Maybe a Fuck Buddy???

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

I haven't been up here in a while, and I have been think a lot lately. I have been quite depressed lately with everything from the economy to horrible dates, and so on.

I have been thinking about what my friends also keep saying how I'm so old fashioned with the traditional dating, and have thought about getting a fuck buddy, till maybe the right guy comes around. Does anyone think that would be a good idea???

I also want to know some site if anyone has any for free fuck buddy websites. You can post on here, or just send me a Message (PM).


Thanks!

 

[AngelFromAbove]

It's your decision; it's all in what you want. If you want a fuck buddy, there are plenty men who want easy and regular sex, no strings attached. So, if you have no issues or hangups, then pursue it.

 

[MateoBoi]

It's all totally up to you man. The only thing about having a casual fuck buddy is that YOU can't get attached to them if they are only looking for a fuck. Make sure you can separate "sex" from "love" before you go into these types of relationships. By the sound of it, you're looking for a steady partner. Therefore, the usual qualities you're looking for in a "steady" partner don't apply to a fuck buddy.

Good luck.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

It's your decision; it's all in what you want. If you want a fuck buddy, there are plenty men who want easy and regular sex, no strings attached. So, if you have no issues or hangups, then pursue it.

Thanks, TheBigBang. That is the problem I might have is that I might have feelings with so of the guys I could me, and that would suck on my part, and I might feel used, and hurt. That is why I don't do one-nighters, because the connection might fall through.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

It's all totally up to you man. The only thing about having a casual fuck buddy is that YOU can't get attached to them if they are only looking for a fuck. Make sure you can separate "sex" from "love" before you go into these types of relationships. By the sound of it, you're looking for a steady partner. Therefore, the usual qualities you're looking for in a "steady" partner don't apply to a fuck buddy.

Good luck.

Thanks MateoBoi, Yeah Idk if I can handle the fuck buddy thing, because I might fall, and it would be a disaster for me. lol I mean a lot of guys who have NSA Sex are pretty hot, and just want to get laid, so I might can't handle it. I might try it, but if I can't handle the first time that will be the last, I guess.

 

[kingkhan]

Despite your intentions of not getting attached if you spend enough time with someone you are bound to get attached in some way.

 

[MorrisseyX]

It is your decision it's ultimately up to you. I know that I cannot get involved with another person and have sex with that person over and over again and not have feelings for the individual. I just couldn't do it.

But If you feel you can "distance" and separate the physical from the "emotional" and be with this fuck buddy go for it. If you believe you can separate the "sex" from not wanting a "relationship" or " be in love" with this other person then you can do that.

However, I have heard that these "fuck buddy" situations are often unbalanced and one person will want more then just sex. If you can handle no strings attached sex then maybe it can work for you. If you cannot I would say don't do it.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

Despite your intentions of not getting attached if you spend enough time with someone you are bound to get attached in some way.

lol, Thanks Kinghan, that is not helping. lol

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

It is your decision it's ultimately up to you. If you feel you can "distance" and separate the physical from the "emotional" and be with this fuck buddy go for it. However, I have heard that these "fuck buddy" situations are often unbalanced and one person will want more then just sex. If you can handle no strings attached sex then maybe it can work for you. If you cannot I would say don't do it.

MorrisseyX, I guess that will be me than, the one who will end up wanting more. I might can't handle it.

 

[MorrisseyX]

If you want "casual" sex is it possible you can go to a bathhouse? A bathhouse is the place where gay men go for anonymous no strings attached sex. Is there a local bathhouse in your area? Maybe this can fulfill your sexual need and compensate for this until you enter another relationship?

 

[FootballMuscle]

For your situation, don't get a fuck buddy. Everyone's been in your situation before. It's painful, but it's not permanent.

 

[LoveIsNow]

I've had the same problem before. I can't handle casual sex, I just associate sex with relationships and it doesn't work for me, so I date like a very old fashioned person, no kissing on the first date, etc. and that is what makes me happy. Sure a lot of people tell me it's ridiculous, but it's my life, not theirs.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

If you want "casual" sex is it possible you can go to a bathhouse? A bathhouse is the place where gay men go for anonymous no strings attached sex. Is there a local bathhouse in your area? Maybe this can fulfill your sexual need and compensate for this until you enter another relationship?

lol, I live in North Carolina, not California. lol Plus if there was one, I don't know if I can handle some random guy that I haven't even met having sex with me. I think that is too far.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

I've had the same problem before. I can't handle casual sex, I just associate sex with relationships and it doesn't work for me, so I date like a very old fashioned person, no kissing on the first date, etc. and that is what makes me happy. Sure a lot of people tell me it's ridiculous, but it's my life, not theirs.

You are so right. I need to stop letting people, like friends and family put me down.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

For your situation, don't get a fuck buddy. Everyone's been in your situation before. It's painful, but it's not permanent.

Yeah your right. If I did do it, I will just get attached, and get my heart-broken.