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Made my honey cry:(

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Today is my honey's b-day (51) dont say I told you- lol:kiss:

We went out last night for dinner/drinks with friends as most worked today.

At breakfast today I gave him a present of a picture I had enlarged of him and his mom. She passed away on Mothers day in 05'. He is still not over it and misses her very much as I do also.


But he burst into tears and cried just holding the picture. I know there tears of joy, but as some friends also said that I reopened his loss. A couple of our friends said I should have not done that.


But this pic is very dear to him and it was a small 4x6 that I had repaired and scanned and printed and framed before it got more damaged.. and destroyed


He thanked me profusely and hugged and kissed.. But some how our friends put the doubt in me that it was a wrong gift. We have been together for 26 wonder years and I could not be w/o him..(*8*)

Did I do the right thing????
 
I don't think it was the wrong thing to give him at all.
 
I think that was a very nice gift!!!! You did not do the wrong thing..|
 
Oh My! How this rings a bell. You did a wonderful thing, friends can be so ????? My sweetheart passed away 38 months ago, we were together 33 yrs. since we were 17. My best friend and others were over for dinner one night and she found a picture of Steve and I kissing at her Thanksgiving bash years ago. I would say probably 15 yrs. ago, I had never seen that picture. When she pulled it out of her purse and handed it to me, I began crying uncontrollably. Everyone felt bad as I tried to explain to them that they were tears of happiness, seeing a picture of he and I that I had never seen before. Don't worry, most of us who have experienced a great loss really do enjoy talking about it, it keeps their memory in the forefront of our lives, which is exactly where I want my Steve to be. I would bet your husband feels the same about his mom.

I agree with you about the crying though. Even though it wasn't my fault, anytime something happened that caused him to cry would take me over the deep end. I couldn't handle him crying, I just wanted it to go away so he would be happy again. I would just hold him in my arms and rock him until, by this time, we both stopped. I'm so happy for you that you still have someone to share these moments with. Again, it was a very sweet gift.
 
You know him better than anyone else. You have little reason to believe that it was anything other than the perfect gift.
 
The fact alone that you had it after the original was destroyed is a God sent miracle in itself.

It was be the best gift from you that he will ever have.

Aside from you, of course:-)
 
I think this was the most beautiful gift you could possibly have given him. Ignore your friends, they're wrong on this one. This is quite possibly the most amazing thing I've heard of one person doing for another in a long time. You're awesome for that and for the reason he is incredibly lucky to have you. (*8*)
 
Yes, your friends are dead wrong. That's the most thoughtful, beautiful, precious gift you could've given him!
 
Yes you did the right thing.

Your (so called) friends are probably jealous of your relationship.
 
OK, I don't understand why on Earth your friends would think it was a horrible gift! Just because it made someone cry doesn't mean that it "reopens a loss," for goodness sakes. It means that it was the most thoughtful and sweetest thing that you could've ever done since his mother was so close to his heart.

Considering how long you've been together, I think that you'd know him well enough to know what the right thing was!
 
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