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eat-my-goal

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reet, not sure if people have read my other thread, but at the bottom it says about 2 of my mates i have crushes on. Anyone the girlfriends of myself and my mates think that 1 likes fellas, having been his mate for a good few years I didn't think so.

Well to get back to the story, Monday we had to go into college early for a trip with our PE class and therefore I stayed over at his on Sunday night. He was home alone so a few other mates came ower to play poker and then they went home to get some kip. We watched a bit of television, and he was flirting with me I decided he's having a laugh, i'll flirt back. Anyways so time to go to bed, this was the first time i'd slept over at his since he moved to his new house where he had 2 beds in his room(a brother who used to live at home) anyways now he has a double bed, so i was like "am i sleeping in your brothers room?" but he said that it would be stupid to "waste sheets" :confused: which confused me a bit but I didn't mind sharing a bed. I got changed into my bed gear (normally sleep in boxers or pj bottoms but considering i was sleeping with a mate i wore a shirt anarl) whilst he took a shower. He shouted to me that he had forgot to take his towel in to the bathroom and asked me to bring him one. I knocked on the door to give it to him and he said to come in, I was thinking wtf. Anyway I opened the door and he was standing there with both hands over his cock (looking very fit), I threw the towel at him and said, "couldn't you come to the door for that?" and he was like "naa i was brushing my teeth" and then winked at me.
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I walked out and got into bed and started to try to go to sleep, he then comes in from the shower and then gets into bed naked. I said "fucking hell ***** aren't you going to put any boxers on", he replied "you not secure in your sexuality like?" and winked at me again. so i just said "whatever, i'd just prefer it if you wore something to be honest", he still didn't change and just said "if you don't like it go home then" and then turned the light off. So I started nodding off and then he pushes up against me, I was like "wtf" he said he was just "trying to get comfortable"
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I woke up the next morning with him hugging me:confused: i lay there for a bit and then got out of bed to get something to eat and must've woke him up. So offered him so toast and then went and made it and brought it up. He was sitting up in bed and then when i sat down on the bed he lifted the covers off and walked across the room naked towards his wardrobe to put boxers on. Got a canny good glimpse like :D. Anyways I asked him if he was gay, and he just said "naa, what makes you think that?" lol

After that night I'm pretty sure he has some feelings for men, what do you think?
 
I am thinking that is was a good thing he didn't have a 2x4 to hit you in the head with that particular night. I don't think he could have gotten any more obvious without just grabbing you and having his way with you. Can't say he has a liking of other guys for sure, but damn, he sure has a liking for you.
 
he's adament he is straight though, it's like he does one thing and says the opposite. Dinaa, spose he must just be confused and not wanting anyone to find out.
 
Does he know that your gay?

Cause if he does...this is not straight man behavour. Unless some other jubber has straight mates that do this sort of thing to each other.

If he does know that your gay....then this was a hint and a half. I'm curious what he would have done if you had just gotten up and left when he refused to put on boxers before climbing into bed. No straight guy hugs another man in bed, through the night UNLESS it's the only way to survive through the night in a cold harsh environment! :)
 
screwnutty said:
Does he know that your gay?

Cause if he does...this is not straight man behavour. Unless some other jubber has straight mates that do this sort of thing to each other.

If he does know that your gay....then this was a hint and a half. I'm curious what he would have done if you had just gotten up and left when he refused to put on boxers before climbing into bed. No straight guy hugs another man in bed, through the night UNLESS it's the only way to survive through the night in a cold harsh environment! :)
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I'm bi not gay, and he doesn't know
 
getstoseven said:
But DUDE........you didn't play the game........at ALL.
You even TOLD him to put clothes ON.........in BED yet.......](*,)

BTW: nothing like sleeping naked

And you woke up with him hugging you?
Damn...........I'd have been hard as a rock.......... :twisted:
(in fact I am right now :rolleyes:)
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I have a lass, it would have been morally wrong in my opinion
 
eat-my-goal said:
I'm bi not gay, and he doesn't know
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Oh, honey, he does. He couldn't have been any more obvious with being naked, winking and sharing his bed with you naked.

If I were you, I'd walk up to a wall and repeatedly hit my head against a wall. ](*,)
 
Nightcharm said:
Oh, honey, he does. He couldn't have been any more obvious with being naked, winking and sharing his bed with you naked.

If I were you, I'd walk up to a wall and repeatedly hit my head against a wall. ](*,)
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he must have a pretty good "gaydar" then, because nee one thinks i like fellas.
 
eat-my-goal said:
he's adament he is straight though, it's like he does one thing and says the opposite. Dinaa, spose he must just be confused and not wanting anyone to find out.
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It seems to me he wants you to make a move on him. Otherwise he was taking a leak when God was handing out brains. Straight guys don't sleep in the same bed as their friends, and they certainly don't do it naked. I remember when I had friends sleep over when I was younger, they wouldn't take off their shirts (or sometimes pants) even if they had a bed/matress set up.

I don't want to stereotype, but at the same time I agree with the previous comment that he isn't displaying "straight" behavior. It isn't really gay behavior either; it's "I want you to fuck me" behavior to an extent.

I missed your later post before. If you do have a girlfriend, then you're right it would be wrong of you to screw around behind her back, no matter how much your "straight" friend wanted. So kudos for that; the world needs more stand up guys.
 
Hey mate,

Well... first thing is congrats on your morals and your values... they say an awful lot about you - and its all good! The fact that you are true to your girl and yourself is a pretty cool thing eat... I hope you're proud of who you are and what you stand for.

As to your mate... well... if nothing else he's curious. Whether or not he knows your bi doesn't matter - he feels comfortable enough to be himself around you, which is a sign of the sort of friend you are to him.

Most likely hes at a time where hes feeling his way about his sexuality and is pushing his boundaries a little. The fact that he chose to do that with you means he feels that he wont be judged and he trusts you implicitly... thats really rare eat... he thinks a lot of you... and more than just sexually.

For now, I'd leave things rest. And see what happens next time you guys are together. And if similar things happen again it would be a great time to have a heart to heart with him about who you are... and about his own feelings.

My guess is that the 2 would find you have more in common than you think... and theres nothing better than having someone to confide in that you care about and trust as you explore who you are.

Make your boundaries and values clear though so he doesn't get the wrong idea, but eat... I'd say your friend is lucky to have a guy like you in his life!
 
Nightcharm said:
How close are you with this guy anyway?
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Known him since reception class at primary school (4-5 y/o) been his mate since year 5 (9-10 y/o) and been proper good mates for about 4 years now. So I'm pretty close to him, i've been on holiday with him and his parents before, but he never tried anything there.
 
When you're on holiday with parents, then I doubt anything would ever occur.

If he hasn't behaved like this before than I'm sure, something is up. And besides, if you really were friends for that long, it's about time he knew more about yourself. I wouldn't be surprised if he admitted being more open-minded than people thought he would be.
 
Nightcharm said:
When you're on holiday with parents, then I doubt anything would ever occur.

If he hasn't behaved like this before than I'm sure, something is up. And besides, if you really were friends for that long, it's about time he knew more about yourself. I wouldn't be surprised if he admitted being more open-minded than people thought he would be.
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So basically you're saying that I should tell him i'm bi, to try to make him more confortable about opening up?
 
Bingo!

It's best to be honest with another honest person.
 
eat-my-goal said:
So basically you're saying that I should tell him i'm bi, to try to make him more confortable about opening up?
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Yeah mate thats exactly what you should do... when the time is right. But make it clear why you are telling him... and where you stand.

Like I said earlier, he trusts you, so be careful that you dont hurt him inadvertently - he may well be hoping something might happen between you guys (almost certainly even if its only fooling around) so if thats now what you want too you'll need to be diplomatic.
 
I experienced kind of the same thing when going on a trip for the weekend with some friends. There was a sauna in the house and first everybody was very shy. But in the end everyone walked around naked in the bathroom, in and out the sauna.
I slept with a guy in the same room and he also decided to sleep naked, and i could see everything (I'm not in to him, anyway :) ). But this guy also has a girlfriend and I'm pretty sure he's not gay and he might suspect that I'm bi (or whatever), but I think he just wanted to feel comfortable for himself.
Being naked among friends when there is alcohol into play is "kind of" normal in our group of friends (provided that there is a sauna or a jacuzzi). So I won't say that every straight guy that walks naked in front of you is gay, but in this case I see strong clues that your friend is ;)
 
Reet cheers for the advice, we're going out into town tonight on the lash, so will probably have a word with him before hand.
 
Do you know the thickness of two short planks?

I wouldn't waste my time if I were you.

I despair.
 
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