Love when my bf cheats

[JimBriefsNPits]

was this a one time thing, or did you watch him fuck with him knowing or not on the regular?

Hiding and watching was just that one time. But I watched and enjoyed during many 3 ways. I joined my partner and his black FB a couple of times.

I did take my partner along one night for a gloryhole cruise. We agreed to meet at a time and location afterward. When he showed up his glasses were all bent out of shape. I asked about it and he said he dropped them. As we drove home I asked if he enjoyed coming along and he said it was OK. He didn’t want to talk.

Before we got home I commented that his glasses looked like they had become bent by some activity. I guessed that possibly some guy had come in who he thought was cute and wanted to suck. That perhaps the guy came to the door and peeked in and wanted in. And I suggested that my partner liked the guy’s look so he opened the door for him. Maybe something like that at least.

He said, Yes he did open the door and a guy came into the stall and fucked his face and fed him a load. His glasses got bent and he couldn’t straighten them. I thanked him for telling me. When we got home I helped straighten his glasses and then as we went to bed I slipped under the covers and asked him to tell me about it as I sucked him off. I didn’t get much more info but I enjoyed a nice load before we fell asleep.

 

[bigcocktheory]

Hiding and watching was just that one time. But I watched and enjoyed during many 3 ways. I joined my partner and his black FB a couple of times.

I did take my partner along one night for a gloryhole cruise. We agreed to meet at a time and location afterward. When he showed up his glasses were all bent out of shape. I asked about it and he said he dropped them. As we drove home I asked if he enjoyed coming along and he said it was OK. He didn’t want to talk.

Before we got home I commented that his glasses looked like they had become bent by some activity. I guessed that possibly some guy had come in who he thought was cute and wanted to suck. That perhaps the guy came to the door and peeked in and wanted in. And I suggested that my partner liked the guy’s look so he opened the door for him. Maybe something like that at least.

He said, Yes he did open the door and a guy came into the stall and fucked his face and fed him a load. His glasses got bent and he couldn’t straighten them. I thanked him for telling me. When we got home I helped straighten his glasses and then as we went to bed I slipped under the covers and asked him to tell me about it as I sucked him off. I didn’t get much more info but I enjoyed a nice load before we fell asleep.

that's my favorite. Sucking off my man while he tells me about him cheating on me

 

[JimBriefsNPits]

that's my favorite. Sucking off my man while he tells me about him cheating on me

The difference between us is I don’t consider my partner cheated on me. I arranged his birthday fuck. I drove him to the gloryholes and suggested he have fun while I did too. I was sharing him with others, with my blessing. I knew he was fun to be with, I wanted him to entertain some others and me. And let others show him he was fun, not just me. And maybe learn a new trick too.

 

[michaelk69]

The difference between us is I don’t consider my partner cheated on me . . . I was sharing him with others, with my blessing. I knew he was fun to be with, I wanted him to entertain some others and me. And let others show him he was fun, not just me

That describes us exactly - and we've been together 25+ years . . . the idea of seeing someone jerk or suck off or fuck my boyfriend . .. or seeing him do that to some hot guy that he is REALLY turned on by ... gets me super hot, I love it . . and, luckily, vice versa. We've also had threesomes where my boyfriend has 'directed' the third guy in terms of exactly what to do to me, since he knows all my weaknesses / what really gets me going . .. very very hot. And then, once my boyfriend has fully entertained himself with the show, he tells the guy: "OK, make him cum".

 

[jubdown5]

My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years. 2 years of it was long distance (3 hours by car) and have been living together for a year now. We’ve only had 1 threesome.

I never once thought of cheating until I had the idea in my mind that he might be cheating on me. And then I figured “what the heck. we’re 3 hours apart and if I mess with a couple of people it won’t hurt.”

Long story short we opened up to each other about what we’ve done. We attempted an open relationship, but only ended up seeing 1 person each.

I was kinda jealous. He then later admitted he didn’t like that I suggested an open relationship. I’m a bottom and he’s a top.

We’re both horny guys and I do think it’s hot to picture him messing with another guy, but I don’t think we’ll ever do an open relationship again. Threesomes for sure, but it’s kinda gross to be messing around with random guys and also to just have that level of intimacy with someone other than your partner. In my opinion.

We’re both confident, secure and attractive, but deff don’t need to open it up.

 

[michaelk69]

" . . . and also to just have that level of intimacy with someone other than your partner. In my opinion. We’re both confident, secure and attractive, but deff don’t need to open it up.

Hmm, that's really different from how it feels to me/us. You say 'that level of intimacy" .. but when we're talking about hooking up with someone from Grindr for a blowjob . .. or jerking someone off under a bathroom stall .. that level is just about zero, lol .. literally NO intimacy there at all; purely physical/lust/recreation. We meet, we cum, we go, lol .. . oh, and for the record, we don't "need" to open it up .. it's just mega-hot to . . . and we have PLENTY of sex, just the two of us, together . .. just for the record

Different strokes for different folks and all that . .. (literally, in this case, lol)

 

[mcbrion]

It's not "cheating" in the slightest, if you approve of him being with other guys - which you clearly do. Where's the cheating involved in this?

He does it, and you like him doing it.
It's called an "open relationship," but with a twist: It's just that you find out about it afterwards. You just don't know WHEN he's going to do it, but still, you approve of it. 'No harm, no foul,' is not "cheating."'

 

[bigcocktheory]

i read this comment somewhere and wanted to share it:

Last night I fucked my husband while he told me about guys he fucked during the years we were monogamous—years when I was a monogamous at his insistence and he was screwing around behind my back. Sometimes with guys I knew. It turns me on so much to hear about those guys. One was a friend who came to stay with us for two weeks. They had sex six times. That was 16 years ago and we just saw that friend. He doesn't know I know what happened.