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Luring somebody into hooking up!

kyless85

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I know the title sounds weird haha, but i only had a few space to write. There's this guy who I met a couple of months ago. He's very hot, and ever since I saw him I liked him. He's very masculine, but still sometimes he sets off my gaydar. We've become good friends, and usually we just behave like normal friends. But lately when he gets drunk he starts saying stuff.

For example the other day he was drunk, I was too, and we were at a club, and he told me "I love u dude" and i said "yeah i love u too", and he said "no, u don't understand i really love u", and then he said "i like u because you're gorgeous" and i said "thanks, u too", and he said "r u gay!!" haha and i just said "not as much as u are" and we just laugh it off. I know it's stupid, but still. He always says "don't tell anybody tho". It's happened more than once. He also touches me a lot, he pats me on the back constantly, but usually when no one else is around. The other day I told him I hadn;t been goin to the gym that week and he said "Go! at least start running", why is he so interested in me keeping a good body? ;) haha

But the other day when we came back to his house he was very drunk and immediately went to sleep, so i don't know what he wants. I don't know if he's playin, i don't know if he means it. So my question is, what can I do to make it seem like i'm interested, but still play it on the safe side. I'm not out, and I don;t want things to get awkward between us. So what can I say or do?? Help, i really like him. I hope i'm not looking into insignificant stuff.
 
"don't tell anybody though"

Ha, very elementary school.

Anyways, are you interessted in a relationship thing or hook-up .... That is, if he's even gay.
 
Luring somebody into hooking up!
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You could put puppies in your van :P

But seriously, you said you're not looking into insignificant stuff so I'm guessing you kind of like him? Try and spend some more time alone with him, as friends, watch a movie, hang out etc etc (wow I need to think of more alone stuff to do :O), drop some hints, nothing exceedingly obvious if your not sure he's gay and you don't want to out yourself, you said he touches you alot, start touching him back, he 'mock' flirts, flirt back etc. etc, see where it goes, hint a little more if appropriate, play it by ear.

But also as above, you could try the puppies :P
 
Note to self: pay more attention to title next time; it may contain the answer to my question.
 
haha, thanks, good tips, i'll keep u updated. Both ur responses made me laugh, if u come up with more things to do be sure to let me know.
 
Straight guys who need to get drunk to admit they are gay are a trainwreck. When they are your friend, you'll end up getting run over by the train.

If this guy were ready to do anything:
  1. He wouldn't have to get stinking drunk to admit it
  2. He wouldn't have fallen asleep when he had the chance to do anything about it

The challenge for you is to get him to make a move when he's sober. That's going to be a big challenge because it removes the "Boy was I drunk last night, I don't remember a thing" excuse.

Personally, I'd throw this one back in the water and let it grow a bit more. There are other horny, hot, gay (and who don't have to be drunk to admit it) fish in the sea.
 
Yeah, this whole thing has "bad idea" written all over it. Either stop playing "high school crush" and cut to the chase, or find someone else to hook up with.

Lex
 
It's possible to get him to do the routine again and then confront him about it.

When you're both stinking drunk and he says it, then tell him he's done taht a lot lately, and jokingly hold his shoulders with your hands, looking at him square in the eyes. If he goes for it, you have your answer. If he flinches, you can tell him he can say anything right now and it won't bother you.

But yes I agree with the others, it's pitiful, and really sad when they cannot reconcile who they are and must let it slip when they feel they can. Really sad indeed.
 
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Well, except for maybe....
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This is what sucks about being in the closet.

I've had more "straight" guys hit on my knowing that I'm Gay, than I've had drunk closet cases.

Thank Gawd!

If they've been "straight" closet cases, at least being out, I could call them on their shit.

The next time that he's drunk and coming on to you, look him in the eyes and tell him that you'd like to fuck him and see what he says. ;)
 
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