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Hey Guys, I was just wondering if anyone has ever been hit on by a married man who has children? And if so, how did you react?
 
Yeah - I knew someone who was a work colleague and he became a really great friend. We began to chat online in the evenings and I thought it was an innocent flirtation. The "suggestions" became stronger and stronger from his end until it just led to deeper intimacy (though I know that it takes two to tango).

Unfortunately, it impacted our friendship because it became an unexpected expectation from him every time we saw one another, and it made me uncomfortable because I didn't want to give myself up anymore than I needed to, and I was falling for him - not to mention feeling guilty for his family.

Long story short - "once the bell is rung, it's hard to unring it"

I wanted to know for myself whether or not he really saw me as a friend or a fling, so - 1. I stopped putting out, and 2, I stopped calling him and wanted to see when/if he would ever pick up the phone, and he never did. It's not like there was any official closure - we just stopped talking to each other all of a sudden.
 
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I have. His sexual inuendos made me uncomfortable to the point that I can't even stand looking at him. He's married to my friend. Just stopped speaking or having any contact with him. Frankly, I found him very disgusting.[-X
 
i used to cruise yahoo chatrooms when i started hooking up with guys. the married guys were almost impossible to avoid. seriously, i'd say atleast 40% of the rooms were married guys looking to "scratch an itch".

one of the older guys i hooked up with actually introduced me to his children. they were adults though, and he told them i was just a friend...which i don't see how they bought.

it's not even just the older guys. i'd run into a few guys who'd ended up knocking up their girlfriends and doing the "honorable" thing by marrying them. one guy kinda disturbed me. he wanted to come by for a hookup but he didn't have a babysitter. he's like "Well ya got a tv don't you...we'll just stick her in front of it and go do our thing". had to pass on that one. shame too, cuz he was HOT!!!

then of course there was a guy i hooked up with who turned out to be the father of one of my friends. actually she was more of an acquaintance, but that really didn't make it any less akward when i realized what was up.
 
Palindromos said:
There's never a good ending to getting involved with a married man, especially if he has kids. Married men have got what they want: a wife, a family and all the trappings. They are not going to risk that. And no one should risk their happiness by getting involved in a no-win situation.
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at the time i wasn't really looking for a happy ending. i was just about hooking up, and really didn't give too much thought on their home situation. wrong, i know but i never said i was proud of it or anything.
 
At a weekend at a cabin with friends one of my married friends with two kids told all my friends ---- including my boyfriend --- that I was the kind of guy he would hook up with and that I would be perfect to hook up with. I wasn't there when this conversation took place.

My boyfriend - not a jealous type at all --- was really worried this guy was going to pursue me though he never did because we are all part of a bigger group of friends and I think the drama would have been too much, however, to this day there's always a strange energy between us.

This guy was gorgeous and I was surprised and flattered about the whole thing hearing about it later on.
 
There has only been one married guy who hit on me. I slept and fooled around with plenty of other married men, but they didn't hit on me out of the blue..

I was in a public bathroom one day on the boardwalk taking a leak and of course I couldn't help but look at the guys cocks that were near me. So in comes this one guy, red hair, tall, looked to be in good shape, and actually pretty good looking. He takes the stalls on the otherside of the wall, I am not sure how he knew I was interested in guys, there were no guys near me so he couldn't see me looking. So eventually the guy came over and started looking at my dick and said nice cock. So I looked at his cock and he was stroking it. So me being me, I dropped to my knees and started sucking him off, then we got interrupted by his child calling for his Daddy. He zipped up and said got to go. I was bummed out because I was into it, but not long after another guy walked in and I had a blast with him. :)
 
I have been hit on by a married man once or twice, and it repulsed me. No married man should be cheating on their wives just to have sex with a guy, especially if they have kids. I realize there are people who have wives in order to fit into society or cover their homosexuality and there are men who as bisexual and married and need more, but that is no excuse.
 
I've been hit on, and gone to bed with more straight men then I care to remember. I get a kick out of it- the next time seeing them, with the wife and kids, and how nervous they get, like I'm really going to say something. Since I don't, I've had round 2 many times too. and 3 and 4 and so on. Most of the time it is the same excuse, the wife won't give me head, will you? And that is as far as it goes--usually
 
coloradobottom said:
I've been hit on, and gone to bed with more straight men then I care to remember. I get a kick out of it- the next time seeing them, with the wife and kids, and how nervous they get, like I'm really going to say something. Since I don't, I've had round 2 many times too. and 3 and 4 and so on. Most of the time it is the same excuse, the wife won't give me head, will you? And that is as far as it goes--usually
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Well I know. I cann't tell how many guys I did meet a guy afterwards with wife and children. They don't need to get nervous. I am silent as the grave. Male solidarity in an absurd world forcing and misleading men into married castration.
 
bulge said:
Well I know. I cann't tell how many guys I did meet a guy afterwards with wife and children. They don't need to get nervous. I am silent as the grave. Male solidarity in an absurd world forcing and misleading men into married castration.
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These men are not forced and led into marriage; no one held them at gun point. If they could not meet the expectations of remaining monogamous, at some point, they should notify the wife before getting married. These men are not victims.
 
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