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me coming out to my friend

rareboy said:
You know, you come across in this thread as very needy and clingy...to the point of obsession with this guy.

Your intensity may be the very thing that is scaring this guy off.

The fact is, he knows your feelings and

The Next Move Is Up To Him!!!!
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I wouldn't say im needy...maybe slightly clingy but not that much, im just pissed off he's not stated at all how he feels about me telling him. And im far from obsessed with him, he ain't that special lol maybe i'll move on and get a girlfriend, getting a boyfriend is too much of a guessing game... i'll keep both options open lol i'll wait for his move; if there is none f*c* him
 
Yep yep guys I spoke to my "friend" today and we played videogames and I seduced him slightly by wearing only a vest and shorts lol i did ask him what he thought about what I said and he didn't say yes, but he didn't say no... is this good?
 
He shouldn't think much of it if he's a good friend. Be comfortable enough to talk about, but that's not what defines you. You're still the same person and life goes on.
 
The fact that he didn't say yes and didn't say no doesn't mean anything. The fact that he came over does. He still likes you. But I'd ease up on the seduction.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
The fact that he didn't say yes and didn't say no doesn't mean anything. The fact that he came over does. He still likes you. But I'd ease up on the seduction.

Lex
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lol but its so fun...I was wearing shorts with my chest showing the whole time and i kept looking into his eyes and talking in a different tone...
 
BIG UPDATE

I finally confronted him and asked him whether he liked me or not: "Daniel...you remember what I told you, right... about...you know." he repied "yeah..." then I continued "look Daniel I can't take the hostility around us two anymore i miss you. Do you want to stay friends or..." he repied "it's weird you told me at the wrong time" I repied " yeah sorry but i just had to tell you..." he repied " you shouldn't have told me" I sharply said "would you have preferred if I was FAKE around you!" he didnt answer so i said subtly "i had to tell you, i couldnt compress my feelings any longer im sorry" and in a sharp tone he said "you still shouldn't have told me...Im Gone..." and he logged off. so... i guess thats it
 
I think our friendship is over. The coldness in which he turned me down was atrocious, no friend treates another friend that way... if any updates happen i'll post them... :(
 
You told him you were interested.
He said he wasn't interested, but wanted to keep you as a friend.

You started dressing "provocatively", staring into his eyes, and speaking in a different voice.
He didn't respond.

You pressed the issue. Again.
He said he was uncomfortable with the whole thing.

And HIS behavior was atrocious?

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
You told him you were interested.
He said he wasn't interested, but wanted to keep you as a friend.

You started dressing "provocatively", staring into his eyes, and speaking in a different voice.
He didn't respond.

You pressed the issue. Again.
He said he was uncomfortable with the whole thing.

And HIS behavior was atrocious?

Lex
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im sure ive stated before HE started all this gay stuff with me! flirting and touching! and he didnt state he wanted 2 stay friends and we spoke on msn he didnt say thanks or no thanks he wrote me off like my feelings meant NOTHING
 
>>>he wrote me off like my feelings meant NOTHING

This entire thread has been about your feelings, your needs, your desires. I haven't seen a thing about HIS feelings, HIS needs, HIS desires...except where they might jibe with yours. But I guess that's just as well.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
>>>he wrote me off like my feelings meant NOTHING

This entire thread has been about your feelings, your needs, your desires. I haven't seen a thing about HIS feelings, HIS needs, HIS desires...except where they might jibe with yours. But I guess that's just as well.

Lex
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Dont make me sound like the villain Lex... I gave him 3 WEEKS to consider my offer because I DIDNT want to RUSH him... don't tell me about his needs and feelings because its compulsory I care about his feelings, needs and desires WHICH I DO but just didn't mention it because I guessed you would know i care... from DAY ONE i met him ive been there for him and been a great friend so i dont appreciate you making me out to be some selfish monster that doesn't care how his ONCE best friend is feeling...
 
^ oh c'mon.

It isn't as though we didn't warn you that you were headed on a disastrous course with borderline obsessive, clingy behaviour.

You told him.

He doesn't want to fuck you.

You pushed it.

He dumped you.

Move on.

There are a billion other guys out there.
 
lol you guys make me laugh because im not clingy or anything like that and anyway ive moved on i'll look elsewhere
 
after i told him i liked him he always treated me weirdly and i just wanted to clear it up whether he wanted to do something with me or not, he didnt even give me a yes or no and to be honest if i were in his shoes i wouldnt have turned down my best friend in such a cruel way. but you know what forget it all this gay business is starting to put me off men; eating cum, sucking dick, rimming, it all sounds nasty to me. i'd only ever fuck a guy, kiss, jack off with and just play with each other with a guy. but hey im still young and im gonna take a break from boys and get a girl
 
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