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Love Circle??

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Hello there,
I am a 20 yo guy, and I am the type of romantic utopic gay who dreams of an ideal relationship and such. This is why I don't have full sexual experience yet. Anyway, there are some people who fall for me, and represent the type of relationship I want to have, but I am not attracted to them. And everytime I meet someone that makes me the "click", they are not attracted to me.

I have seen this kind of thing happening with many people... We don't like those we can have, but go for other ones, and those other ones reject us and go for others, and so on... It's such an ironic circle, and it seems veery strange to me why this happens...

What's your personal experience/opinion have to say about that...
Oh, I get so confused with all that thinking! :rolleyes:
 
I am an incurable romantic myself. I have only had three sexual partners and none in the past month or so. I am much more interested in the romantic and bonding parts of a relationship than in the sex. All of my friends call me a woman. (No I'm not a bottom, btw ... that's what everyone thinks. I don't do anal, only frot. You may think it's silly, but I think it's romantic, and I don't have to worry about condoms.) I don't fall in love quickly, but I fall hard.

My first relationship ended when (after a year together mind you) I told him I loved him. The second was very into me, but I was not very attracted to him, though I tried to be. I could barely keep it up for him. My most recent was a one night thing; I felt that definite "click", but he sort of freaked out and claimed he wasn't gay afterwards.

So I know exactly what you mean.(*8*)
 
I am the romantic type. Love being with someone who is into me and me into him. Love being in the relationship that we both want to be in. Like doing things together that we both enjoy. There will be times when we will need to be apart which makes our time together more special. Being physical is not the center of the attraction but is a big part of it.
 
Yeah, its kinda been an evolution of feelings with me. When I was 16, 17 all I could think about was doing something sexual with a guy. Now that im 20 my main urge is to be in a relationship with a guy. Spend the day with eachother, care for eachother etc.

I'm VERY VERY VERY picky, so there's no telling when that is going to happen.
 
While we're not the most common gays, you will find plenty of young, hopeless romantics around here. Me being one of them.

I can hardly wait to find someone to hold in my arms who will hold me in his arms forever, as if nothing else matters.
 
Wait.
Wait to meet someone.
Get to know them.
Click with them.
Then you're set.

Lex
 
I'm really happy to hear that there are others like me out there... to tell you the truth, I think that the one and only thing that every single being seeks is LOVE. The thing is, some know it and some need to realize it, to make it conscious.

ANyway, it is very nice what you said, I think I'll just keep on dreaming :D :D
 
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