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Meet W/ LDS Missionaries (opinions wanted)SemiLong

Re: Meet W/ LDS Missionaries (opinions wanted)Semi

Lewis1 said:
Please do not talk to me as if I am co-signing on everything mormons embody.
I am getting that vibe. I do not belive there is one truth and if there is, a whole heck of alot of people have trouble agreing with that notion. Most religions "have somethings correct". I'm very well grounded in my beliefs and what I digest from the church ( or any other church) and elements outside of it. As far as the history goes it would not be the first time history was inacuratly presented or altered to fit someone or something's agenda.

I am not picking up guys or trying to. I love meeting with the missionaries & by me being attracted to guys I tend to get a bit misty eyed over some of them. How many missionaries have you met? You seem to be very-much generalizing about them acting gay. Ive met with over 28 of them so far only about a handful were effeminate and/or gave off a gay vibe. What is your interpretation of them acting gay? All of them are nice & polite Imo No where in this thread did I say I wanted to date a missionary LOL Wouldn't mind it if it happened though
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You do not believe there is only one truth? Why? Are you saying 2 things that are contradictory can both be true? Have you ever seen this happen? It would be a pretty crazy world to live in if two contradictory things could both be valid. I agree that some religions may have some things correct, but it doesn't excuse them from all the things they believe that are clearly at odds with how the world actually behaves. This is really way off your original topic though.

Just in my experience with Mormon men (granted this is somewhat limited... maybe 10-15 guys?), they tend to be a bit more sensitive and gentle, less into "manly" activities, and more freely show their feminine side. I've mistaken a Mormon man for a gay man several times. One great example of this is Chet from the Real World Brooklyn. I realize I'm stereotyping a bit, but I've just found it to generally be true.

It seemed to me that you wanted more to happen with these missionaries, and I was just pointing out that it may not be the best thing to get tangled up in, even if they were interested in it.
 
Re: Meet W/ LDS Missionaries (opinions wanted)Semi

As I would not want anyone around who was trying to lay his particular ''guilt trip" on me, so also I require myself to live with whatever burden of ideas anothe guy may have.

IMHO once you have established that the fellow buys into the teaching of the the Mormons or the Jehovah Witnesses, I think you are wise to leave them to their own convictions. I notice they all seem to go out in twos and I suspect that is to keep each other in check.

A good deal of caution is advised.
 
thatonewriter18 said:
first off guys, this isn't about religion or getting a straight guy. it's about love of a missionary.

second off, this is really funny that i looked at it today. just earlier tonight i went to play volleyball at my best friend's church (she's mormon) and the new missionaries came. and there was one Elder that was just so cute. and he was really friendly to me even though i suck at volleyball. and he lifted his shirt to wipe his face alot and he had amazing abs. he just got here so i don't think he'll be transferred for a while. i might go to church on sunday just to talk to him!!!;)

and as for latter days, i absolutely love that movie!!!! but i talked to my friend and she said that they only get that extreme depending on the family. only the extreme ones send there kids to facilities like that. and before you say i don't really know that, my aunt and uncle are mormon and they have a gay son. they accept him anyway and don't send him to anything. same goes for my other aunt and uncle who have a lesbian daughter.
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yes thank you & this sitcheation sort of happened again only he was transfered like 2 weeks after he got here im so mad but i miss the other guy!oops!
 
Re: Meet W/ LDS Missionaries (opinions wanted)Semi

conrad said:
As I would not want anyone around who was trying to lay his particular ''guilt trip" on me, so also I require myself to live with whatever burden of ideas anothe guy may have.

IMHO once you have established that the fellow buys into the teaching of the the Mormons or the Jehovah Witnesses, I think you are wise to leave them to their own convictions. I notice they all seem to go out in twos and I suspect that is to keep each other in check.

A good deal of caution is advised.
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fuck that they can get out alone if they want to
 
Two guys wanted to talk to me at my door. I felt like coming out to them but I knew that would just start a lot of drama.

My question to you is, how long an you keep up the missionary situation and still oogle over men. What happens if you develop a relationship with one?
 
thatonewriter18 said:
first off guys, this isn't about religion or getting a straight guy. it's about love of a missionary.

second off, this is really funny that i looked at it today. just earlier tonight i went to play volleyball at my best friend's church (she's mormon) and the new missionaries came. and there was one Elder that was just so cute. and he was really friendly to me even though i suck at volleyball. and he lifted his shirt to wipe his face alot and he had amazing abs. he just got here so i don't think he'll be transferred for a while. i might go to church on sunday just to talk to him!!!;)

and as for latter days, i absolutely love that movie!!!! but i talked to my friend and she said that they only get that extreme depending on the family. only the extreme ones send there kids to facilities like that. and before you say i don't really know that, my aunt and uncle are mormon and they have a gay son. they accept him anyway and don't send him to anything. same goes for my other aunt and uncle who have a lesbian daughter.
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At my evening part time job at Walgreens, I have a co worker who is Mormon. Just about every time she works the missionaries come into the store to see
her. I gotta tell ya, they know how to grow em in the Mormon Church. Just about
all of them are hot, hot, hot!

J.P.
 
Lewis sorry if I ask this. Do you feel attracted to missionaries only or every kind of guy? Do you still have feeling for him if he's not a missionary anymore?
And is he transferred so far away? is there any chance that you could see each other again? do you still keep in touch?
 
Do you develop healthy relationships with other groups of people outside these Mormon missionaries?

I hope you are going out and meeting bi/gay guys and hanging out with bi/gay friends who share your sentiments and goals. It would be tragic if you were hoping someday one of these "Elders" will share more than just holding hands with you.
 
To both guys, I get that you like Mormans, are you going to only be with men if they're Morman or are you going to find people slightly more available?
 
spencer said:
Two guys wanted to talk to me at my door. I felt like coming out to them but I knew that would just start a lot of drama.

My question to you is, how long an you keep up the missionary situation and still oogle over men. What happens if you develop a relationship with one?
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I CAN keep it up FOR HOWEVER I WANT CAUSE MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS NOT DEPENDENT ON WHETHER I AM ATTRACTED TO GUYS OR NOT ITS MUCH DEEPER THAN THAT

nehoo if you do go head and expose then you will be recomended for their same sex attraction therapy and then they will treat you differently and ask you to repent much more and abstain from any thing remotly sexual its rare to have a relationship with a missionary because they are always in 2's and they are on a mission but after the mission if you both want to then yeah lol
 
Just_Believe18 said:
Do you develop healthy relationships with other groups of people outside these Mormon missionaries?

I hope you are going out and meeting bi/gay guys and hanging out with bi/gay friends who share your sentiments and goals. It would be tragic if you were hoping someday one of these "Elders" will share more than just holding hands with you.
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No i am not going out and meeting bi/gay guys but im not living my whole life in church either

i am not hoping for anything i love their company & sometimes i get more feelings for some of them and they do the same with me so .........
 
Coffee said:
Lewis sorry if I ask this. Do you feel attracted to missionaries only or every kind of guy? Do you still have feeling for him if he's not a missionary anymore?
And is he transferred so far away? is there any chance that you could see each other again? do you still keep in touch?
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I dont think its so much them being missionaries but missionaries are the only ppul who come by my house on a weekly basis lol. Im sure if regular guys came as well i would feel the same. Of course I still have feelings for them after their mission

i get so mad at transfers & i think they speed it up if they think one is getting to close and yes i still keep in touch (mostly by e-mail & phone )
 
Lewis1 said:
No i am not going out and meeting bi/gay guys but im not living my whole life in church either

i am not hoping for anything i love their company & sometimes i get more feelings for some of them and they do the same with me so .........
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I think you should go out and find other type of guys, because "a love/relationship with a missionary" is hardly happen. Because it may lead to nowhere. I'm afraid that the routine of "meet - (seem to) have feelings - transfer" would going on and on, around and around. Because they're living for God. You may like them because they are "the leader", similar to one's crush for a teacher/adviser/therapist...
Anyway, if you're enjoying your company, it's good. But I'm afraid that you would be hurt and/or going round and round. So you should consider it. :)
 
Lewis, I understand what you're saying now. You like to admire them and you enjoy your calling. That's fine (although torturous) but I get it.


However, being gay and not doing anything about it is really difficult on your heart. The second you meet one missionary that pay particular FRIEND interest in you (you hang out a lot, you communicate a lot, you e-mail or text, you do stuff together) even though he is straight, as soon as that guy comes along, you will fall for him hard and it will single handedly tear you apart.

Your temptation will go deaper than anything you every have expected.

I admire your choice as you do what you believe in.
 
spencer said:
Lewis, I understand what you're saying now. You like to admire them and you enjoy your calling. That's fine (although torturous) but I get it.


However, being gay and not doing anything about it is really difficult on your heart. The second you meet one missionary that pay particular FRIEND interest in you (you hang out a lot, you communicate a lot, you e-mail or text, you do stuff together) even though he is straight, as soon as that guy comes along, you will fall for him hard and it will single handedly tear you apart.

Your temptation will go deaper than anything you every have expected.

I admire your choice as you do what you believe in.
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:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry: your right

but im kinda used to it now lol
 
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