List Five Great Qualities About The Last Man You Love(d) Or Long(ed) For.

[TheLoveableLoner]

This could be your last boyfriend, crush, fling, date, whatever. Or current. Whoever the last guy to hold your affections may be. What are five great qualities about him that drew you to him or keeps you with him that come to mind? I've been thinking so much about a certain guy from my past and I'd love to share more about him as even the thoughts of us continue to bring me joy.

I realize that in many cases, your last may be an ex and there might be bitterness... but I want this thread to be for the positive.

Can't wait to hear what you guys have to say!

 

[eastofeden]

Hmmmm..

My BF of 29 years...

Intense
Thoughtful
Beautiful Soul and Spirit
Kind
Genuine
Honest
Sexy

 

[dpnice]

When I met him he was the most beautiful man I had ever met.
Intelligent; capable of holding a conversation with anyone on any subject, it was amazing seeing him "work" a room full of strangers.
Incredibly annoying in knowing more than I did and always testing me on my knowledge.
Introduced me to a world I never knew existed.
Treating me as a beautiful, witty, intelligent and sociable person; all of which I was not but he made me believe that I was.

Because of these and many more attributes we are still close friends after 43 yrs and he is sleeping in my guest bedroom at the present moment.

 

[Rex]

He has a thick, southern accent.

He was a wrestler.

He has a hell of a body.

I was the first guy he's ever had sex with.

He finally accepted himself as being bisexual after being in denial for over a year, even though it took many angry knock-down, drag out brawls, angry text messages, him saying he never wants to speak with me again and that I ruined his life, and a lot of heart ache We've been on good terms ever since.

 

[The Fly]

Smart
Funny
Adventurer
Compassionate
Can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.

 

[dpnice]

........................Can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.

Oh I think that is an essential quality for any partner.

 

[backagain]

A sense of humor
sensitive
British accent
A way with words
cuddling
making me feel that I am the next best thing since ice cream was invented.

 

[HoodedRat]

Funny
Intelligent
Creative
Wise
Compassionate

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

cooooor

thankyou

*coooooooooor*
go on bit

 

[goldenmoth]

A geek
A cat person
Hopefully funny and doesn't mind my bad jokes
Not clingy
Always optimistic.

This is what I'm looking for

 

[JPGhost]

Huge pecs
bouncing balls
mouthwatering taint..
pointy nipples
meaty back

 

[JPGhost]

wait..

I like individual person/not clingy
supportive/guiding
funny
not that smart
less complicated

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

This isn't about what you're looking for so much as the qualities the last guy you liked had.

I'm only pointing that out because sometimes guys we come across have great qualities we don't know were looking for, or just never expected.

 

[glasvegas]

Intelligence
Dark humor
Linguist
Geordie accent

And I am his first homosexual sexual contact.

I adore him as a friend thou.

 

[medic1]

Honesty

Tactile

Loving

Communication

Commitment

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

1. He's very educated and from Puerto Rico, which makes him both well spoken and with a sweet accent that made listening to him talk so incredible to me.

2. He's an artist, one who knows exactly what career path he wants and works hard to attain it. While not producing stage work, he teaches theater in a college.

3. He's very open, emotional, and communicative.

4. Sexually, he completely blew my mind. We didn't go all the way, and yet his touch still lingers. I've never felt so great to be touched by a man before. His kisses were amazing. He was very intense, yet comforting and sweet.

5. He smiled. A lot. All the time. Very similar to me. In fact, he has a quirk of mine that I've yet to meet one other person with, where he smiles and laughs even when nervous, or to fill empty pauses. It's almost as automatic as breathing. It's such a small detail, but running into someone who has such a unique quirk of mine was huge. It put me at ease. I was instantly comfortable with him in a way I've never really been with other guys. I thought "he gets me." Which is crazy because no one gets me. There was a near immediate sense of trust.

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

Duplicate. Delete, please.

 

[G-Lexington]

* Excellent sense of humor.

* Our minds are very in sync. There's not a lot of explaining to do, as we both simply seem to "get it", no matter what it is. In fact, when there IS some sort of miscommunication, it's often a bit of a bigger problem than it could've been, simply because we're not used to having to deal with that.

* We both like to go and "do things" - go to museums, go to sporting events, try new hobbies.

* We both love food, and love trying new recipes or new restaurants.

* He's got a great ass.

Lex

 

[goldenmoth]

1. He's very educated and from Puerto Rico, which makes him both well spoken and with a sweet accent that made listening to him talk so incredible to me.

2. He's an artist, one who knows exactly what career path he wants and works hard to attain it. While not producing stage work, he teaches theater in a college.

3. He's very open, emotional, and communicative.

4. Sexually, he completely blew my mind. We didn't go all the way, and yet his touch still lingers. I've never felt so great to be touched by a man before. His kisses were amazing. He was very intense, yet comforting and sweet.

5. He smiled. A lot. All the time. Very similar to me. In fact, he has a quirk of mine that I've yet to meet one other person with, where he smiles and laughs even when nervous, or to fill empty pauses. It's almost as automatic as breathing. It's such a small detail, but running into someone who has such a unique quirk of mine was huge. It put me at ease. I was instantly comfortable with him in a way I've never really been with other guys. I thought "he gets me." Which is crazy because no one gets me. There was a near immediate sense of trust.

That sounds so beautiful

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

^ Thanks. The longing I've had for him is one of the most beautiful things I've ever experienced. I can only imagine the love that may have ensued if he were ready to date. Just thinking about that small time we spent with each other makes me happy.