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Me and my friend issue

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My best friend who ive told i have crush on him, the problem Is i really like him and find him very attractive, however he is straight and i respect that in him, their were many ocasions where i acted in way towards him which he didnt like, where he only gets annoyed with me for example if i try to cuddle/hug him to much.

I have one question, but im scared of asking him this as our friendship is important so i dont really want to put it at risk, but love is far stronger

The question is, in gay porn you typical have these senarios where "so-called" straight guy accepts to get a blow job from a gay guy. and its fine it hasnt made the straight guy gay has it?

so how does this work in reality should i propose this offer to my single straight best friend? any experiences or suggestions would be great, but as you dont know him personally or me it may be hard to give an answer....
 
1. that scenerio is set up to make look like what we think it is.

2. with that said there are a few that this is not a set up, but rarely found.

3. if this were to happen chances are that you would not be friends very much longer.

4. is it worth it to lose a good friend over this.

5. friends come and go in our life's but the ones that stick around are the ones to keep.

6. all ways respect bounderies as you would want yours respected

7. go find someone else to keep your mind occupied.

8. your premis about str8t's getting b/j from gay friend usually works out better when you are not known to each other.

9. hope this helps, no disrepsect intended just my opinion.

10. keep it cool.....
 
There's always a small chance you might catch him in an ungarded/drunken moment and achieve your goal.

After that there's almost a 100% chance he'll no longer be your friend.

If you want to have sex, find another gay or bi guy who's into you.
 
If you really believe your friendship something, ANYTHING that could jeopardize it otherwise is out of the question. After all, this is a rather selfish fantasy of yours you want him to help you act out. He's not interested, get over it and find a gay penis that really wants to get blown by you. Best advice I can give. It all seems to be a lusty affair. Love and lust can be confused one for the other.
 
Look elsewhere. It's as simple as that.
 
I have to agree with everything said above. You are playing with fire here.

What if some women was crushing on you and trying to be physical, and telling you she had a thing for you, etc. etc. You'd find that pretty uncomfortable pretty quickly. And, I doubt your friendship with her would last too long because you'd be wondering what her real motives were in trying to be around you.

It's not so different with him. He's straight--respect that and choose your romantic target those who can return the feelings. He can't.

And...those scenes in porn films. Forget it. Purely straight guys are not going to let you blow them and, if you catch them weak and drunk and they do, the friendship is doomed. It's just too awkward for them to get their head around. Even offering it is a near-surefire way to end the friendship.
 
Do you not respect your friend? He's straight and you try cuddling with him... He's made it clear he doesn't like that but is cool enough to not let it get in the way of your friendship and now you're trying to figure out how to seduce him?
 
Jeez.

What everyone else has said.

But frankly, I don't think he's your friend at all. He's just a challenge. You regard him as a potential conquest.

Because if he was your true friend, you wouldn't treat him like you do.
 
rareboy said:
Jeez.

What everyone else has said.

But frankly, I don't think he's your friend at all. He's just a challenge. You regard him as a potential conquest.

Because if he was your true friend, you wouldn't treat him like you do.

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Firstly he was my friend first and that to me is the main reason why i would fall for him and because I trust him!

its not about seduction, because i like him for who he is.

im simply asking a question, no need to say comments which are wrong! as you have no idea of our situation at all.
 
I know how strongly you feel.

Since your'e gonna do it anyway, talk to him and ask him. When he shoots you down, then you'll know for a fact it's time to move on.
 
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*Wonders how everything worked out*
 
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