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Mean people suck part 2

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Hey boys...

So the gist is this. The ex broke up with me via txt last week because he was not keen on threesomes which involved me, a drag queen friend of his, and him. I was playing with him (the drag queen) but was not doing anything sexual aside from jerking him off. The now ex ended up sucking him off. The ex thought that because I did something to the drag queen that I had never done to him I was cheating. I asked permission as all of us were in bed together and the now ex said go for it. Guys, I am a warm, sensitive, sweet, caring, understanding man, but my ex now wants to talk to me. What's worse, is he tried to talk to me less than 24 hrs after he broke up with me. My self esteem and self worth are shot. I feel lonely, depressed, angry, annoyed, and upset all at once. I feel as though I may never have anyone ever again. I want a good guy or gal. Please. !oops! :confused:*wave* somebody save me from the misery.

Jake
 
Well, you have every right to feel all of those emotions. Just know that you did nothing wrong. You asked him for his permission, and he said go ahead. And then he broke up with you via text instead of talking to you in person. Cliche as it is, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You will find someone who is better. I'm not sure what you should do right now. But when I broke up with my ex, I did some reflections. I have a couple of friends I called, and it felt better just to know that I did something right. I went home and just did stuff to keep my mind off of things. I'd play piano, cook, do things to occupy my time. While doing all of that, it gave me a chance to reflect on the relationship. I eventually was able to understand that it wasn't meant to be for various reasons.

I'm not good with advice, but for me the break up was a process. Just sorting everything in my head and finally accepting what has been done. Feel free to take your time to heal, but if you ever need to chat, feel free to here or to your friends/fam.
 
Honestly, your ex is jealous. You did nothing wrong at all. He said go ahead. Three ways in a relationship can be iffy because of jealousy. I would say go ahead and talk to him if you care about him that much. People need time to reflect to their emotions. They say things without rationally thinking.

But don't let ANY person take away your self esteem and worth. You know you are a great guy, thats all that matters.
 
Jake61186 said:
Hey boys...

So the gist is this. The ex broke up with me via txt last week because he was not keen on threesomes which involved me, a drag queen friend of his, and him. I was playing with him (the drag queen) but was not doing anything sexual aside from jerking him off. The now ex ended up sucking him off. The ex thought that because I did something to the drag queen that I had never done to him I was cheating. I asked permission as all of us were in bed together and the now ex said go for it. Guys, I am a warm, sensitive, sweet, caring, understanding man, but my ex now wants to talk to me. What's worse, is he tried to talk to me less than 24 hrs after he broke up with me. My self esteem and self worth are shot. I feel lonely, depressed, angry, annoyed, and upset all at once. I feel as though I may never have anyone ever again. I want a good guy or gal. Please. !oops! :confused:*wave* somebody save me from the misery.

Jake
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Dude no offense but you went off and had a threesome - and those usually break relationships, sadly yours happened to be one of those.
 
It was before he broke up with me. He gave me the ok. And it was not a sexual three way. I was jerking the drag queen off, not fucking him
 
You did not cheat, he was right there, cheating is secret, he probably called you back because he cares about you, he said you were cheating but he was just jealous. Whatever you do don"t let him abuse you for fear of being lonely. Because that will trigger a pattern in your relationships, now and in the future. Good Luck!!!
 
Jake61186 said:
It was before he broke up with me. He gave me the ok. And it was not a sexual three way. I was jerking the drag queen off, not fucking him
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For heavens sake it's quite simple: you two as a couple went and tried a sexual experiment with another person, during which you had sexual contact with the said other person (yes a handjob counts as a form of sexual contact, anything that inolves your or somebody elses dick being touched by somebody other then the person that the cock is attached too, counts as sexual contact). While the two of you might have agreed upon it, it obviously soured the relationship which lead to the break up.

Sorry but that's how it just is.

Jake61186 said:
Thanks for the non help
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Let me ask you a question; What exactly did you expect or would you like us to tell you? I'm sorry that this has happened and that you are in pain, but there isn't really anything anybody can do at this point - try to move on and learn from your mistakes.
 
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