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I'm moving for grad school next month and have been looking for a roommate to help share expenses with. I found a possible roommate that I think I'm ready to agree to move in with. I can't decide if I should tell him if I'm gay or not. I just don't want to move into a bad situation. A big part of my hesitation is I'm not out yet... but I want to be when I move. I think I'm ready for it. It's just a huge step I need to take a deep breath and go for because once I tell this guy, it'll start getting around because of who he and I both know. But besides that, is it something you would tell a potential roommate? :help:
 
Yes, it's something that you tell a potential roommate. Because what if he DOES have a problem with it? Would you rather him find out AFTER you're moved in together, when he's RIGHT THERE all the time?

You don't have to make a big production out of it. You say you're dating, so frame it in that context. "I might have my boyfriend over once in awhile."

Lex
 
Thanks Lex! I did let him know and got a positive response.
 
well...that depends on what your plan is for the future? are you comfortable with being gay or are you still deep in the closet? If your plan is to hide yourself in the closet for couple more years, then I don't think you should tell him that you're gay. If you are happy with who you are, and definitely telling him would be a good start to the roommate-hood :D

good luck.
 
btiger said:
Thanks Lex! I did let him know and got a positive response.
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That's awesome that you told him. Glad you got a positive response too. Good luck with your move, your new home/roommate and, especially, grad school!
 
hotb0d said:
well...that depends on what your plan is for the future? are you comfortable with being gay or are you still deep in the closet? If your plan is to hide yourself in the closet for couple more years, then I don't think you should tell him that you're gay. If you are happy with who you are, and definitely telling him would be a good start to the roommate-hood :D

good luck.
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I did plan to be out so it's all good. I haven't yet but wanted to be out when I move so this is a good, positive step for me. I'm out to two other people and the were fine with it. I just haven't taken the big step to tell my friends yet.
 
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