Legally Young 4 Older Men

[dte]

My partner is 22 years my junior ... we have been together now for 4 years ... it has been the most blissful, fulfilling relationship for both of us. Before I met my partner I would never have thought that I would be with someone with such a huge age difference. It has not presented any problems, though we thought it would. Not only is he younger, he is from an entirely different cultural background (Japanese whilst I am Australian). It just demonstrates that if you have an open mind it does not restrict the possibilities. If I had put parameters on a relationship such as an arbitary age I would have missed being with the most wonderful man that one could imagine. After 4 years the bond is as strong as ever and has made a pretty wonderful life overall pretty well complete.

 

[MellowMel]

To TheBled,

Loving and being loved has many nuances; thus it's a learning process beyond the feel good emotions when in or out of the other's presence.

 

[MellowMel]

i am 56 my bf is 26 we have enjoyed each others company for over too long he does not want to change i don't want to change just do it live your life tomorow you may be dead enjoy life today

Well stated Buggy

 

[MellowMel]

I wasn't at first....but then he took his teeth out......

ROFLMAO -- At least you won't have to worry about the teeth while he's providing head.

 

[Drops of Jupiter]

Great attitude Drops of Jupiter!!

Thanks MellowMel. Too many people are stuck up on age differences. By limiting themselves they are missing out on what can be very fulfilling relationships.

 

[Uberherr]

I am 26 and my partner of 4 (almost 5 years now) is 56. I have always found older guys attractive and because I am not a gym rat had trouble with men my own age. Most of them when I was in school were shallow and told me to call them after I got hot. I quickly discovred the bear community and have sinced just been myself. While I am not out to my parents yet I have been wit hthe sweetest scorpio on the planet who loves me for me.

Age difference shouldn't matter but it has caused problems when we have been at events together. People are often suprised at our age differences and think its because he's a sugar daddy. Which since he is a professional musican would nevver happen. I think the gay community needs to relax its standards and jsut say "Live and let live"

Age and maturity are not the same thing.

 

[hunky]

i like younger guys.

 

[twardmo]

It just depends on what you're looking for, i mean i kind of like older guys, everyone i've dated has been at least 10 yrs older than me

 

[sparky95]

im 20...and i have a thing for older guys...

no older than 42 for me though...

older guys are a lot more understand and willing to take their time...younger guys are fucking hot, but they like to rush through shit and im not down with that.


...however, i've never been with a guy, so this is all just my assumptions.

Well, who is going to be a popular boy around here then!

 

[ahotjock71]

Why is the poll closed? I didn't get to vote. :-(