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Married boss being too friendly?

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I don't know what his background is, but some guys are just affectionate. Even though the chances seem slim, it IS possible he's just treating you like one of his sons. I wouldn't read much into it. Try not to enjoy it on a sexual level - it will only confuse you and cause problems.

You don't need to say what your job actually is, but I find it hard to believe any boss would tickle employees and not be considered odd for doing so in the workplace.
 
The hands on tickling is odd. Is this a long term job for you or are you in school and the job is transitory? It can get very uncomfortable for you if he shows favoritism in front of others. It can be difficult to enjoy the attention and not get emotionally involved, but that would be the way I'd go.
 
I wouldn't over think it. The next time he tickels you politely ask him to not do it any more. I'd just let the other stuff slide. If he makes an advance I'd politely decline the offer. He's married and he's your boss. I'd also just make a note of the days you spoke with him about it. Doesn't have to be a report to HR or anything like that but IF it would get uncomfortable and you have to do something you will have something to support your claim

Steven
 
I'm going to disagree somewhat - your boss tickling you under and circumstance isn't professional and it isn't OK. Even if you like it.

Letting him play favorites with you will make you the gossip bitch in the office and you won't know it until it fucks up your career.
 
Good for you - trust your instincts on these things. Work is work - it's about a pay cheque and making a positive contribution. Him making it an escape from his wife, or his personal playground, just isn't okay.

Smart decision!
 
Your instincts are correct on this. Comments are one thing but him putting his hands on you is not acceptable at all.
 
Sexual harassment creates a hostile work environment. It's really too bad that you have to look for another job because of your boss' behavior. It wouldn't be a bad idea to begin journaling his behavior towards you. Good luck with the new job search.
 
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