Mate that could be gay/bi

[PSCGuy]

Well if she's not going to be accepting of who you are, it's for the best. You can't change who you are, of course. I'm sorry that it had to end that way for you, but it's better to end it sooner rather than later.

As for your other friends, all they really have to know is that you broke up with your girlfriend. And if you aren't comfortable yet telling them why, then don't feel pressured to. The people who need to know do, so do the rest on your own time.

 

[theblackajah]

Must I say the next step is obvious?

Go suck your friend's cock, date, and live happily, gayly ever after.

The end.

 

[rareboy]

Oh c'mon everyone. For the majority of girls, once their boyfriend tells them that they like cock as well, it is terminal.

And why not? Now she's always going to be looking over her shoulder to see if there's some hot guy that is going to replace her...or is her guy going to follow the time honoured tradtion and get some boy on boy action while still banging her?

Who is he more emotionally attached to? Guys or her?

What else hasn't he told her? Has he been cheating on her already?

I say you're history. Honesty is the best policy, but this has come in the midst of your relationship.

With your next girl, tell her on the first date, okay? Then she can decide how invested she wants to get.

 

[eat-my-goal]

Must I say the next step is obvious?

Go suck your friend's cock, date, and live happily, gayly ever after.

The end.

i'm taking a wild stab in the dark and say that you're joking?

in all seriousness not sure that would help anything atm, i need to get my head round getting dumped before I make any decisions like that

 

[howd17]

Now may be your chance with HIM! Why not? You've done the right thing and been honest. So do him and you a favor and seal the deal...

 

[screwnutty]

Yes cause that will help Eats so much won't it.

Yeah he's just had a horrible break up with his girlfriend and I'm sure that he had deep feelings for her too, since they were going to move in to a place together. You guys ever heard of morning period? He needs time to figure his shit out...not just jump the bones of the next person who likes him!

 

[ssean18]

mate, dnt feel guilty.

you were completely honest.

she broke up with you.

take some time out, think about whats happen and where you want to go..

all in all, congrats with being honest with yourself.

 

[eat-my-goal]

mate, dnt feel guilty.

you were completely honest.

she broke up with you.

take some time out, think about whats happen and where you want to go..

all in all, congrats with being honest with yourself.

I don't feel guilty, although I do regret telling her tbh. Much prefer to be with her than not.

 

[PSCGuy]

I don't feel guilty, although I do regret telling her tbh. Much prefer to be with her than not.

Eat,

I'm sorry that things didn't work out between the two of you, but I have to say that you shouldn't regret telling her the truth. Nothing that you did made her decide she couldn't be with you; that was all on her. You didn't do anything to end the relationship. You even explicitly told us you wouldn't cheat on her!

The fact that honesty led to your breakup is tragic. Even though it's hard to hear, if she couldn't take you for who you are, it wasn't mean to be.

Again, I'm sorry man and I hate to be the random voice coming from the internet. But I wish you the best.

 

[eat-my-goal]

Eat,

I'm sorry that things didn't work out between the two of you, but I have to say that you shouldn't regret telling her the truth. Nothing that you did made her decide she couldn't be with you; that was all on her. You didn't do anything to end the relationship. You even explicitly told us you wouldn't cheat on her!

The fact that honesty led to your breakup is tragic. Even though it's hard to hear, if she couldn't take you for who you are, it wasn't mean to be.

Again, I'm sorry man and I hate to be the random voice coming from the internet. But I wish you the best.

But i am who i am, i've never changed

Found out yesterday that she has started going out with a new lad, which confused me a lot considering she claimed she loved me 2 weeks or so ago . Was proper gutted and ended up going out into and getting pissed and ended up doing some things I'd prefer to forget tbh.

 

[screwnutty]

But i am who i am, i've never changed

Found out yesterday that she has started going out with a new lad, which confused me a lot considering she claimed she loved me 2 weeks or so ago . Was proper gutted and ended up going out into and getting pissed and ended up doing some things I'd prefer to forget tbh.

Oh Eats. That's horrible!

Maybe she was looking for a way out and you gave her one. The fact that she's already in another relationship so fast after leaving you means that she's not that nice of a girl. Now you don't worry about the guilt from telling her....clearly she's not worth your time. Time to move on.

But here's a video just for you....hope you can relate to it. Give it a listen, then a good cry. Then treat yourself to something special. Forget about her as best as you can. I'd like to do more for you but this will have to do for now my friend....come here....

 

[eat-my-goal]

Oh Eats. That's horrible!

Maybe she was looking for a way out and you gave her one. The fact that she's already in another relationship so fast after leaving you means that she's not that nice of a girl. Now you don't worry about the guilt from telling her....clearly she's not worth your time. Time to move on.

But here's a video just for you....hope you can relate to it. Give it a listen, then a good cry. Then treat yourself to something special. Forget about her as best as you can. I'd like to do more for you but this will have to do for now my friend....come here....

her friend told me it was just a rebound thing and she is really upset. Still doesn't make me happy, more angry. Almost hit the little twat (her new bf, he's a right cocky arsehole) but hadn't drunk that much at that stage of the night, so managed to restrain myself.

 

[screwnutty]

Oh don't you love it when they tug on your emotions like that. Good for you with the self control! Don't hit the bastard. He's not worth your time or effort. I could tell you how to get back at her but she's not worth your time or effort either. It's good to hear that your angry...your in stage two. Couple more stages to go and the sun will shine again!

Anyways how's your other friend (the one that came out to you) How's he doing? How are things going with your other mates? PM me if you don't want to discuss it here in the thread. I mean only PM me if you want to. Just trying to be a friend here for you. Cause I know how your feeling.

 

[eat-my-goal]

Oh don't you love it when they tug on your emotions like that. Good for you with the self control! Don't hit the bastard. He's not worth your time or effort. I could tell you how to get back at her but she's not worth your time or effort either. It's good to hear that your angry...your in stage two. Couple more stages to go and the sun will shine again!

Anyways how's your other friend (the one that came out to you) How's he doing? How are things going with your other mates? PM me if you don't want to discuss it here in the thread. I mean only PM me if you want to. Just trying to be a friend here for you. Cause I know how your feeling.

He's been doing fine, really supportive. Was supposed to be going to a party with him tonight but not in the mood tbh. Told one of my other mates during the week that I was bi and he was fine with it, although really shocked.

 

[screwnutty]

He's been doing fine, really supportive. Was supposed to be going to a party with him tonight but not in the mood tbh. Told one of my other mates during the week that I was bi and he was fine with it, although really shocked.

Well I know your not in the mood but you should go to the party with your mate. Get your mind off of things. You know. Just allow yourself to have one night of fun. You know. Beats just sitting around the house. Been there done that. As long as she and this twerp won't be at the party though!

 

[eat-my-goal]

Well I know your not in the mood but you should go to the party with your mate. Get your mind off of things. You know. Just allow yourself to have one night of fun. You know. Beats just sitting around the house. Been there done that. As long as she and this twerp won't be at the party though!

That's the thing, he will be there. Dunno about her though. Much prefer to not take the chance tonight, still hungover anyway so wont wanna drink anything.

 

[screwnutty]

That's the thing, he will be there. Dunno about her though. Much prefer to not take the chance tonight, still hungover anyway so wont wanna drink anything.

Oh then yeah don't go! Maybe rent a movie or something, ask your mate if he'd like to join ya or something. Just don't sit alone and think about her. She's not worth it mate!!

 

[eat-my-goal]

Oh then yeah don't go! Maybe rent a movie or something, ask your mate if he'd like to join ya or something. Just don't sit alone and think about her. She's not worth it mate!!

aye he's been asking if i want any company, so think we're gunna watch a few stand up dvd's.

 

[screwnutty]

aye he's been asking if i want any company, so think we're gunna watch a few stand up dvd's.

Good for you! May I recommend Hot Fuzz! Really awesome movie! Good god can you Brits make me laugh my ass off! Love your accents too!

Enjoy yourself tonight my friend....but i expect a full report on my desk in the morning ! (just joking!)

 

[eat-my-goal]

Good for you! May I recommend Hot Fuzz! Really awesome movie! Good god can you Brits make me laugh my ass off! Love your accents too!

Enjoy yourself tonight my friend....but i expect a full report on my desk in the morning ! (just joking!)

lol, aye hot fuzz is a good film, one of my favourites behind mainly Die Hard. I have a git mint accent like