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Male "bonding" in Latino culture.

roadtripboy said:
Too bad. Would it surprise you to learn I'm an Aquarius?
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I haven't really talked to you, so I've never thought about it.

I only guessed about AWP because I watched a couple of his videos and read his comments here, and I know what he looks like.
 
Pure bullshit. There is not such a thing. I am from Latin America and I can tell you this...this guys is begging for men sex because he is gay or very confused. You are the prey or the leader. It is up to you what you want to do with his proposal. Again, it is pure bullshit. What was interesting when I grew up was that gay in Latin America was usually the man who gave ass. The top was just a fucker. LOL... what a mess!
 
Latino is a pretty broad category. Guys from Mexico are very different from guys from South America who are very different from guys from the Carribean.

There are some countries that are more conservative where young guys might participate in circle jerks or indulge curiosity. But those are very young guys- teenagers.

This guy is playing on your good nature to pursue an agenda. It's a bit creepy and probably a sign that you should steer clear of him.
 
This guy clearly isn't straight from what you're describing. He wants some kind of sexual experience with a man and he also feels attached to you.
 
I'm Cuban (that's elite Latin people), and this is the first time I hear this is how we 'bond'.

It probably happens, but not any more frequently than for Americans, or anyone else for that matter.
 
AWP82 said:
So, did I handle the situation the right way, or was I too paranoid and harsh? How would you guys have handled it?
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Hi AWP82,

I think you handled the situation in a right way.

You have choosen for yourself by not making an appointment to spend some time together with a guy you don't feel very comfortable with. On the other hand, I can imagine very well that he (=the other guy) is disappointed by this decision of you.

Maybe, (but that's looking backwards) you gave him wrong signals already during the very first time when you met him online.
We met on YouTube last summer, when I did a review of the first season of Family Matters on DVD, in which I mentioned Jaimee Foxworth (Judy Winslow) becoming a porn star when she grew up.
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I can imagine very well that he got the idea that you like to talk about porn (and sex), and I also read that you had extensive discussions with him about porn. Well, porn is about sex, and guys who like sex very much often also like porn (including talking about porn) very much.

Maybe that was a signal for this guy that he would like to have some sex with you. Maybe he does not know anyone in his surroundings with whom he could do this. So why not with you, a guy who does not live in his immediate surroundings?

Well, just some ideas, and maybe I am totally wrong.

Best wishes.
 
KaraBulut said:
Latino is a pretty broad category. Guys from Mexico are very different from guys from South America who are very different from guys from the Carribean.

There are some countries that are more conservative where young guys might participate in circle jerks or indulge curiosity. But those are very young guys- teenagers.

This guy is playing on your good nature to pursue an agenda. It's a bit creepy and probably a sign that you should steer clear of him.
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Very good and clear distinction! Saying Latino is like saying European, you can't compare an Italian with a Norwegian, as you can't compare and Argentine with a Puerto Rican with a guy from Honduras.

That being said, me myself being from the southern cone of South America (maybe the least 'Latino' region, if judging against the typical misunderstood Latino stereotype) I'd say that that's not entirely true. If we do bond that way, it's only in our teens.

I remember jerking circles when I was 12, showing cocks with other guys at 11, watching porn with a group of like 10 friends at 15-16, and then some guys running off to the toilet. And that was it.

But that's not cos we were Latino I guess, I assume all teenagers from every culture behave similarly... am I wrong?
 
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