it his Glass Closet because he was out to everyone but himself.... he was miserable for the most part during this time.

he finally came out to us one day and we were like it's about time! He was both astonished and relived that we all knew. It was like a huge weight was lifted off of his shoulder, and we finally got to meet the real Bobby. He is such a cool guy now!

It seems to me as though your glass closet is about to break on you whether your ready for it or not :) I think you would be surprised at how much your close friends are walking on egg shells around you, because they know already! Them constantly poking and prodding you with the "are you gay?" question... it is there way of trying to tell you to quit torturing yourself and trying to be something your not.... Straight!


Just my $.02 :)

Joshua
 
sigh .. glass closet thats me. After school today one of my girlies was like "You seemed depressed today anything on your mind?" and i just changed the subject.. Meanwhile they are commenting back and forth on myspace (not using my name thankfully anymore) and she is saying "well he says he straight but if anyone can change him its you!" and hes saying "aww.. my heart is broken. really it is. maybe im destined to be alone"

they need to stop talking about me i feel like vomitting. He sounds really sad. its only been 3 days does he feel that neglected.

Also now shes telling him that "he'll find someone else, one person cant get you down" so shes totally telling him off of me.

:help::help::help::help::help::help::help:
 
Talk to her if you want him. Either that or contact him yourself. In a week he'll be gone.
 
he told her "its just i really liked him.. i guess ill cheer up eventually" and signed off myspace . great i probably lost him. I dont think these people understand if i come out its exclusively to THEM ONLY. i feel soo sickk
 
From what I can gather outside of the myspace stuff (which is IMO bad form on their parts) no-one is going to find out you're gay that didn't already know - well except for the poor guy who fancies you that you keep lying to. Although I'm sure he'll be willing to forgive you.

If you mean that you'll have to out yourself when you start dating him, then even that doesn't have to happen. Although you may come to the conclusion that it makes your life easier and makes you feel more comfortable.
 
i just want to actually have a conversation with someone but i dont feel like i want to with any of them and i have to act fast :(
 
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