Married men.

[Seasoned]

It's easy to pass judgement and just as easy to justify bad behavior. I was married to a woman when I first start having sex with men at age 31. I paid a price for that and I made amends. Now, who's business was that? My answer is mine, hers and whomever I was having sex with who knew I was married. Was it the business of my neighbor, my friends, judgmental qays or straights? I think not. Unless you're an affected party, it's none of your business. You may have an opinion, but you know what they say about opinions. "They're like assholes, everyone has one.

 

[peeonme]

It seems like the gay community tries to take the moral high ground by holding those who cheat in more disdain than the str8 people might hold their own people in.
I think it's an effort to overcome the stereo-typical orgy image that some see gays in.
We had a President who cheated and most (str8) people I knew said it was his private life.

Men have different reasons for cheating, be it with a guy or a woman. Often his wife knows and pretends that she doesn't, sometime she is relieved that he doesn't "bother" her any longer for sex.
I have been married for over 40 years, I could never have had time to cheat, I was either at work or at home, when a guy is out 3 or 4 nights a week, comes home late and doesn't "want any", you can't tell me the wife has no idea.

We are all different, some guys can live without a boyfriend on the side, some can't. I won't judge those who don't, I always maintain
that I will never cheat, but maybe I just have not met the "right guy" yet.

 

[dralockhart]

There's a lot more finger-wagging and universal claims in here than I'd expect to see on a gay site. But it's unsurprising. You have those folks in any forum who know better than everyone else and will remind you of it in the most brusque way possible.

 

[Cottonforme]

Would you or have you cheated with a married man?

Why or why not?

Yes and no. Yes - sex with married men. No not cheating.
I have urges, for both female sex but also male to male sex. Cheating is a value judgement, if you are hungry you eat. If you need to suck cock do it. Just do it safely, discreetly, and hurt no one.
I am in love with my married male friend, we were friends before I put the move on him. Wasn't a one off after all. The behavoir after that was very seductive. The long eye to eye contact and so on.
We recently had a conversation after three years about what happened. Turns out we have feelings. Want to do sex again. But it's early days. Opportunity etc.... But here's the thing, it is an urge. Needs fed.
Just my two cents worth.