boy0boy
Porn Star
Dude that's exactly what I'm talking about. It's not that I want a relationship, I don't even think I want one because it takes so much time and attention, I just want that person to be a friend or still care AFTERWARDS. Someone who I can still talk to about things more than I would with a friend because we were at the 3rd base. If that person only wants a one time hook up, I feel as if that person is there to use you for his satisfaction, and you are in turn a "free ride whore" for him in my view.
It kind of sounds like a lot of the guys just want a regular and steady "Fuck Buddy" /" Friend ".
That sounds all good and fine ;BUT be careful ... once you begin having sex, it seems like these things called "Feelings" and "Emotions slip in and the next thing ya' know ... You are in a Relationship ...
You can't wait to see him again ... If he is out with friends , YOU begin to wonder what he is doing and with who = Jealousy ....
The list goes on .... and this is not to mention that IF this ends up being an open relationship ... what about the STDs or Aids ... unless your life is worth the risk ?
Yeah I know KennyD that this could come dangerously close to being a "fuck buddy" situation, but in reality that isn't what I want at all.
As for the attatchment issue... I can't speak for everyone, but I can turn my attraction on and off like a switch, I would never be the type to like be controlled by lust for a hot guy or fool myself into like believing it was more than what it is.

















