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me coming out to my friend

I don't want him forgetting I've got a crush on him or for him to carry on like I didn't say nothing
 
gameaddict said:
I don't want him forgetting I've got a crush on him or for him to carry on like I didn't say nothing
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Just give Him some "space" for now. You can always remind Him later, after He's had more of a chance to "wrap His mind" around that idea! ..|

I don't recall where the proverb came from, but it goes something like, "Slowly, SLOWLY, catch the Monkey!" :badgrin:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Oh, I suspect your crush is more than obvious to him.

Just relax.
 
you already told him that you were attracted to him ... he's not dense, just needs time to figure out where he is at ... and if he is straight and wants to remain friends with a guy who has a crush on him ... or if he is bi and wants to continue the friendship with you as friends or if he wants those extra benefits .... but in either case when you go bowling just go bowling ... if you bug him you just might end up bowling solo...
 
I've told him I "like" him so you know what; the balls in his court i'm tired of me doing all the work! if he dont like me...oh well
 
Think about it. How many people have told you they like you, and would like to perhaps be more than friends? And whether you like them, hate them, or something in between, how often would that fact just totally slip your mind?

None, right?

Don't remind him. He knows. If he wants to give it a go, he'll let you know.

Lex
 
I don't like him playing me for a fool, I want him to declare his feelings for me and if he doesn't like me; go back how to our old ways. I don't like the fact that he's messing me around
 
He doesn't sound like he's playing you. He sounds like he's being nice and giving you his answer - "no thanks" - by remaining friends.

If you want to press the issue, you're more than welcome to. But I have a feeling he's given you his answer.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
He doesn't sound like he's playing you. He sounds like he's being nice and giving you his answer - "no thanks" - by remaining friends.

If you want to press the issue, you're more than welcome to. But I have a feeling he's given you his answer.

Lex
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If thats the case he HAS played me; HE started the flirting, HE started the touching and everything! so I don't think we can stay friends if we aren't going out with each other cause I don't like my emotions and feelings toyed with:mad:
 
Look, I'm guessing that he was just messing around. Hugging you, stuff like that. Sometimes people do that with people they don't want to sleep with. That doesn't mean they're fucking with you - they're just having fun.

You really want to know? Ask. Say "You used to hug me and touch me and stuff - I thought that meant you were interested in doing something. Did it?"

Lex
 
hugging me, touchin my leg, slaps my ass , lip syncing love songs to me, laying on me sometimes...hmm I wonder if he's straight?... he's as straight as circle!
 
>>>hugging me, touchin my leg, slaps my ass , lip syncing love songs to me, laying on me sometimes...hmm I wonder if he's straight?... he's as straight as circle!

I'd be more than happy to copy posts from another website where straight friends claim they do this - ALL of it - to their friends all the time, and don't think it means a damn thing.

So, at the risk of being a bit rude myself, let me repeat myself. You really want to know? Ask. Say "You used to hug me and touch me and stuff - I thought that meant you were interested in doing something. Did it?"

Lex
 
You know, you come across in this thread as very needy and clingy...to the point of obsession with this guy.

Your intensity may be the very thing that is scaring this guy off.

The fact is, he knows your feelings and

The Next Move Is Up To Him!!!!
 
But hey, feel free to press the point with him, annoy him enough that he pulls away again, and then ditch him entirely for being such a "cock tease". Because I sort of feel that's the way this is headed.

Lex
 
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