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Meeting cute guys on the internet

kevbo

kevbo

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Why do they always have to be so damned far away? :grrr:
 
i've often wondered the same thing.

and why is it that the guys that are actually close to you turn out to be sorta flaky?
 
I'm just going to avoid this question because I know I'll get all sad and heart-broken thinking about it.
 
This is what confuses me, where EXACTLY do the cute, interesting people live if EVERYONE insist that they're "far away." Where are they, Jupiter?
 
Seeta said:
I'm just going to avoid this question because I know I'll get all sad and heart-broken thinking about it.
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Well, come to Eau Claire, and NEITHER of us will have this dilemma!
 
fabulouslyghetto said:
This is what confuses me, where EXACTLY do the cute, interesting people live if EVERYONE insist that they're "far away." Where are they, Jupiter?
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Well, cute, interesting people live everywhere. I'm talking about the cute, interesting people who happen to think that I, too, am cute and interesting.
 
kevbo said:
Well, cute, interesting people live everywhere. I'm talking about the cute, interesting people who happen to think that I, too, am cute and interesting.
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i want to shake your hand.
 
kevbo said:
Why do they always have to be so damned far away? :grrr:
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Interesting that you say "Why do Cute Guys have to be so far away"...Attractive Gay/Bi men are deff in my town. That's not an issue. My thing is "Why are the GOOD guys that I connect with the most so far away"...

I've chatted with some of the nicest people online that I'd date, but the Long-distance thing just doesnt cut-it...
 
That always seemed to happen to me.

One thing I realized is that it's not so much the "Ugh there are no guys around me" it's more that there are no guys around you on the internet dating sites.

Or different dating sites. And that's when it gets confusing. And damn did it always feel like the perfect guy was always so far away.

By making new friends, joining clubs or groups, and being more out there the range of people in your area both single or partnered increases greatly. Networking is a powerful thing.

And I'm not talking about facebook. Although apparently facebook is a powerful thing.

Maybe the guys around you are just too cheesy :P
 
It's not like Mr. Right or even Mr. Good Enough are going to live on your street.

And there might be more than one Mr. Interesting and Mr. Worth Getting to Know not too far from you who you just haven't met yet.

It gets better.

Sometimes you might even meet Mr. Wow only to discover something about yourself and that you're just not Mr. Ready or Mr. If Ever. Then you'll be Mr. Relieved when he's gone and you can get back to being Mr. You again.

I think it's kind of a vicious cycle. You're a hamster. You see the wheel. You want in the worst way to get on that wheel and run like a fucking idiot for all eternity. But then some other asshole hamster comes along (the same one who peed in YOUR corner - which is NOT cool) and knocks your bitch ass off the wheel so that he can get on and run like an idiot for a while. While you're sitting there watching the asshole hamster making a fool out of himself, you think to yourself, "Why the fuck did I ever get on that wheel in the first place?"

Then you watch your over-crowded neighbors eat all their own babies.

Then you curl over to lick yourself. Because you can. And that's gotta feel better than running in that stupid wheel like Mr. Idiot.

The End.
 
TexMess said:
.......................;I think it's kind of a vicious cycle. You're a hamster. You see the wheel. You want in the worst way to get on that wheel and run like a fucking idiot for all eternity. But then some other asshole hamster comes along (the same one who peed in YOUR corner - which is NOT cool) and knocks your bitch ass off the wheel so that he can get on and run like an idiot for a while. While you're sitting there watching the asshole hamster making a fool out of himself, you think to yourself, "Why the fuck did I ever get on that wheel in the first place?"

Then you watch your over-crowded neighbors eat all their own babies.

Then you curl over to lick yourself. Because you can. And that's gotta feel better than running in that stupid wheel like Mr. Idiot.

The End.
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As analogies go I find this one really quite a good depiction of gay life. :=D:
 
I guess they are here then? There enough cute people around here :)
Well also this is Europe's 3rd largest urban area ;)
 
TexMess said:
It's not like Mr. Right or even Mr. Good Enough are going to live on your street.

And there might be more than one Mr. Interesting and Mr. Worth Getting to Know not too far from you who you just haven't met yet.

It gets better.

Sometimes you might even meet Mr. Wow only to discover something about yourself and that you're just not Mr. Ready or Mr. If Ever. Then you'll be Mr. Relieved when he's gone and you can get back to being Mr. You again.

I think it's kind of a vicious cycle. You're a hamster. You see the wheel. You want in the worst way to get on that wheel and run like a fucking idiot for all eternity. But then some other asshole hamster comes along (the same one who peed in YOUR corner - which is NOT cool) and knocks your bitch ass off the wheel so that he can get on and run like an idiot for a while. While you're sitting there watching the asshole hamster making a fool out of himself, you think to yourself, "Why the fuck did I ever get on that wheel in the first place?"

Then you watch your over-crowded neighbors eat all their own babies.

Then you curl over to lick yourself. Because you can. And that's gotta feel better than running in that stupid wheel like Mr. Idiot.

The End.
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the gay world is populated with asshole hamsters and i seem to draw them in.

i see your point and many, many times i wonder if its even worth it because so far i've been mr. can't get his foot in the door and let me tell you, it sucks. but what can i do? i don't want to end up dead and alone and the only way anyone knows i'm gone is because of the smell coming out of my apartment. so i keep trying. it gets more and more difficult to try but... meh.
 
I wish I could answer your question, but I have the same problem.


I met a guy who lived about 15 minutes away.

I had met him once in person, and said it was to awkward and only wanted to IM or Text. And he expected our relationship to work that way.




*sigh*
 
The further the guy is, the cuter he gets. Because it means you have a convenient excuse not to pursue the relationship, and you can just sigh and daydream from afar, thinking "Well, if he was closer, I'd do something." Then, of course, if he was closer, you'd start deciding he wasn't so cute after all...

>>>i don't want to end up dead and alone and the only way anyone knows i'm gone is because of the smell coming out of my apartment.

You'll be dead. You won't need to deal with it at that point.

Lex
 
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