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Masculine gay guy..

G-Lexington said:
>>>Its hard to find one

>>>its completely hard to run into one or meet one (for me at least).

Then you're not trying hard enough. I'm not even looking for them, and I run into plenty.

Lex
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I too, am puzzled by this phenomenon. I can't even count how many threads I constantly read saying things like "*sigh* I'm a masculine gay guy. What do I do? I'm not into girly stuff like Britney Spears and make-up. Am I the only one?"

Yes. You really are the only one. You and the 10,000 other people who have posted the exact same thing.

I encounter just as many stereotypical masculine gay men as I do feminine ones. Maybe people just need to log off of JUB and leave their homes.
 
Four month old post...
 
Berber of Seville said:
That's my dream boy, you're soo lucky. Just deal with it, you're in love with a boy, right? A BOY NOT A GIRL! Boys are meant to be masculine
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Masculinity is a socially-created thing.

For example: the act of CRYING.

Most guys try verrrrrry hard not to cry, or show emotions. The truth is, they are just as emotional as women are. But, because women have a submissive role in society, & men are dominating in many aspects of life, women are the ones who do not get chastized for showing their emotions. That's why men hide it.

Eventually, I think it becomes a habit that men don't like to show their emotions.
 
Crackberry said:
I too, am puzzled by this phenomenon. I can't even count how many threads I constantly read saying things like "*sigh* I'm a masculine gay guy. What do I do? I'm not into girly stuff like Britney Spears and make-up. Am I the only one?"

Yes. You really are the only one. You and the 10,000 other people who have posted the exact same thing.

I encounter just as many stereotypical masculine gay men as I do feminine ones. Maybe people just need to log off of JUB and leave their homes.
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I've never met a masculine gay guy, but I'd love to! Who knows, maybe they are gay, but not out, & that's why I've never met one!

Actually, aside from my brother, I've never met a gay person that I know of. & I live in Toronto of all places!
 
danniflava said:
I've never met a masculine gay guy, but I'd love to! Who knows, maybe they are gay, but not out, & that's why I've never met one!

Actually, aside from my brother, I've never met a gay person that I know of. & I live in Toronto of all places!
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You have a brother?! I wonder...who could it be?
 
What a weird set of responses. Well, except for The Voices of Reason.

To the original poster...let your voice be heard and tell him exactly how you feel.
 
Treating you like one his (straight) "guy friends?" Not a good sign. He sounds like a bull in a china shop who has no finesse. If you're willing to play the role of educator, there may be hope for the relationship, but it won't be easy. Being straight is no excuse for being a clumsy, rough-housing oaf. Just imagine trying to dance with him. Good luck.
 
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