Meeting an older man for the first time

[yourson]

As of this past weekend I am single (broke up with my gf).

Anyways, I have decided to try and start gay dating (I'm bi). And I've always been attracted to older men.

So after talking to a 63 year old man (I'm 20) on Mister we are meeting for coffee later today.

I'm kinda mervous but excited to see where this goes! Can't believe I'm finally going out with an older man!

Wish me luck!

Any tips or advice?

 

[sixthson]

Be a gentleman and put his walker in the car for him. Just kidding.

Talk to him like you would talk to anyone else who is a new friend.

 

[scooter63]

Well first off, I will say that you need to keep your meeting in public until you are totally comfortable being around this man. Just because you have talked to someone online for a bit, are attracted to older men, and then meet for a quick coffee doesn't mean you know this man. Take it slow, what is the rush? Meet in public a couple times and talk and get to know him before you move it to a different level. You are young and have a whole life in front of you.

Just make sure you are totally comfortable with whatever happens. If you do decide to go private, let someone know where you are, make sure you have your cell phone with you, have a draft text ready to go with address and your location that you can send in an emergency to someone you trust. And if you take it sexual, BE SAFE ALWAYS.

By the way, what is Mister?

 

[yourson]

By the way, what is Mister?

An app that shows gay men (usually older) in your area.

 

[sixthson]

Just out of curiosity, Yourson, are you also interested in older women or is that age only attractive to you in men?

 

[yourson]

Just out of curiosity, Yourson, are you also interested in older women or is that age only attractive to you in men?

For men i LOVE older!!
But for women i prefer my age, though i may not say no, but my preference is around my age.

 

[HunterM]

But for women i prefer my age, though i may not say no, but my preference is around my age.

Oh...a female cougar could teach you a thing or too in bed

 

[Seasoned]

How did it go?

 

[yourson]

How did it go?

It was nice.

Only half an hour. We pretty much said a little about ourselves. He's a talker!!

I was extremely nervous but decided that he's a nice guy so we should hang out again. Thoughwe haven't planned it out yet.

Not sure if that constitutes a date.

 

[earlgrey]

By the way, what is Mister?

It's basically the app version of Daddyhunt.

Love to hear how it went.

 

[Seasoned]

I'm glad he appears to be a nice guy. You are smart to meet in public and to want to get to know him. The red flag, which you seem to be cautious of, is the possible exploitive nature of a relationship between unequals. Wishing you the best.

 

[Yours2Hold]

I was in a similar situation. I was always attracted to guys that were older. I joined Daddyhunt last April and got the app at some point. Started talking to one guy in late April. But it took me 3 months to work up the courage to meet him and he was very patient about it. We finally planned a day to meet in the beginning of December and it was great. We decided to meet at a diner and it was so nice, but I was so nervous because it was the first time I was with a guy as well. Still with him right now. Just take it slow. We got to know each other very well before we did anything. It's always a good thing to take it slow because if the other guy doesn't mind it, it shows they aren't just after sex or anything.