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skaterboi
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Is like intuition, most gay men have certain manorisims that are identifiable, you can then pick up on these which should help you identify if someones is gay.
But the only real way to be able to tell is to straight out ask them (well unless their wearing a t'shirt stating that they bat for the other team)
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I need some help meeting gay guys, cus I don't know any or know anyone who knows any. If you can help I'd really appreciate it!
Welcome back to JUB Lewiz.
Did you ever figure out if you're really gay or bi? I think the best way to meet guys is just the way you'd want to meet anyone. Be yourself and do things you like and you'll meet others who like the same. If you're not out yet it's going to be much harder to find guys to have relationships with. I hope for you that you'll take it slow and meet that someone special! 
interesting
Shit is not Holy!!!
I have the same problem here, until today, I haven't met another single gay boy. Wish I would meet more, but I'm so shy of going out of my comfort zone.
Darkl1ght3r
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Same here juno106.
Lewiz, your gay friends could be infront of your eyes too, you never know. I discovered my first and only real-life gay friend this month who I already met a couple of months ago when I needed help with Spanish. He's a fellow med student who volunteered to tutor Spanish and I wanted to learn it because I'm heading off to do some clinical work overseas next year so I want to get started. He agrees to tutor me, weeks go by and we learn more about each other. He's really warm, genuine and laid back, I'm really happy that he's pursuing medicine, he just brings joy to anyone's day. He's sooo hot btw and I love his smile, blonde hair and body
Anyways, finals hit, summer's here and I've been battling depression and coming to terms with being gay.
Finally, I decided to meet with counselor and revealed that I was gay. After the session, I went home still feeling down about everything still taking the shock of the whole ordeal but continued with my Spanish lessons. One day, my friend and I were on msn and he showed me a clip of this beautiful girl's music vid and it had tons of booty shaking. He loves this artist and wants to be "her" uh huh
I commented on how hot 
she looked 
and then he says, "I prefer dick." 
At first I thought maybe he was joking like he does and then he puts he can't live without sucking dick, out of the blue I asked if he was gay and he seriously said "yes 100%". 
I asked if his family knows, he says everyone knows. He asks me if I was. I said yes and he was laughing. I ask what was so funny considering my current state I don't think he should've been laughing at all. He says there's nothing to worry about 
and was comforting me. 
Once, he asked if I was circumsized and I said yes, he asked me if he could see my dick and said sure 
so I show it to him. He says he never saw a real life cut penis before and he was really excited lol. I asked if he has a bf but he says just men okaay. Sometimes, when I have to stop talking, he asks if I went to jack off. Of course we just joke around and go back and forth to the tutoring. Right now, I'm really glad to have met him and we still continue the Spanish tutoring and talk just about everything, someone I could confide my thoughts and feelings, someone my age I could finally relate to and so far it's been great.
Are there other places to meet guys other than clubs?
Lewiz, your gay friends could be infront of your eyes too, you never know. I discovered my first and only real-life gay friend this month who I already met a couple of months ago when I needed help with Spanish. He's a fellow med student who volunteered to tutor Spanish and I wanted to learn it because I'm heading off to do some clinical work overseas next year so I want to get started. He agrees to tutor me, weeks go by and we learn more about each other. He's really warm, genuine and laid back, I'm really happy that he's pursuing medicine, he just brings joy to anyone's day. He's sooo hot btw and I love his smile, blonde hair and body
Anyways, finals hit, summer's here and I've been battling depression and coming to terms with being gay. Finally, I decided to meet with counselor and revealed that I was gay. After the session, I went home still feeling down about everything still taking the shock of the whole ordeal but continued with my Spanish lessons. One day, my friend and I were on msn and he showed me a clip of this beautiful girl's music vid and it had tons of booty shaking. He loves this artist and wants to be "her" uh huh
I commented on how hot she looked and then he says, "I prefer dick." At first I thought maybe he was joking like he does and then he puts he can't live without sucking dick, out of the blue I asked if he was gay and he seriously said "yes 100%". I asked if his family knows, he says everyone knows. He asks me if I was. I said yes and he was laughing. I ask what was so funny considering my current state I don't think he should've been laughing at all. He says there's nothing to worry about and was comforting me. Once, he asked if I was circumsized and I said yes, he asked me if he could see my dick and said sure so I show it to him. He says he never saw a real life cut penis before and he was really excited lol. I asked if he has a bf but he says just men okaay. Sometimes, when I have to stop talking, he asks if I went to jack off. Of course we just joke around and go back and forth to the tutoring. Right now, I'm really glad to have met him and we still continue the Spanish tutoring and talk just about everything, someone I could confide my thoughts and feelings, someone my age I could finally relate to and so far it's been great. Are there other places to meet guys other than clubs?
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meeting guys... depends for what.
One place that does seem to work without fail for meeting guys is gay bars and nightclubs. Unfortunately -- there have to be other places. There are but those are not as concentrated. In clubs you can meet guys for sex, for friendship (lousy friendships in my experiences and observations) and occasionally for boyfriend material.
It's probably possible to meet guys elsewhere. Maybe in SF you can walk around, sit in cafes/coffee shops and meet guys. But elsewhere in the world clubs seem to be a sure bet. I tried other places, like volunteering at an LGBT center. Well, there you meet the staff only and the staff is erm, not much to look at... and nothing much happens. I tried going to a local LGBT center, and people I saw there scared me, and scared other gay guys I sent there. I tried Craigslist and oh my what a drama and fantasy filled place. I met a bum-in-the-making from Craigslist, the only person out of 157+ emails, and our date ended by him getting busted by the cops (safely). Oh I did meet another person from CL. They were involved with someone else. A 3rd person didn't show up. From Manhunt I met 4 people. One was a date from hell, one was a date that was heck of uncomfortable. One wanted to cuddle only, when I was looking for sex. And one was good enough. Clubs was the best place for me to meet people -- fast turn around, I could see and talk to people. That way I could quickly screen out any bums in the making or horrible date partners. If you have unlimited time, like 3 months, maybe online dating may work. Otherwise if you have a short time period or want fast action, go to clubs.
One place that does seem to work without fail for meeting guys is gay bars and nightclubs. Unfortunately -- there have to be other places. There are but those are not as concentrated. In clubs you can meet guys for sex, for friendship (lousy friendships in my experiences and observations) and occasionally for boyfriend material.
It's probably possible to meet guys elsewhere. Maybe in SF you can walk around, sit in cafes/coffee shops and meet guys. But elsewhere in the world clubs seem to be a sure bet. I tried other places, like volunteering at an LGBT center. Well, there you meet the staff only and the staff is erm, not much to look at... and nothing much happens. I tried going to a local LGBT center, and people I saw there scared me, and scared other gay guys I sent there. I tried Craigslist and oh my what a drama and fantasy filled place. I met a bum-in-the-making from Craigslist, the only person out of 157+ emails, and our date ended by him getting busted by the cops (safely). Oh I did meet another person from CL. They were involved with someone else. A 3rd person didn't show up. From Manhunt I met 4 people. One was a date from hell, one was a date that was heck of uncomfortable. One wanted to cuddle only, when I was looking for sex. And one was good enough. Clubs was the best place for me to meet people -- fast turn around, I could see and talk to people. That way I could quickly screen out any bums in the making or horrible date partners. If you have unlimited time, like 3 months, maybe online dating may work. Otherwise if you have a short time period or want fast action, go to clubs.
Philia
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For the most part I've kept to searching for people online. It's pretty simple in terms of finding out who'd be interested or who wouldn't. Although, it's a shame when you try different sites only to find out that the available ones aren't what you're looking for.
I'm not into the club or bar scene at all and I'd imagine it would be pretty difficult to proposition a guy without the possibility of getting punched in the face or something to that extent. It’s why I stuck to the online scene.
I think just meeting and interacting with people in general opens more doors. Despite how nice it would be to meet a male friend of the homosexual variety I could depend on, I wouldn’t want to restrict meeting a genuinely good person simply because they didn’t fit my prerequisites. Who knows, they could ultimately be the stepping stone you need.
I'm not into the club or bar scene at all and I'd imagine it would be pretty difficult to proposition a guy without the possibility of getting punched in the face or something to that extent. It’s why I stuck to the online scene.
I think just meeting and interacting with people in general opens more doors. Despite how nice it would be to meet a male friend of the homosexual variety I could depend on, I wouldn’t want to restrict meeting a genuinely good person simply because they didn’t fit my prerequisites. Who knows, they could ultimately be the stepping stone you need.
I'm kinda in the same situation, but I'm only going to be where I am for only a couple weeks this summer. I want to meet some folks, but I don't want to get attached because I'll be leaving here soon. I have thing for bi guys like myself also, so it makes it extra hard.
I have thing for bi guys like myself also, so it makes it extra hard.