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Lunch or Something More...?

Oh and fuck the facebook, I can’t think of how many threads in here have revolved around the facebook fuck up.

Ask, or tell, you’ll have your answer one way or another.

Maybe the lunches are getting less appealing because he's deciding you're not interested, because you won't say anything.
 
erobert said:
Wouldn't that be a bit awkward and possibly ruin the friendship?

He may also be falling for me if he is bi or gay but he knows that I'm gay so if he wants to be more than friends he'll let me know or do something that indicates that. For now I'm glad I gained a new friend. Though, if the flirting increases than I'll have to bring it up. Actions speak louder than words and the truth should reveal itself in time.

Thanks for the feedback everyone, I'm in uncharted territory here.:-)
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Well, you are interested in something more than friends, yet you won't let him know. What makes you think he will let you know? Someone has to communicate, might as well be you
 
You're still at square one.

You're placing too much expectation on what's happened so far, whereas whatever he's said or done hasn't necessarily given *any* indication that he's gay or interested.

You need to step up to the plate and think outside of the box if you want to become friends/lovers/whatever...go beyond the brown bag lunch, and hang out for dinner, drinks, etc.
 
Sorry to bump the thread yet again, but I was watching reruns of Blind Date on TV and the guy one of the dates acts almost exactly like my friend- right down to the mannerisms and his voice. He even looks kind of like him.

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:eek:

Short of video taping him myself- this is him. I'm still coming out to him next time we get together but now I'm slightly worried he'll react like how he did to his "date". I need to be ready for anything at this point.

Thanks for your input chris, texas slant and especially TX-Beau.
 
If the issue is that he won't open up in public about himself, why don't you invite him in the next time he drives you home? Of course if the issue is he doesn't want to open up at all, he might not be inclined to say anything.

If he is firmly committed to staying in the closet, then he won't want to take you home to meet his fammily, he won't want to go into the City where everyone can see him, and he won't discuss private aspects of his life in a public area. Your best bet is to get him somewhere private where he can open up to you.
 
That's my plan.

To come out to him privately somewhere and have a talk with him and hope he opens up more about himself. Though, I haven't heard from him in nearly two weeks; that's not like him.

I may be putting my self on the line but self disclosure is an important step in having more honest communication about things.
 
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9 months plus lunches for an hour. how does that sound to you - realistically.? give
yourself more credit than that.;)

eM.](*,)
 
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