Loneliness and Partners, Why?

[Shepherd 2]

I am officially back on Hot Topics, I have been away for awhile. So I am going to start my first thread here in a long time.

I am a partnered man, and those of you who are alone may not want to read this. I am alone for about five days, and I have learned that I do not do separation from my partner well. I hope I can get some sleep before Sunday night or Monday.

When we are finished in our partner activity at night, my partner has always fallen asleep cuddling me in his arms with his cock holstered in my arse crack.
I have learned the last two nights that I miss him terribly when he is away, and I cannot sleep without him holding me in his arms and with the intense body heat he brings to our bed. Even a king size round cushion to lean back against did not help.

If we ever separated or he died, I would die of sleep deprivation in no time. I am a wimp about being alone and loneliness.

What is a horny sleepless man to do?

Shep+

 

[BenF]

What is a horny sleepless man to do?

Look on the internet for someone up for a one-night stand.

 

[Telstra]

What is a horny sleepless man to do?

keep busy ..........

 

[Spiff]

Look on the internet for someone up for a one-night stand.

The problem (or benefit for some) with those is that most want to kick you out of their bed right after the sex.

 

[BenF]

The problem (or benefit for some) with those is that most want to kick you out of their bed right after the sex.

Your point being??

 

[Telstra]

Qixote was talking about "one nite stand" , kick out after sex !!

 

[G-Lexington]

Slip one of your partner's Tshirts around a king size pillow, and snuggle that. No, it won't be the same. But it'll remind you what you'll be doing once he gets back.

Lex

 

[Jory]

Think about this your loneliness is only temporary, where some people here such as myself is eternal

 

[Telstra]

Slip one of your partner's Tshirts around a king size pillow, and snuggle that. No, it won't be the same. But it'll remind you what you'll be doing once he gets back.

Lex

sounds like he is dead or something. (sorry i'm not trying to offend).

 

[JayHawk]

I have had similar feelings since I met James. I have a job that by design means I leave frequently. I have learned to deal with learning to sleep alone again by working hard and also working out hard. It allows me to fall off completely exhausted. James on the other hand sleeps with a light on and with at least one of the dogs in the bed so he feels safe. I also keep myself together knowing what i working to come home to and it helps a lot

 

[dpnice]

.............................. I am alone for about five days, and I have learned that I do not do separation from my partner well...................................................

Well there is the problem. It is the now you are here, now you are gone syndrome.

Us single guys have learnt to cope with being alone in bed because it is continuous, night after night. So we have learnt to come to terms with it. You have the pleasure of sharing your bed a few nights of the week and then being alone for the rest. Goodness what many of us wouldn't give to have your problem.

Have you thought of bigamy? Someone to fill up your free days or nights in your case.

 

[Shepherd 2]

Mazada3boi,
How ironic, I just turned in my Mazada 3 company car in July. I was unsure about this thread, as I am about Hot Topics as I return, but I have decided to jump in with both feet. Some of you gave good advice, and I realize I am pretty fragile with my partner and I are apart like these next few days.

I am not open to one night stands, and have never had one except for my rapes when I was a teen. I could not do it.

I appreciate that anyone felt it worthy to respond in even a humorous way. I know I am very fortunate, and when I read Jory's response I wept, and think that I am a bit of a selfish asshole. But 22 years, and it is not easy to sleep without him. I can invent sex for me alone, such as it is, but nothing replaces him.

This has been reassuring to me, so I will enter another thread, but a bit more light hearted and fun oriented. Thanks.

Shep+