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Looks like I'm not completly straight

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cp2345

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First of all its been great to find this forum, read a lot of posts over the last 24 hours and you seem like a sound bunch. I'm going to tell you my story, because nobody else knows.

I'm in my late 20's and always considered myself straight, came out of a 3 year relationship last year and been single since. With being single comes porn and I found myself wondering what it must be like for the bird, to take the dick and suck it. You can probably see where this is going....

Anyway in the UK at the moment is a new legal drug called MM-Cat which I've taken a few times. One side effect is it can make you very horny and I started contemplating being fucked by blokes.

Thing is I don't really fancy them, if I'm walking down a street it will be the pretty girls that catch my eye. Still watch straight porn, tried gay, but doesn't seem to do it for me. However I did decide I should at least have a go, so joined gaydar and found a couple who were willing to break me (I’m greedy). It was quite nerve wrecking going round, but they were sound blokes and took their time with me. :-)

My head went a bit funny after that, but I've decided for now I just don't know where I stand, so going to keep experimenting with no strings stuff. It's weird I don't mind sucking another mans cock, but can't bring myself to kiss him.

I've been looking over Recon and finding myself drawn into the idea of bondage and being very submissive. Who knows where the adventure will end up, but will be interesting explaining it all next time I meet a nice girl.
 
Thanks for sharing your story. You don't have to do everything at once; just experiment with what is comfortable for you.

I am still experimenting myself. Good Luck!
 
Rather than trying to pin it down to a label, how about going with just being sexual?

We're all sexual beings, why give yourself limits? Just enjoy what comes your way.
 
So you're "heteroflexible", eh? You sound like you are very much heterosexual. Sounds like dudes are a kink for you instead of a preference, which is totally cool man. It's all part of the journey. So why not fool around with some guys? It's no big deal, but it sure can be a lot of fun. ;)
 
"heteroflexible" is an awesome term!! i agree with the above keep experimenting but be safe and know your limits, and only try bondage with someone you trust
 
Thanks for the responses, its good to be able to share it. I did sort of beat myself up about the first time, but came to release that it was fun (although I hurt for a few days - they were large!).

I moved to quite a remote spot last year for work, which I don't plan to stay in, so meeting anyone has to be through the net really. The more I think about it, the more I realize that its as much about being dominated and used, rather then the kind of sex I like with women.

Sad/Good thing is I'd half heartedly tried straight dating sites for about 9 months, without much joy, sign up to Gaydar and my inbox is buzzing! Would be nice if people didn't just send me pictures of their cock though.

As for labels? Hetroflexible? Why not?
 
Glad to hear you're having a great time and learning more about yourself in the process man. That's what it's all about! I know what you mean about dudes sending pics of their dicks, though. I'm attracted to men - as in entire men and not just one part of their anatomy.

Cheers!
 
Anyone know what MM-Cat would be here in USA?
 
Congrats. It's a win-win situation as it can only double your pleasure. You are endowed with cock and pussy. A real man uses them both.
 
Don't worry about labeling yourself and have fun... but be careful about the drugs!

when you call mephedrone a legal drug that implies it's been sanctioned by testing on humans, but it hasn't... in reality it just isn't illegal

so you're taking something that's been created for other purposes - not human consumption - and not manufactured in a sterile and controlled environment, but in some warehouse where other substances can contaminate the product. :wave:
 
I think as time goes on you will realize it is less about "domination" and "being used" as it is about letting go and enjoying sex as sex and being horny and wild and all that without the relationship baggage of straight sex.

I tend to find "straight" sex (m/w) more about the conquest and "gay" sex more about bonding and physical enjoyment. Which is why once you start getting into it, you stop thinking so much top and bottom and start exploring what makes you orgasm better.
 
Congratulations on finding out how wonderful it is to have sex with men. There is nothing better.
 
cp2345 said:
First of all its been great to find this forum, read a lot of posts over the last 24 hours and you seem like a sound bunch. I'm going to tell you my story, because nobody else knows.

I'm in my late 20's and always considered myself straight, came out of a 3 year relationship last year and been single since. With being single comes porn and I found myself wondering what it must be like for the bird, to take the dick and suck it. You can probably see where this is going....

Anyway in the UK at the moment is a new legal drug called MM-Cat which I've taken a few times. One side effect is it can make you very horny and I started contemplating being fucked by blokes.

Thing is I don't really fancy them, if I'm walking down a street it will be the pretty girls that catch my eye. Still watch straight porn, tried gay, but doesn't seem to do it for me. However I did decide I should at least have a go, so joined gaydar and found a couple who were willing to break me (I’m greedy). It was quite nerve wrecking going round, but they were sound blokes and took their time with me. :-)

My head went a bit funny after that, but I've decided for now I just don't know where I stand, so going to keep experimenting with no strings stuff. It's weird I don't mind sucking another mans cock, but can't bring myself to kiss him.

I've been looking over Recon and finding myself drawn into the idea of bondage and being very submissive. Who knows where the adventure will end up, but will be interesting explaining it all next time I meet a nice girl.
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here's my question. can u detail the first time you took a dick in your mouth? thats fairly recent, right? how did that go for u?
 
tommyj said:
Anyone know what MM-Cat would be here in USA?
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It's also known as mephedrone (not to be confused with the stuff they give junkies)

Its never been available in the US because the way your drug laws work. In the US they group things together so even when it hadn't been invented/synthesised it was still illegal. In the UK they will have to pass a law to make it so, which hasn't happened yet. However its starting to get some media attention now, so its just a matter of time.

I was going to give you some links but not allowed, but its on wiki and an example of a shop that sells it (and others) is www. uklegals.co.uk.
 
3nipples said:
Don't worry about labeling yourself and have fun... but be careful about the drugs!

when you call mephedrone a legal drug that implies it's been sanctioned by testing on humans, but it hasn't... in reality it just isn't illegal

so you're taking something that's been created for other purposes - not human consumption - and not manufactured in a sterile and controlled environment, but in some warehouse where other substances can contaminate the product. :wave:
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Your quite right, its not legal, just not illegal. It produced in bulk in labs in china, so whilst there is a risk, its probably smaller then buying a random e/pill that you don't know what's in.

Anyway, didn't come to these boards to argue with folks about drugs, I know other people with have different opinions to mine and I respect that.
 
Paradigm said:
I think as time goes on you will realize it is less about "domination" and "being used" as it is about letting go and enjoying sex as sex and being horny and wild and all that without the relationship baggage of straight sex.

I tend to find "straight" sex (m/w) more about the conquest and "gay" sex more about bonding and physical enjoyment. Which is why once you start getting into it, you stop thinking so much top and bottom and start exploring what makes you orgasm better.
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Fair point, will just have to see what develops on that front. Maybe I'm just enjoying the turn around of roles after just straight sex?
 
mariovm said:
here's my question. can u detail the first time you took a dick in your mouth? thats fairly recent, right? how did that go for u?
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I enjoyed....like I said I met a couple of blokes of gaydar and went to their place. Very nervous at first, but we chatted for a while, then when I was relaxed one of them took me upstairs and douched me. After that he loosened me up, then started to fuck me. When it got to sore, I turned around and started to suck him. I thought back to all the straight porn I'd watched and did the best I could. He seemed to enjoy it. :-)

After that we moved next door and his partner joined in as well. They were both quite large, but patient and a fun night was had by all (but I was mighty sore the next day).
 
Holy smokes! When you try something, you try something! It looks as if you are completely, as one guy put it, heteroflexible all right. Most guys giving M/M sex a first try would've stuck to a mutual jacking off - or sucking cock.
But, I have to agree with most of the replies here: Don't concern yourself with labels. Enjoy what you enjoy....
 
From reading your post I think you are from Liverpool. Is that right?? Give me your gaydar name or I'll give you mine.
 
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