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looks like Ive given up on this site.

Move on. Don't waste your time with Paul. Let him figure things out on his own. Once he no longer has your constant attention, he may come to terms with his own sexuality.

There are a million Pauls out there and if they can't feel completely comfortable with you then they really aren't the best 'friends' to have around.

Ask yourself why you really want him around. Is it because he's a good friend or you just hope his guard will be down one day and you can fuck him?
 
I've asked myself that question depends on which part of my mind your asking. Its alot of everything. I love everything about him. He's the kind of guy I always wanted to be with. I use to only be attracted to his looks even though other people wouldn't but now I love his personality. THe more I learn about him the more I want him. which is kinda pissing me off but its a different kind of want it use to be more lust but now its more romantic. I would reather be his friend he's a wonderful person now that Ive sorted alot out with him. I love the person he is. I love everything dude and it makes it hard because now I dont knw. Once I told him though I feel less want more like I'm willing to wait for him more!
 
I don't quite understand what your "problem" is other than having these feelings for your possibly-confused friend. You wanted suggestions for the "next step" and I agree with most people in that you should just continue being his platonic friend. If that is too difficult, then perhaps it's best to spend less time with him.

You do, however, seem intent on trying to find out whether he's gay or not. I'll admit that from what you've said, it sounds as if he may be questioning his sexuality (specifically from that conversation where he essentially said he was afraid of being labeled as gay). It's hard to say what to do in that situation. Maybe he's secretly trying to reach out to you to help him out, or maybe he's trying to tell you to back off because he's uncomfortable with your homosexuality. Who knows? If he is reaching out, all he needs is a friend to listen to him, not someone trying to get into his pants. So in any case, a platonic friend is what you need to be to him.

Hope that helps, good luck!
 
Absolutely nothing that you have said clearly indicates Paul's sexual orientation. I have had straight friends who are as affectionate and comfortable as Paul is with other guys.

You need to let it go - he knows that you are gay. If he is interested in you, *and* is clear (in his head) about his orientation, then he can make the move.
 
Paul is straight and will never fall in love with a guy. It's OK and very normal that you would have a crush on him. You can always love him,It just didn't work out. Consider him a special crush and move on to the next.
 
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