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Law of Attraction or What?

Reality101

Reality101

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The blinders have really come off since recognizing my attraction to men. I swear it seems like the majority of guys that I come in contact with lately stare at me a little longer than normal or raise an invisible brow at me. It might all be in my head, but it seems very real. I don’t know if I am just being overly aware of men looking at me for any innocent reason or if I am picking up on things that I never did beforehand. Maybe it’s both? I am new to liking guys. My gf and I fooled around with a guy a few times, and I liked it. Now, here I am. I’m not ashamed or freaked out. I’m more surprised than anything. Fascinated too. But these guys who are staring at me, some of them appear to be looking at me like I have something in my teeth but they don’t want to give me the awkward news while others seem to be legitimately scoping me out. So what does this mean? :confused: Am I giving off a vibe or something now or is this the law of attraction at it's best? Feedback would be awesome thanks.
 
i am also a self realized bi-sexual and i do realize guys lookin at me more but maybe its cuz i walk with more confidence now(before i was unsure of myself)but its fun cuz some guys know how their staring at me and i catch them and they try to pretend that they weren't lol i just don't get why some guys are freaked out by the thought of being with another guy cuz i still love women yet have the same attractions to men just enjoy the looks see where they lead you and have fun with your sexuality :D ..|
 
latinheat said:
i am also a self realized bi-sexual and i do realize guys lookin at me more but maybe its cuz i walk with more confidence now(before i was unsure of myself)but its fun cuz some guys know how their staring at me and i catch them and they try to pretend that they weren't lol i just don't get why some guys are freaked out by the thought of being with another guy cuz i still love women yet have the same attractions to men just enjoy the looks see where they lead you and have fun with your sexuality :D ..|
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I will enjoy the looks that are friendly. Some I can't read :confused: As far as guys being freaked out about being with another guy, I think it has a lot to do with their upbringing and the stigma around it. I agree with you though. Thanks for the comment. I'll try to have fun with my bisexuality as much possible within a committed relationship :)
 
You're looking at guys more and some of them pick up on it and look back where otherwise they wouldn't have... plus there have always been guys checking you out, not necessarily gay or bi, it's only that you're more aware of it now.
 
Gay men tend to look into other men's eyes and hold eye contact longer. Straight men will either avoid eye contact with men or they will look into women's eyes, if a woman is present.
 
It just means you're handsome, and you're newly willing to accept the attention.

I'll stare at a cute guy whether I think he's out or not. In fact sometimes it's fun to give a lot of eye contact to someone who's clearly uncomfortable with it--yet keeps throwing nervous glances back. ;)

You know he's going to go home and beat off to the thought of you while his gf is in the other room. LOL
 
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