Loving the pussy!!

[spreadeagle]

Is that what passes for 'commitment' in your book? You say that you are gay - does this mean that your boyfriend is bi? And if so, does that mean he's not satisfied with you?

I wonder what the women think about this. Do they have individual identities? Or do they enjoy being referred to as 'pussy'?

 

[Soilwork]

Plus, I wanted this thread in a "No Flame Zone."

Party pooper.

 

[Soilwork]

Nobody is completely straight or completely gay. Even the straightest man will have had some thought about sexual relations with another man and vice versa.

Sorry. Don't agree. I know plenty of gay guys who have never been attracted to women in any way. I'm one of them.

And yes... if you're attracted women, even if only sexually, well... that would make you bisexual.

My idea of "spicing things up" include a bull whip and a 12 volt battery. Not the owner of a vagina.

 

[bma1983]

I don´t call myself bi, because I only fall in love with men. I like having sex with women, but I can not fall in love with them. MY husband (we are from Spain, and we actually got legally MARRIED early this year) and I like to invite women to our sex games, it´s not a big deal. People here in Spain are very open minded, gay teenagers kiss in public, in front of old people, mothers, kids, etc. And people just don´t mind.

In fact, a couple of years ago we exchanged partners with a couple of commited lesbians.

Baby, I don't mean any harm in saying this, but, You Are Not Gay!!!!

You can call yourself whatever you want, but if you call yourself gay, you're lying to yourself.

I hate to get crass, but the moment your dick gets hard because your sexually attracted to a women, you cease being gay.

Or perhaps "gay" means something different in Spain. Maybe that's it.

 

[jockboy01]

But all the same I get excited with the woman body, just as same as with the men body.

And not to beat a dead horse... but this is the definition of bisexual. Not that we need labels but gay men don't get turned on by women. That's what makes us GAY!! And it sounds like both you and your husband are fine with the way things are so there isn't a problem. Call yourself gay if it makes you somehow feel better, but dude, you're bi.

 

[jockboy01]

I am sexually BI

Hmmmm, so you're bi-sexual. Just wanted to clarify. haha.

Kind of funny b/c we've had a lot of guys on here say they were the opposite... that they could form emotional attachments to women but sexually attracted to men. And almost unanimously we say they're gay and just not accepting it. Yet here, it's kind of reverse and we aren't unanimous anymore... not sure why that is. Seems clear to me. Not here to upset you, I promise.

 

[bma1983]

OKAY, if it makes everyone feel better, I am sexually BI, but emotionally GAY
HAPPY

Now was that hard? It must feel good to finally free yourself and come out.

 

[Soilwork]

you'll have to understand that some of the hostility to your calling yourself gay when you're actually bi comes from about 5 places.

We're constantly barraged by bi men who incredulously say "don't you want some pussy?" or our parents saying "Have you tried being straight?" and we have bi men who date us telling us they're gay and then suddenly they have girls they're going to marry for a normal life.

We have clueless straight people saying "Why can't you just think of guys while having sex with girls?" and some stupid girl joined the bi forum a few months back and asked "Since you're all gay and just like fucking asses, why can't you just fuck a girl's ass?".

We have Hostile bi men come here and tell us that we as gay men will suck ANY dick, even if it just came out of a "Sweet juicy pussy", and we have society saying that being gay is just a choice and how we can learn to control ourselves like Kleptomaniacs and alcoholics.

So when a bi man comes here telling us that he's gay.. and likes to have sex with women.. we're going to react negatively.

Maybe in Spain "gay" means something that it doesn't mean here in North America.

But by North American standards, you're not gay.

 

[jockboy01]

I just wanted to express that you can be in a relationship with a man (in fact my husband and me are together since high school) and still be able to enjoy sex with a woman

Haha, no YOU can... I can't.... I don't want to have sex with a woman... the entire idea is a huge turn off for me... even hot ones who are convinced I want to sleep with them an leave bite marks on my thighs... the answer is still no thanks.

 

[Soilwork]

Yes, it's true.

you can be in a relationship with a guy and enjoy sex with women.

If you're bi.

Those of us who are gay can't enjoy sex with women. But hey... there's room for us all.

And yes, that came from me.

 

[bostonboy20]

well i'm sorta the opposite...when i first started "discovering" this side of me i was all i can only have feelings for women but i'm sexually attracted to men also....it's kinda developed a little over the past year and a halfish...i've accepted that I can't control who i have loving feelings for man or woman...it doesn't matter...who knows which i'll spend my life with(way to early to even think about that but) And no, if y'all are gonna say i'm gay and just haven't accepted it...that's really not the case in the slightest...i really don't have a preference over the two sexes...i'm attracted to them equally...i know that's hard for completely straight or completely gay people to comprehend...but it's just another sexuality....gay peopel want the world to accept them, yet a lot of them can't accept bisexuals....it really is just a weird double standard.

 

[Christopher123]

I just don´t understand what the big deal is. I am GAY because I see myself spending the rest of my life with a man, in a relationship, forming a family, etc...
I just don´t see that happening with a woman.

I can't fall in love with women either. But if I regularly have sex with them (which I don't because I've never had the desire to) then I'm afraid I'd have to consider myself to be bisexual.

It's a label, yes. But it means something.

A male who has sex with men only is gay. Whether they've had the occasional thought for a female from time to time or not. Doesn't mean they're gonna do it.

A male who has sex with women only is straight. Whether they've had the occasional thought for another male from time to time or not. Again, it doesn't mean they're gonna do it. Simple thoughts do not change your sexuality. Acting out those thoughts, however, does.

A male who has sex with both men AND women is bisexual. Even if they only fall in love with men. Or even if they only fall in love with women.

Yes, it's possible for a bisexual male to fall in love with men only. But you're still having sex with women, right?

I don't understand what the big deal is, really. I mean some of us are gay, some of us are bi, some of us are straight. Who cares who is what? We are what we are and we all matter.

I have a lot of respect for women and my best friends are both female. And I love them. But the thought of having sex with a woman just totally turns me off. In fact I grossed out at the couple of posts here saying, "I love to eat... p... p... "

Well you know what I mean, I can't even say it. The "P" word. Yeah, that's it.

Okay, I'm done spouting off. And keep in mind that these thoughts are simply that - my thoughts. And my opinion. It doesn't necessarily mean I'm right. But it's how I feel.