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Liking fuck buddy a lil too much

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ok so I've been hooking up with this guy for about a month now and I think I'm developing feeling for him. I don't think I want to tell him. Even if I did want to tell him I wouldn't know where to start. I'm sure this has happened to other people on here. How did you handle it? I'm afraid to tell him because I want to continue hooking up with him. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
 
I just don't get it. How can anyone have a "Fuck buddy" without having at least SOME feelings for him? Maybe I'm just weird, but I have to actually LIKE someone (and that does involve feelings) before having sex with him.

So what's wrong with that? Isn't that what makes us human?
 
A fuck buddy is specifically a sexual connection WITHOUT any emotional attachment. It is designed specifically and solely to be a sexual outlet. You can certainly LIKE your fuck buddy - presumably everybody does - but you're not supposed to get an emotional attachment with them.

"What's wrong with a relationship?" Nothing, if both partners agree to it. But in a fuckbuddy relationship, you've basically stated that that isn't in the cards.

Lex
 
We are more than genitalia and have emotions. The danger of having a fuck buddy is emotional attachment. You can't have it all. In the day, there were tea rooms, glory holes, parks and alley ways.

Careful: Keep sticking your dick in the same person and you might develop feelings for the guy, or he for you.
 
maybe it's time for you to ask if he wants to go to dinner and movie.
 
I actually just stopped hooking up with a friend of mine because he wanted to make it a relationship. Who knows, he might have the same feelings for you, but you also have think about the risk of losing the fuck-buddy thing if he doesn't.
 
ok... so i told him and I think we're going to get something to eat and talk. Hopefully all goes well.
 
I know that I'm gonna get tomatoes thrown at me for saying this;
this also isn't the norm for everyone;
and by all means, not a criticism of anyone either,

...however, I couldn't imagine needing sex so much that I wanted a fuck buddy without the emotional connection!

cinbengals - I hope that this goes well for you!
 
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