Married men cheating with gay guys

[Soilwork]

other than SEX the marriage is very very good...so, whats' wrong with a fuck buddy as long as you are upfront and honest with the third party?

If by "thrid party" you mean your wife? Nothing at all. Hey, as long as she knows the score, you go right ahead.

But if you "deeply" loved your wife as you say you do, don't you think she should know that she's in an open relationship?

 

[kevbo]

I would sleep with a married guy

if he was in an open relationship

but then it wouldn't be cheating...

 

[robbieadam]

married men suck, believe , you will fall for the dude then the next they tell you is that go back homes to their wives(husband).

True, so true.

Oh, and welcome to the wonderful world of JUB!

 

[MetaKnight]

I'd do it with a married man.

If he was married to me that is

 

[Claudio63]

But I still wonder, when a married man cheats with another guy, what role does he like to play? Top or bottom?

In my two encounters with married men they were (a) versatile but he ended up bottoming (I didn't want to be penetrated at the time), and (b) top but only wanted to kiss, masturbate and be sucked.

But my two cents is there really isn't a trend on married men's role in a gay encounter. It just seems more noticeable or "shocking" that a married man should bottom because we assume if he's married he's macho. But that's just a stereotype and reality is no doubt different.

 

[Piquechampion]

If a married man is cheating on his wife, I hope he slips up, gets caught and is taken to the cleaners in the divorce settlement.

And anyone who knowingly has an affair with someone who is married, I hope the day comes when you're in a (seemingly) committed relationship, some other selfish rogue comes along and aids your partner in cheating on you.

Karma.

If you can't commit, stay single. And if you're single, stay away from people who you know aren't.

Right on

If I was the wife being cheated on, I would be more pissed I was so deluded I couldn´t see that my husband is a cock sucker than of the cheating thing.

 

[duncann]

I can't see what the deal about being married is - it depends on whether you are religious and what vows you made and the state of the marriage - as long as you, as the third party, are not the one doing the soliciting and breaking them up, it's up to the couple whether they are in a faithful relationship and to deal with it between themselves.

If the guy is bisexual then he may want to have a happy married life and kids etc. but also fulfil his gay needs and his wife may know about it and let him. I constantly read articles by women who have no issue about their bi husband seeing men but hating the idea of him seeing women.

In the UK/Europe about 60% of woman have affairs outside marriage so the comments on here about the wife feeling hurt are both old fashioned and inaccurate, she is probably at it as much as her husband, though more likely having long affairs rather than one night stands.

 

[Ninja108]

nope, aside from the fact I'm in a relationship, I could never engage in an a relationship or hookup with someone I know is taken. I would never allow myself to be used like that

 

[nadawon80]

nope, aside from the fact I'm in a relationship, I could never engage in an a relationship or hookup with someone I know is taken. I would never allow myself to be used like that

explain to me how hooking up with a married dude is being "used." if i know the guy is married, i'm going into it with eyes wide open. to me, that's not being used.

 

[willsboy84]

i think the majority, or atleast quite a few of the guys's i've hooked up with are married. and yes i know i'm a terrible, awful, HORRIBLE person...i just don't CARE!!! lol, seriously though when i 1st started hooking up with guys i did alot of chatroom cruising and the married guys alot of times outnumbered the single. sometimes they were almost unavoidable. i guess in a way i do feel for the wives that don't know, but in the situations i've been in i don't see how they could possibly NOT know. what's funny though is i'll watch all these shows with someone or other getting cheated on and i'm always like "what a fucking asshole, doing their wife that way", alll the while i've been with more married guys than i count. GOD I AM SUCH A HYPOCRITE!!! there was one guy though who really took it to another low, and he was HOT but i really couldn't go there though. we'd been makin plans to hookup and he tells me he's gonna have to bring his 4/yo daughter with him. i'm like "Um, what....?" he goes..."We can just stick her in front of the tv while we go to the bedroom and get it done". Of course being the moral authority that i am, i had to cut ties.