Learn something new every day about straight women.

[lyconthrope]

the flacid penis is probably one of the most unappealing and oddest looking things in nature (in my opinion)

it looks a little sad and lonely hehe

a hard cock is much more asthetically pleasing but I have never understood how people get pleasure from still naked pictures.

I agree with stacy on this (yeah yeah, I know, Big surprise) there has to be something going on, some sort of sexual atmosphere/situation, to get the imagination working properly.

are naked men attractive? yes, of course

if someone is attractive are they automatically sexually appealing? no, not necessarily.


gay men can think of a woman as attractive if that is what she is (they are gay, not blind) as can gay women find men attractive.

that which is attractive is not always arousing, and that which is arousing is not always attractive

 

[CGHJ]

Regular readers of my posts know that as a porn guy who works with marines, there is generally a lot of swinging dick at my house.

Often after a party, some of the guys would end up naked. None of the girls seemed that impressed, and maybe a little turned off, by a sight that would make any man on this board cream himself instantly. In fact it got a little problematic as the chicks were always sabotaging me by trying to get the guys to put their pants back on.

Don't want to see it, fine, but this is my business...as girls, MY girls, it would have been helpful if they were encouraging them, even if they had to fake it!

Never understood it and still don't. It's like God's joke on the world. It's also why the easiest way to get a str8 guy to play is to tell him he's hot...cuz he's not going to hear hot from girls that often.

 

[Alpha1851]

But if straight women don't find the penis, as a penis, as appealing as gay men, why?

Because they have a dick too? I think our bodies "look" better. I like my organs tucked away neatly inside. I'm glad I don't have balls (they look like they're in the way.) And, I like boobs and no body hair. Maybe it's narcissism, maybe it's being comfortable around a body that mirrors your own. Maybe I'm the only chick who feels that way.

Men are hot, but like your friends, a mere picture of a naked guy does nothing for me. There's nothing to it. It turned me on before I started having sex, but I've been screwing around for years. I know the dick does more than just stand there and look ready. Even a pic of two naked guys does nothing for me. Vids are hot though! Really though, maybe I'm not thrilled to see a naked man in a pic b/c my imagination doesn't work that well. I'm not the fantasy type. I just can't conjure those images. Then again, we're hit w/ sex day in and day out. Eh, been there, done that, had the orgasms. Next!

Do pics of naked women turn you on? Are vids more arousing?

Now, if there's a hard dick in the room, well that's a different story. I'm definitely interested in that. But, that's a dick I'm going to play w/ and one that is going to make me cum. I assume. I mean, why else would a hard cock be around.

Oddly, I think hard cocks are arousing, but limp cocks look pitiful. Like an injured worm or something. And balls hold no appeal to me at all. They look like they're in the way. Oh, especially long hangers. I'm happy to suck them though, but that's b/c turning my guy on, turns me on. Maybe it's the sounds he makes. I think assholes are arousing, but unfortunately, most straight men are strictly hands off w/ that area. I just want to lick it and stick my finger up there, not my whole fist. Sheesh!

I do know what you mean about fellas though. Sometimes, we'll be running late and clothes will be flying around. I was surprised when my male buds thought changing together was arousing. Like, they were blatantly watching and wanted to see my body and enjoyed it. Which was weird to me, b/c in that moment, sex is the farthest thing from my mind. First, these are friends and colleagues, not fuck buddies. Second, we're in a hurry. Who's got time to get it up for that. I never considered changing in the same room as potentially sexual.

I love orgasms. I think about sex a lot. Sex feels great. I wonder how big each guys dick is. How long they can last in bed. Whether they're a shower or a grower. Whether they shoot or dribble. And so on. I didn't grow up in a household that discussed sex one way or the other, so no one told me it was dirty. I learned everything I knew from the neighbor boy. Just in case you're compiling our backgrounds for YOUR thesis. You know, cause you need more school loans.

 

[lyconthrope]

I wouldnt be "perplexed" by the sudden appearing of cock (because unless I just got flashed on the subway then the cock is not a sudden appearance, I know why its there!)

I wouldnt be aroused by it (as mentioned before....odd looking....sad and lonely....) I have always been more of an ass girl anyway

I would however be aroused by the situation in progress and I all the possibility for the naked man standing in front of me

 

[Kyanimal]

I'm probably going to get into trouble here ...

Males and Females are chemically (testosterone vs. estrogen), and physiologically, different. We do not react the same to identical stimuli. We exhibit different thought patterns.

Males tend to think more linearly, from front to back of our brains. Females tend to think more globally, from side to side of their brains. (Cat scans, MRI's, have born this out.)

Males are more visual. Females are more vocal. Guys prefer pictures. Girls prefer stories.

Yes?

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Alpha1851]

Regular readers of my posts know that as a porn guy who works with marines, there is generally a lot of swinging dick at my house.

Often after a party, some of the guys would end up naked. None of the girls seemed that impressed, and maybe a little turned off, by a sight that would make any man on this board cream himself instantly. In fact it got a little problematic as the chicks were always sabotaging me by trying to get the guys to put their pants back on.

Don't want to see it, fine, but this is my business...as girls, MY girls, it would have been helpful if they were encouraging them, even if they had to fake it!

I think that's the difference. Sex is easy for us. We get offered sex a million times a day by anyone we want and by men we don't want. Most men are ready to whip out their dick at a moments notice. They're happy to show it off. Men also hand out the compliments. I get them at work, at home, at the store, at the gas station, at organizational meetings, at church, and so on. Hard dicks are amazing. No two look exactly alike and no two guys fuck the same. Still, it's not a mystery. When something cums around so easily, it's hard to be impressed.

I'm not speaking for all women. I'm probably more selfish than most. I have sex to get off, not to form some bond and not b/c I care. Well, I want my guy to get off too, but I wouldn't be okay w/ just him nutting and me being left high and dry...or wet.

But hey, I'm amazed that porn chicks have a problem w/ dicks. It reminds me of the gay for pay guys that act like it's killing them to suck a dick. Since you're paying the women, why didn't you tell them beforehand what you expected. If the guys eat up male attn so long as they're complimented, why pay the chicks at all. Bad business strategy my friend.

 

[Corny]

Wait girls .. Transpoque was talking about an aroused guy walking into your room.
Not some online pics of hard cock

Personally I think that's a totally different thing. The pic is just some guy with a hardon .. something to look at and like it or not.
The other thing is a (hopefully) hot guy, directly displaying that he is sexually aroused*. And knowing that, is arousing, too


*note that having a hardon does not equal being sexually aroused. I'm always kinda baffled to notice that this is "new" for many girls :-/


Oh .. and if sex is easy for you, what is it for a gay man ?

 

[Alpha1851]

*note that having a hardon does not equal being sexually aroused. I'm always kinda baffled to notice that this is "new" for many girls :-/

We know this. The male penis is discussed in depth in almost every female magazine, book, show, etc.

If sex is easy for us, what is it for gay men? Well, my opinion depends on whose post I've read and what my gay buds have mentioned. There's everything from the existence of too many bottoms and not enough tops, to guys who want to date instead of fucking around, to those who are only into NSA, to being able to find any gay men who aren't fem, to not being able to find any gay men at all. Eh.

Besides, CGHJ was talking about studly, "straight," marines. Allegedly, "straight" fellas automatically turn the gay fellas on. Like catnip or something. Can you all get all the straight men you want. Well, it seems that half of JUB is fucking some woman's husband so I guess so. Or, it's all talk one.

 

[lyconthrope]

Oh .. and if sex is easy for you, what is it for a gay man ?

much more fun? hehe

I am a tactile person, seeing it just isnt enough, I need to be able to touch.

and women are mentall stimulated more than visually stimulated.

we'll get to the visual part but there needs to be some seduction first

 

[lyconthrope]

huh, you know now that I think of it Stacy.....I dont get cock liberally thrown at me either, maybe I am walking into the wrong rooms.

we could help each other out, i'll throw the rope if you roll over my spine

 

[Alpha1851]

Wait girls .. Transpoque was talking about an aroused guy walking into your room.

That's hot! Pics are not.

I could save a lot of money on porn if I had a variety of hard, naked, men coming in and out all day long. Hmmm.....

 

[lyconthrope]

But if this were true, then why do all my dyke friends get turned on by naked chicks?

Why do we watch porn?

We are all--straight women and gay women--socialized pretty much the same way as little girls. We have the same parts. The same hormone levels.

So, what's different?


I am CRAZY stimulated by visuals.

women dont have the "is his dick bigger than mine" issue? (just guessing)

a lack of insecurity around each other when naked, no inferiority complex about body type while watching porn etc.....


if I am already aroused by a video or a situation THEN pictures are arousing.

otherwise a picture of a hot naked guy/girl is just a hot picture which is nice to look at but only a jumping off point for me, there would need to be something to follow it to complete the task in hand

 

[Corny]

That's hot! Pics are not.

I could save a lot of money on porn if I had a variety of hard, naked, men coming in and out all day long. Hmmm.....

I would be right there with ya

We know this. The male penis is discussed in depth in almost every female magazine, book, show, etc.

So why do I still hear that "Oh my partner/bf/whatever is such a horny guy, every morning he wants sex!" "Every morning? How do you know that?" "Duh, he has a raging hardon every morning" "..... *liveactionheadbangingsmiley*

 

[lyconthrope]

but of course! what else would I hang the rope from?

 

[Alpha1851]

So why do I still hear that "Oh my partner/bf/whatever is such a horny guy, every morning he wants sex!" "Every morning? How do you know that?" "Duh, he has a raging hardon every morning" ".....

Well, he wouldn't fuck her unless he was interested right? She can't damn well rape him.

As silly as this sounds, I think it's sweet that you have female friends who feel comfortable enough w/ you to discuss their man's raging hardon. I like that.

Hey, I feel the same way about how some gay men view straight sex. The woman is being dominated. The man is in control. The woman is submissive. Women don't like sex. Women don't know how to give blowjobs. Women aren't into X, Y, or Z. All men are really bi. Eeek!

I guess we're both doing our part to educate the gals and guys who are a bit confused. Maybe we could go in halvsies on the naked men thing. You'll need to move here though. Jas will understand. I like dark headed men, I hope that's okay. I'll start interviewing our prospects for "naked aroused man." You're free to jerk off, but you've gotta clean up your own cum. I'm not a house bitch and I'm not going to ask the cleaning lady to do it.

 

[alley]

I

And thus I recognize my problem. I should be out grabbing random dicks and telling everyone who will listen that I love sex.

Finally!!!


Our work is done--she gets it now!!!

 

[COACHMN]

When I was rather young I first heard a girl say "oh, they all look alike" in reponse to male genetalia. HUH? Was my mental response. I was so perplexed for a long time until I began asking women I felt comfortable asking and got mostly the same response with few exceptions.

I just asked another woman a few minutes ago what she thought. "not much different from one guy to another" pressed she did say "size" was an ineresting difference but she could not come up with anything else.

So after decades, seems to be consistant. Guys seem to pay more attention, straight or gay, and appreciate or discriminate the appreciation and women not nearly as much do so.

-dan

 

[Alpha1851]

So Transpogue, in your experience, do you find lesbians to be more open about their sexuality than straight women. Particularly in verbalizing what turns them on?

Do naked women in general turn you on? Does it have to be another lesbian? This isn't sounding right, and I can't come up w/ a way to re-word it differently. But, for example, if a man had a hardon in my room, and I knew he was gay, I wouldn't be aroused. I know that dick isn't going to do anything for me. Then again, maybe that's b/c the gay fella would be my friend (cause why else would he be naked in my house unless he's a criminal), and none of them would turn me on. Well, some do.

 

[Corny]

As silly as this sounds, I think it's sweet that you have female friends who feel comfortable enough w/ you to discuss their man's raging hardon. I like that.

While I am very comfortable with most of my female friends, I don't talk about sex with them. It's just something I don't really want to know from friends - neither from my gay friends .. it's no secret if someone had sex with someone or whatever, but we keep the details to ourselves. My ex's girlfriends however were a bit like the typical faghag. Just that it was not only about the shopping etc, but also always about boys boys boys. Within minutes of knowing them, I knew their partners dick size, how he once fucked her in the shower until she was raw, and how great the morning sex was. Seriously .. ugh. And then you meet the guy .. like a totally nice and friendly guy. And with all that "background". Kinda irritating. Anway - I am drifting off. I have no problem with nudity or my friends seeing me nude or me seeing them. But I think sex should be between those taking part in it with each other

I guess we're both doing our part to educate the gals and guys who are a bit confused. Maybe we could go in halvsies on the naked men thing. You'll need to move here though. Jas will understand. I like dark headed men, I hope that's okay. I'll start interviewing our prospects for "naked aroused man." You're free to jerk off, but you've gotta clean up your own cum. I'm not a house bitch and I'm not going to ask the cleaning lady to do it.

Hmm interesting plan forming here. How about making the naked men clean up ? Dark haired is fine by the way, especially if they are green eyed

 

[Alpha1851]

Hmm interesting plan forming here. How about making the naked men clean up ? Dark haired is fine by the way, especially if they are green eyed

Me too! It's a plan. I'll have to hide the men from my neighbors. They're sure to talk.


Yeah, I'm older and my friends and I don't really bring up sex. We mostly discuss our careers, the law, or politics. Aside from Jason, JUB is the most exciting it gets when it comes to discussions about sex and anatomy.