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Living with Parents....

LilVirgin

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you know what sucks living with parents is that i can't have any freedom... i just got into a fucking fight with my mom of not spending the night with someone i met online we talked to eachother every day and shit... and i thought being gay i would have more freedom but NO!!! im stuck in this fucking house locking myself up in my room and apparently i dont have great social skills and they are right.. and i thought when i came out and dated guys my social skills would improve a little bit and they did....

fucking hell...
 
So you told your parents you've been speaking to a guy online and want to spend the night at his house?

It's not surprising the answer is no. Second why did you tell them in the first place. Third aren't you an adult now? Is it time to move out.
 
anchihiro said:
So you told your parents you've been speaking to a guy online and want to spend the night at his house?

It's not surprising the answer is no. Second why did you tell them in the first place. Third aren't you an adult now? Is it time to move out.
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your right i should have kept my fucking mouth shout... sometimes i can be a fucking idiot (well not my fault if i have Mild Intellectual Disorder)...
 
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i know your pain, and sometimes it's not so easy as just "moving out" sometimes for some ppl it's just not an option at that point in life. just hang in there and learn from your mistakes: learn what to say and who to say it to.
 
So now is the time where you go out and do it anyway. make your parents realize that they cant control you.
 
It's not so easy to just move out, to those who are telling him to.

I'm 20 and I still live here with my parents while attending college. It's annoying, sure, but I have no other option. Literally, I do not. I understand where the OP is coming from.
Hang in there man! You need to tell them that you're 21 and you're not gonna take this from them. Tell them exactly that. And then don't tell them every detail of your life, either.
 
Do you WANT to move out? Never once have I ever thought that I wanted to live with my parents, so I always made it a goal to just make enough money to pay my own rent for my own place.
 
I stayed to long, till i was 27.
A needy mother
And me not sticking up fot myself
All in hindsight now
Having said that Its Hard bloody hard
 
On a positive note: FREE RENT & FREE FOOD when living with parents!!!

Weighing costs with benefits...this is the journey in making decisions in life.
 
HunterM said:
On a positive note: FREE RENT & FREE FOOD when living with parents!!!

Weighing costs with benefits...this is the journey in making decisions in life.
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Not everyone gets free rent when they're adults and still live with parents :p

anchihiro said:
Third aren't you an adult now? Is it time to move out.
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That's not always an option....especially if you're going to school and rent/dorming will cost more of a fortune.
 
Living with your parent(s) as an adult is not easy, especially after you've came out to them. While I am at home (as opposed to being at school), my mom just has one rule: Let her know. Not to approve or disapprove, but just to be aware. Now that she knows I am gay she wonders if I am with my boyfriend or not. The first time I went to his house my mom was livid, but there was nothing she could do about it.

Though I am not sure why you told your mom you were going to spend the night over some dude you meant online house. That is just begging for an argument, lol. I know it is a little junior high, but to avoid conflict why not just a little white lie? Tell her you are going to a friend's house...My advice is that you let someone know where you are, however, because you never really know what could happen.

Hang in there though! One day you'll be out on your own, hopefully
 
Thanks guy's for your help well i met him yesterday and it was an amazing night and he is SOO nice i think it's going to be a great new friendship:]!!... and i even stayed at his place hehe we cuddled in bed and watch a movie + his heartbeat made me fall asleep lol :P...

I'm sorry if i was a bit bitchy to you guy's :(... i'm hoping to do this again:D... we do keep in touch with eachother via txting and msn hehe

again sorry for the bitchy part :s

also it's rare for me because i usually used to date guy's far away (well not that far sometimes 2 hours or 3 hours from me)... and he only lives 20 min from my place:D..
 
^Good idea to let someone know. How about meeting the guy in a public place during the day? While your goal maybe greater independence and having your own place, it doesn't seem possible at the moment. You deserve to make some adult decisions; your parents may feel they have the right to set ground rules for someone living in their home. They don't want to live with daily fear.

Before you are able to move out you need to negotiate some new ground rules. Give it a try and good luck.

No one should be getting grief on this forum. If that happens message me or any moderator.
 
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