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Losing Your Virginity

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Does anyone here regret losing their virginity to the person you lost it to?

I was 14 when I lost it to this friend and I never regret it. I remember just messing around with the guy without really knowing exactly what we were doing. Eventually I got really big feelings for this guy and even though he never felt the same I don't think I regret losing my virginity to him.
 
Still not lost my "anal-virginity" but I don't really regret any of my previous gay experiences.
 
13 for me i don't regret it, It was fun i don't believe in saving it for marriage/or That right person what if that never happens you end up dying a virgin. Lose it while you can!
 
i lost it to a 25 year old lesbian when i was 15. My sister fucked her girlfriend and I was a revenge fuck.

it was fabulous. I've loved hairy tatooed men ever since.
 
I've been sexually active since I was 18 and never regretted anything I've done,

A ripe 19

19 isn't really anything to be ashamed of, if it happens it happens, if not the situation just wasn't there or you weren't ready.

Personally, any younger then about 16 I think is too young. 15/16 year olds who are in a relationship, I think that's justifyable to an extent, but being younger than that just seems like a reflection of the over-sexulisation of youth.

Not trying to chastise anyone, I know two people said they were 13/14 respectively - you don't have any regrets and are open about it so not saying its left you scarred or anything - just too me, I think its too young, just finding your feet as a teenager at that point, not a time to be sexually active.
 
Agreed Under-taken, I'm fine with my current age and what I've done regarding my sex life. I also agree about age of sex.
 
I'll let you know when it happens - I'm nearly 34, and have had no sexual contact, of any sort, with anyone. That's just the way my life went, and I wish it didn't, but there's nothing I can do about that.

It may be many years yet, if ever, that I find someone with sufficient patience and understanding of my situation that I'll be comfortable doing stuff with. Otherwise, I'd likely be extremely nervous, anxious, and possibly upset.

I dunno, I'm not really very optimistic about this issue being resolved any time soon.
 
Yeah, it was this total bastard. He even lied about his age too. . .turned out to be oh, about 14 years older than i'd ever even consider sleeping with.


Ew.
 
Even though I lost my virginity at 14 looking back I do think I was to young. I remember really not knowing what we were doing, it was really sloppy.
 
He was alright.

It wasn't anything to write home about, but it wasn't a total disappointment.

The next person however, wow!
 
Haven't lost my man on man virginity yet. Just with women, but as far as I'm concerned that doesn't count.
 
I don't regret the person or the experience... but I do regret making such a big deal of it and bringing so many unrealistic expectations to the table. At 19, I had all these stupid romantic notions culled from romance novels (gay and straight) that just didn't suit the situation; and he was the first gay person my own age I'd ever met (everyone else was still in the closet), so I jumped right in with all my illusions and didn't have a very good time.
 
So, if you're a straight man or a gay man who only tops, are you a virgin forever?

I honestly never heard a man refer to himself as a virgin, until I started hearing people use the term on this board a few years ago.

As far as I'm concerned, if you've had any type of sex, you can't possible consider yourself virginal.
 
My first time was with a man I met in the park. It was uncomfortable and scary and I was a bit humiliated. When I met my BF it was much better.
 
I've never been fucked, and do not plan to be...;) But My first time with a guy was also my first kiss, .....at the ripe old age of 21. I never regretted it. We were friends for years afterwards....(I wonder where he is now.....**sigh**)....
 
We were 16.

He was my close friend. We'd known each other forever.

He became my first love and boyfriend.

If he hadn't died in that damned car accident when he was 23, we'd still be together.....

And I would do it exactly the same way again...no regrets...
 
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