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Look What This Guy Does To Me!!!

Christopher123

Christopher123

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First of all, it's not a bad thing to love someone. The only bad thing (for you) is when you love someone too much and they don't have the same feelings back. That can hurt.

Secondly, if he's this touchy-feely with you, maybe he wants to be closer to you than he's letting on. That would be my guess, anyway. Most guys are not the huggy/touchy-feely type. At least not with other men. Not unless they WANT to be.

I'm sure others will chime in. Maybe they can shed some better light on it. I hope he's not just playing head games with you, but if a guy came up to me in his underwear and hugged me from behind - well, sorry, but I'm going to assume there's more there.
 
:chime:

The only boys I've met who act in the way you describe, I've slept with eventually. If that's any indication as to why I think he is this way.
 
Yea, it sounds like he's looking for more.. If my roommate did that, I would totally turn around and make out with him.
 
when did he get this way: really early on in the relationship, or later on once things were comfortable?

if it was early on, my guess would be he wants more.
 
odds are very high he is hot for you. men just don't do that over and over unless they feel something. so, why not 'feel' something the next time it happens? At least you'll know.
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Next time he does something like that, remark how good it feels, If he reacts poorly to the comment, you can always play it off as a joke. Do you initiate physical contact? If not, you should and see how he reacts. Next time you go to wake him up, do it like a loving mother would (a gentle touch). I think there is a good chance that he is into you, but given the limited information it is really hard to draw a good conclusion.
 
^^ Yup!~

Next time he hugs you from behind, reply "Kiss my neck. Mmmm" ;)
 
I'd be lying if I thought there wasn't something between you two. I think you'll have to explore this further, and see what happens. I'd say he's got something for you.
 
Good suggestions here - play along with it and see how far he goes: "Ooh yeah baby, I like the way you touch me ... " LOL!! And don't back out if the going gets good! :p

BTW, I have always noticed that Asian men tend to have AWESOME calves! I don't know why! :)
 
If he keeps it up, come out to him. He needs to know that his behavior might not be appropriate with you. The same way that he shoudn't do that sort of thing with a heterosexual girl.
 
Do not fall in love head over heels. Although, it looks like, you already have...

Yup, play his game. If he is touchy-feely, you go that way, too. When he holds you, hold him couple of secs longer. He'll get the message that you love that stuff loud and clear.

Think twice before dumping that Big Gay Thing on him. He might not be all that much into being as opposed to being very close physically with you. In other words, he might be perfectly willing to go deeper and further with you but may not wish to enter into the whole gay discourse.

Have fun and do not take it too seriously. Enjoy it for whatever it may be worth, but do not place all your future bets on it.

SC
 
I don't think you should take it as being much more than just showing friendship. Contrary to what's being said here, lots of guys are "touchy-feely" without wanting to fuck you in the ass.

Just because a guy shows some affection doesn't mean that he's gay, bi or even just curious - most of the time it simply means that he likes you ("as a friend"). If you start coming on to him more than likely it will make everybody involved feel uncomfortable given the high probability that he wont appreciate your advances. Meaning you lose a close friend and he does too.
 
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