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Lost a best friend over a guy!

bidude711 said:
That is NOT the issue!! She has recently changed so much for this guy. Not to mention that some would call her a home-wrecker for what she did because the guy was married. I have no respect for that.
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I think the right approach is something like, "I will always love the [Insert name] I came to know, but lately, you haven't been true to yourself or the values we shared as friends. I can only be as true to you as you are to yourself, and right now that is sadly not happening."
 
if a little thing like her changing ruins the friendship then honestly it couldn't be a very strong friendship....

i've changed a lot since i met my 2 best friends... and i mean alot.... and so have they.....

people change... the bonds that tie us together don't... the love of a good friend is the same as the love of family... its unconditional...

not speaking to eachother could be good for the both of you.... taking a break from eachother... and when you both calm down and stop judging eachother the friendship will be back on track
 
What kind of a best friend calls another best friend a "fag hag"?

Oh wait. You're just mad is all. Well, time will heal the pain. In the mean time, find a way to get back at both of them. HAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHA!!!! :P
 
Well, if your friend is a true "fag hag" that means she accepted your gayness unconditionally and stood by you through your explorations and relationships.

If that's so, then who are you to judge her for the mistakes she is making with this man?

If she is changing and treating you like shit, then fine, you have an issue with her, and you let her know you don't appreciate how she is treating you.

I find it interesting that you call him your straight male friend, but you call her a bitch and a hag. You sound like the jealous girlfriend or wife who blames the other woman instead of blaming the man who is sleeping around. Why isn't he being described as an asshole or a cheating sack of shit?

Is it possible at all that you find their relationship threatening to their friendships with you? Are you feeling somewhat left out?

These are just questions to consider before you throw away years of friendship based on what you do or do not approve of in her life.
 
bidude711 said:
My fag hag and I had a fight that ended badly. Seems like our friendship is over because my straight male friend fell in love w/ the hag. The bitch changed too much recently, so I had to end it.

What can I do to not think about the hag anymore? She makes me sick now, but we were friends for a long a$$ time.
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I'm really glad for the woman that you're not friends with her any more. Calling her a 'bitch' and a 'hag' is nasty. I really doubt she needs 'friends' like you in her life. Killjoke made a good point - why are you calling her a bitch? It's your friend who's cheating on his wife. How come the woman is a homewrecker, but he isn't?

You want to get back on both of them? How sad. How old are you? No doubt someone will post 'get him drunk and give him a BJ, that'd show the bitch', with a dancing banana next to it. #-o

Are you just jealous that your male friend fell in love with her, and not with you?
 
Candyapple said:
No doubt someone will post 'get him drunk and give him a BJ, that'd show the bitch', with a dancing banana next to it. #-o
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'get him drunk and give him a BJ, that'd show the bitch'(!)(!) -sorry I couldn't resist. It was too wide open
 
she's probably better off without you.
 
gabriel1 said:
'get him drunk and give him a BJ, that'd show the bitch'(!)(!) -sorry I couldn't resist. It was too wide open
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*Giggles*

star-warrior said:
That sounds like the nub of his pain.

To the OP : If you had gotten the guy would you be a homewrecker? Can we call you bitch and hag if you did?

Then again, why would a straight dude go for you?
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Noooo, of course not, because obviously it's different for men. Only women are to blame in situations like this, because women are evil bitches who steal straight guys from the gay/bi men who want them. And men are not responsible for their own actions, like cheating on their wives. Clearly, the woman made him do it. #-o ](*,) ](*,)
 
So this homewrecker bitch who changed on you and never listens...why are you friends with her?

Lex
 
sounds like there is a lack of respect on your part.
 
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