Losing Your Virginity

[Mendax]

Lost it to a guy I met on craigslist in January (I'm eighteen)...he wasn't anything great but I'm glad I did it. There will be other fucks and boyfriends out there, there's nothing really special about a "first time". Society just places so much emphasis on it.

 

[JayJEz]

Lost it to a woman twice my age at 16. Very fun summer, and much sneaking around and semi-public experiences. We "used" each other but looking back, that was probably one of the greatest times of my life. Have been mostly dry ever since. Seems odd that I've had but a fraction of sexual experiences in 7 whole years that I had that summer...

First gay sex I had was with a man I met while I was a cashier. He came in often and I guess took a liking to me. Truthfully, I never even noticed him till he came in one night complaining about how he had no luck with the ladies lately and couldn't even find a hooker. Gave him some friendly advice and an understanding ear, he gave me a phone number and the room he was staying at in the hotel across the street. The rest of the shift my heart was pounding-I was excited. With the tone of voice he had, I knew what was going to happen. He wanted to "hang" out, even had some beer in the fridge. Hmm... After work, called him up to see if he was up for it, and walked on over to his room. Never had a beer before then, must have been a funny sight seeing me sip the foul tasting liquid trying not to look disgusted! We exchanged life stories, our hopes, pasts, futures, etc. Abruptly he got up to take a piss, and coming out only had his boxers on. "I hope you don't mind," as he laid on the bed inviting me with his pose. All the encouragement I needed really as I took off my boots and shirt and jeans. I paused at my briefs and looked at him-tent fully formed, same as mine. With this last action I was to finally be my self, and I savored it. Pulling his briefs off and wrapping my mouth around another man's penis. How sinful, how wrong, how fucking awesome.

Oy... I'll catch up with ya folk's later, something's come up.

 

[davy]

i was 26 and i lost it to a total barfly. he was my first kiss and my first orgasm with someone else.

my only regret is that it i didn't do it at a younger age.

 

[azzficker]

20 years old and never had sex or even an actual relationship; feeling like a combination of a naive little kid and a prude. I never realized so many people had sex so young (meaning under 18 ). Over the course of my entire high school career, I only met maybe 5 or 6 guys who were openly gay, only maybe 2 of which I would be willing to have sex with. Jeez, how on earth did you guys find people so young?

 

[AnalblasT]

im never fuck someone, my cock still virgin till now LOL

 

[Valoshka]

I've never been fucked and i don't regret
I prefer to fuck my partner

 

[bluedragon4]

I was 19 when I lost it and came out at 15. So it felt like forever but I really wasn't ready till than. I was in college and started dating a guy in a fraternity. I fucked him in my dorm room but wouldn't let him fuck me for some reason. We only had anal once and dated 6 months. After him I dated another guy and 6 months in after we got an apartment together I let him fuck me. It was actually very romantic. We were together 4 years. I don't regret either.

 

[biglifter]

I'll let you know when it happens - I'm nearly 34, and have had no sexual contact, of any sort, with anyone. That's just the way my life went, and I wish it didn't, but there's nothing I can do about that.

It may be many years yet, if ever, that I find someone with sufficient patience and understanding of my situation that I'll be comfortable doing stuff with. Otherwise, I'd likely be extremely nervous, anxious, and possibly upset.

I dunno, I'm not really very optimistic about this issue being resolved any time soon.

24 yrs old and still a virgin here.. not had a relationship at all.... I feel I am quite similar to you really, although younger obviously.

I don't know if I feel more embarrassed about being gay or about being a virgin. am not about to rush out and hook up with any guy I can find but I would like to meet someone sometime soon!

In my case I think the main reason it hasn't happened yet is due to low self confidence. I used to be super obese, I'm talking 400lb+ all the way though the childhood and teenage years when most guys are getting laid and losing their virginity I was sat at home with a tub of ben & jerrys............

I have lost a lot of weight now but I'm still chubby to be honest and have some scars from having a tummy tuck and other surgery after the weight loss, so whhatever guy I find is going to have to be willing to take it slow, build trust and see beyond my scarred exterior LOL.

-- I'm a bit concerned aboutn that because a lot of gay guys seem really shallow, whether it is about age/height/weight/cock size/skin colour etc etc, and I'm not interested in a shallow guy after a quick fuck, I'm not a model but I think I still have a lot to offer.

Having said all of that, I am glad I didn't have sex at 14/15 like a lot of kids from my school were, I'm not sure it is healthy on an emotional level for these kids to be having sex so young.

 

[bluedragon4]

24 yrs old and still a virgin here.. not had a relationship at all.... I feel I am quite similar to you really, although younger obviously.

I don't know if I feel more embarrassed about being gay or about being a virgin. am not about to rush out and hook up with any guy I can find but I would like to meet someone sometime soon!

In my case I think the main reason it hasn't happened yet is due to low self confidence. I used to be super obese, I'm talking 400lb+ all the way though the childhood and teenage years when most guys are getting laid and losing their virginity I was sat at home with a tub of ben & jerrys............

I have lost a lot of weight now but I'm still chubby to be honest and have some scars from having a tummy tuck and other surgery after the weight loss, so whhatever guy I find is going to have to be willing to take it slow, build trust and see beyond my scarred exterior LOL.

-- I'm a bit concerned aboutn that because a lot of gay guys seem really shallow, whether it is about age/height/weight/cock size/skin colour etc etc, and I'm not interested in a shallow guy after a quick fuck, I'm not a model but I think I still have a lot to offer.

Having said all of that, I am glad I didn't have sex at 14/15 like a lot of kids from my school were, I'm not sure it is healthy on an emotional level for these kids to be having sex so young.

I feel for you but it can go the other way also. I'm not stud but I was pretty good looking in my 20's. I killed myself to be perfect cause I thought that would get me men. I also suffered from low self esteem even though I always had guys hitting on me and always had relationships. But I felt like it was all a lie and they would wake up one day and discover who I really was. I didn't say no to many men because the hotter the guy the better i felt. i thought if I could get a guy this hot i must be attractive. But the hot guys kept coming (literally) and i started racking up high numbers. I was whore before I knew it! Looking back i see I was ok. I just wish I realized it at the time. I didn't need to sleep around that much. Luckily I only did oral and saved the anal for long term boyfriends. I would probably have AIDs by now if it wasn't for that. But I have to admit I did have some good times with these guys. And sadly enough obese or worked out you are still just a body to some people. The grass isn't always greener.

 

[blackbeltninja]

there's nothing really special about a "first time". Society just places so much emphasis on it.

I think there is something special about a first time. Perhaps not so much in the purely sentimental sense, but like the first time you shave, your first day of school, your first pay-cheque, your first time behind the wheel etc I look at first sex as a milestone of sorts. Not necessarily anything to get hugely hung-up about, but something to check off on your list of life experiences.

For the record, my first time with a guy was at 21 for oral. The rest of it only happened much later.

-d-

 

[rainyguy67]

I'm 19 and the most I've done is oral, I want to have a complete and total trust before I give up my anal virginity.