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Married men cheating with gay guys

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I have been with one married man, but although on the books it is deplorable, I do not count this as a negative as the affair only lasted about two weeks, and I was instrumental in helping him come clean with his wife. He was already quite unhappy in his marriage, and was struggling with his homosexuality, and I feel it was inevitable and am glad that I gave him what I feel is support he probably wouldn't get anywhere else.

Now he is single and we are in a dating relationship, and he is happier than I had certainly seen him before. As for your question, I do not think it really has any connection to the fact they are married, and I believe their preference is as variable as any other gay or bisexual man. In this instance he tops, and he is good at it, too.
 
We all make our own rules. Plenty of guys will find all sorts of ways to complete the sentence "It's not cheating if..."

* it's a one-night stand.
* I don't know the guy.
* we only jerk each other off.
* we only do oral.
* I'm paying for it.
* it's at a bathhouse.
* it's with a friend.
* my partner doesn't know about it.

I can certainly imagine a guy deciding "It's not cheating if it's not with another woman."

Lex
 
My definition is: it isn't cheating if my partner did the same thing to me and I wouldn't be upset.

If you answer that one honestly you realise you are either cheating, or that if you had a discussion with your partner you could have a potentially healthy open relationship.

Having said that I don't think I could bring myself to have sex with a married man, I don't even know if I could do it if he had the green light from his partner.
 
[B]I'v never been with a married guy.infact, i wud hate having affair wiv somene i knw is married alredy.

to my openion chating or deatching his wife with either a Guy or a Girl is call cheating.and its so disgustin to death.why shud we marry a girl and then cheat her wiv a guy.

and i dnt agree with the satement cheatin my bf wiv another guy.i wud nevr like to share my bf wiv someone else.so no need 4 me to do such thin[/B]gs.
 
Hard-up1 said:
Cheating in this context pretty much means a man has forsaken his marriage vows, and more loosely defined, that includes some guys living in common law marriages.

I wouldn't want to sleep with the guy no matter how hot he was, as the feeling of deceiving another person's loved one in order to get my rocks off would last a lot longer than the sex feeling would.

In situations in which the guy is in an "open" relationship, I'd still pass, as I want sex to be between me and a man for whom it is the mark of a unique bond, not one that is shared with every good looking dick that comes along, so to speak.
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well said dude.i share ur point of view.keep it up.....
 
Nothing in this life is ever as black and white as people often assume it is.

I've slept with married men in the past but I didn't see my actions as being wrong because I wasn't the one in a committed relationship. It can take some people a lifetime to come to terms with their sexuality for a variety of different reasons. I don't condone married people who cheat but I can understand at least why they do it.
 
Well said Pushyourluck. It has also been my experience that the many married men whom I have bedded are closeted and in dire need of finding themself through relationships with mature gay men.

If life were so crystal clear then we would not have to witness the holier than thou protests of the perfect religious fanatic and those who presume to know it all when discussing human relationships. I have barely begun to understand the human condition.
 
Ohhh thats so hot. I would love to be with a married man. This way i can come over his house and his wife would never wonder if anything was happening. That sounds ooo god damn exciteing, its like being a secret agent! I would do that shit in a heart beat.
 
It has been my experience with married men that there is no predictable response. In all cases my partner has been much younger and happy to let me lead the encounter. It has not been my experience that a married man will always assume a passive role.
 
I'm amazed that in this day and age, with so many "taboos" now being socially acceptable, that a man would actually feel pressured into marrying a woman, even though he knows he is gay.
(on a sidenote----don't tell me someone may get married and not KNOW they are gay till later. Theres no such thing as not KNOWING,--- just not EXCEPTING)
It is very selfish to pull an innocent party into a relationship and then cheat on them on the side with someone of the same sex just because you have "needs".
I once knew someone that had trouble accepting that he was gay, finally got married to a woman who knew what he was, but felt she could change him. I don't know him anymore, but hear from others that he secretly cruises the internet for gay hook-ups. This in my mind is morally wrong.
 
I think some married men cheat with gay men because they're having a taste test. I mean, if he is everything you ever wanted and would drop his wife in a heart beat after one night with you, would you still push him away?
 
^You're only finding it disgusting because no one would drop anyone for you.
 
Comrad said:
Ohhh thats so hot. I would love to be with a married man. This way i can come over his house and his wife would never wonder if anything was happening. That sounds ooo god damn exciteing, its like being a secret agent! I would do that shit in a heart beat.
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You are a sleazy jerk. Piss-off. You're occupying my niche. :p
 
No I find it disgusting too. If you're going to cheat on someone don't get married. I was dating a woman for 7 years, not once did I even consider fucking another man or woman. It wouldn't be 'hot' if he dropped his wife for me because once we got together I'd spend my whole life worrying about when he was gonna drop me for someone else (or what diseases he was bringing home).
 
so, world experts, what does one do when they deeply love their spouse but the spouse has closed the door (so to speak) locked it and thrown away the key?

no reason for the door to close as far as health is concerned just said spouse has always had a low libido...fuck that first tire went flat 6mos after the wedding. the other went flat as soon as the kid was born.

other than SEX the marriage is very very good...so, whats' wrong with a fuck buddy as long as you are upfront and honest with the third party?

just sign me

bycycle built for two/able to carry 2 and1/2 because its been 10yrs and i'm not dead yet.#-o:cry:#-o
 
I've slept with a couple married men before.

I'm not the one cheating. I would not and have not cheated on anyone. But I don't judge.

They were willing and I was horny. Life goes on.
 
I have a prejudice against married gay men*




*of course married to women.
 
looseliam said:
I've slept with a couple married men before.

I'm not the one cheating. I would not and have not cheated on anyone. But I don't judge.

They were willing and I was horny. Life goes on.
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excellent....my thoughts exactly!

as far as sex with married men: i've done it, i do it, and i'll continue to do it. what i like about married men is they don't want a committment, which is fine with me. and as looseliam said, i don't judge.
 
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