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Hey guys,

Some of you may remember a little while back I started a thread about a situation I was in with a friend of mine that went to shit. Well now I'm all better, no longer depressed, and happy as ever and very much keen to get into the dating scene!

My problem is, I'm a big boy, and where I am from, that's nearly as bad as having an STD XD


I have tried hook up apps such as Grindr, Scruff and I think one called Growlr. The only guys that seem interested are more my father's age, and I certainly don't have daddy issues. I'm looking for younger guys under 30ish.

However, I was chatting one day to a friend from the US, and he told me about a scene called chasers? Is that a thing? And are there proper forums/online dating sites kind of dedicated to the larger man?

I am looking to date, maybe even a relationship who knows, I'm very much interested in meeting other guys, as my social circle is quite small, and lacking in gay guys.

Thanks for the help.
 
you should check out a website called Biggercity. its got chubs and chasers from all over.
 
Try growlr.

edit - nevermind, its listed already...

Best bet would be adam4adam.
 
I'm in the same boat. I'm a big guy, and with being young and bigger, it is harder to date. I don't get why though; being heavier does not automatically mean unattractive. I've used Growlr and Scruff, but I only get attention from guys who are twice my age. Not that there's anything wrong with the older crowd, but I like guys who are around my age.
 
No offense but... I was a big guy too (205 lbs) and thought the same thing.

I lost 55 lbs about 5 years ago and turned into an avid health freak; I wouldn't even consider a big guy as date-able material. *wave* If I dedicate myself to a healthy and active lifestyle, then I expect the same from the other guy.

I decided to get in shape because I was in your exact position; I wanted to connect with another guy on another level, i.e. a boyfriend, and I desired a hot guy... So I worked out, followed a strict regiment, and reaped the benefits. Now I'm dating a handsome man and I feel more than confident with my shirt off. :badgrin::p

It's a preference... kind of how like I'm only into white guys despite being Brazilian :lol:. There's just something about white boys that does it for me(*@*):-<
 
At the moment, my size is not a product of being lazy or anything like that, sadly it's a mix of genetics and a spinal injurty that put me out of action for near on two years. Finally back in the gym, but sadly the weight I had gained from being unable to get into the gym and do much running, let alone weights, is proving very hard to budge. Considering trying clenbuterol atm to try and kick start some weight loss. I have no problem building and strengthening muscle in fact I'm only just below where i was at 2 years ago, after only 4months in the gym. However the gut still remains. It's driving me nuts, as I've got a nice set of legs, big beefy and muscular, good arms and then there's this horrible disgusting gut.
 
Like what treeri said, apart from meeting men who have a chub fetish (and most of these only want sex), I think you should think about the long term and get to a healthy lifestyle if you want to find a real partner. Unfortunately size really matter and no one would want to date a guy who has a really unhealthy lifestyle.
 
Lifestyle is healty. I eat exceptionally well, and gym minimum three times a week, on my off days I ride my bicycle for minimum an hour. Just don't seem to be able to move that weight. FML.
 
You can have a healthy lifestyle but still eat 1) above caloric needs (putting on weight) or 2) eating at maintenance level.

If you want to lose weight you need to calculate your total daily energy expenditure (TDEE) and your macronutrients. Then you go on a ~500 calorie deficient regiment.


Start here: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=121703981

If you created your own workout program then scrap it. Search on bodybuilding for a premade plan and follow it. There are a lot of great resources on that website so do well to research thoroughly.
 
I know my stuff when it comes to diet and nutrition and also exercise programs. I've done enough of it through my years of rugby etc. I've got a deficit of around 750 cal. With a solid program. I'm losing centimetres off my arms and chest. The tyre around the middle is what won't budge.
 
Everyone has that stubborn area (for me it was my chest), but stick to it and EVENTUALLY it will start to budge. Consistency is very important. Its not like the powers that be are against you losing weight. I told myself that my whole adolescence, and I am now down 50 pounds since last december.

Goodluck!
 
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