Letter to the community

[pat grimshaw]

... feel up to it...

It's an expression meaning

"to have the energy to do something"

"to have enough energy, motivation, or emotional wherewithal to be able to do something.

 

[NotHardUp1]

What do you mean "i don't seem to feel up to it?"

I think he's inferring that your posts talk about failure via online hookup sites whereas he believes, as do several reading your posts, that you stand to fare better by socializing in gay circles rather than putting all your marbles in your hookup chances.

When encouraged to make tracks to gay groups you have either demurred or rationalized away why you cannot.

Yeah, I think that's what Harke means.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

What do you mean "i don't seem to feel up to it?"

It's an expression meaning

"to have the energy to do something"

"to have enough energy, motivation, or emotional wherewithal to be able to do something.

You need the whirling wherewithal to get with it (British expression).

I think he's inferring that your posts talk about failure via online hookup sites whereas he believes, as do several reading your posts, that you stand to fare better by socializing in gay circles rather than putting all your marbles in your hookup chances.

When encouraged to make tracks to gay groups you have either demurred or rationalized away why you cannot.

Yeah, I think that's what Harke means.

Harke means you have to put actual effort into something other than rationalizing why what you do isn't working.

 

[Pierresro]

You miss my point. I'm not taking about the AIDs epidemic. I'm taking about the lack of respect gays have for each other. Weather it be in real life or media gay are put each other down and being nasty. Yes we survived and persevered but we are not United. All I have ever seen are caddy bitches.
And for the record I'm not talking about any one here this what I've seen in life.

Croft you apparently have the wrong firned or are living in the wrong community MOVE!

 

[rareboy]

You miss my point. I'm not taking about the AIDs epidemic. I'm taking about the lack of respect gays have for each other. Whether it be in real life or media, gay are putting each other down and being nasty. Yes we survived and persevered but we are not united. All I have ever seen are catty bitches.

And for the record I'm not talking about any one here this what I've seen in life.

There. Fixed that up for you.

You are generalizing. All homos are not out there trashing every other homo.

And some homos fully deserve all the cattiness directed at them.

Sometimes the harsh judgments have been elevated to an art form.

I don't know where you are finding all this hate, but I think you might be hanging out in the wrong places...particularly if you are on-line.