Look Gay.

[bendyjoe]

Its ok to look gay.... believe me, its harder to get on if you don't!

 

[maxpowr9]

I had to make myself a bit more gay physically. I could never do the the whole boa thing, although a scarf is pretty damn close to a boa.
I pierced my right ear and my left nostril. Well funny thing about that. Call me naive but apparantly it is customary for female babies in India to get their left nose pierced after theyre born. At college, I get such dirty looks from Indian women. They probably think I have a pussy (which I don't) or think I'm disrespecting their culture (which I am not).

 

[CoolBlue71]

Well I used to consider myself pretty much not flaming or anything but now... people tell me I "look" gay!

Is this a good thing since people can now tell or bad because I don't look straight?

Any thoughts?

I wouldn't say that people mean well when making these remarks, so, no -- it is not a…good thing. I don't think such a remark comes from anyone who could be…meaning…well.

I question what motivates anybody to say this to someone. I think what' intended is ridicule and/or harm. And it's as if what's being said is, "Stop it!" (That would be from a relative or friend, expressing he/she is embarrassed.)

If you're feeling like blasting anyone else who pulls this s---, look that person up and down, left and right, and observe how that individual appears. Good chance that person will look like something dragged in off the street. Tell him/her, "If you actually cared about how you look, I might be willing to consider what you've just said." It'll take awhile, with some, for this remark to sink in.

 

[strataboy19]

Yeah, my friends say I look gay at times...not because of the way I dress or look, but they say sometimes I'm too nice to others. Don't know how being nice makes me look gay but oh well.

 

[Neji]

Have never been told that. I was once told I was gay but I think he was saying it as a joke although I could have been wrong.

 

[boy0boy]

Well my source isn't a reliable one. She gets a lot of things wrong. Just to clear that up.. but it made me think of things. Like people told me when I came out... well before we would have been more surprised but you've been dressing more questionable. I think the most obvious clue no matter what style, is the tighter fitting clothes.