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Meeting up with a guy for the first time. Bi here.. advice

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so, im straight but curious, but recently met this guy online a week ago. We have been talking nonstop over skype and the phone, and have a date planned out for tomorrow night. Never have I felt this way about a guy, yet I am still attracted to girls. I'm super nervous about this date, & get butterflies every time I get a text or call from him. What is good advice for the first date....
 
Re: straight but maybe bi?? guy here.. needing advice on first guy date

The usual - be prompt because it shows respect and first impressions count, and then be yourself because there's little chance you can pull off being someone else forever if the relationship lasts more than a night!

Good luck.

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Re: straight but maybe bi?? guy here.. needing advice on first guy date

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you might consider not planning on having sex on your first date regardless of how impressed you are with the guy you are meeting.

it might help to get to know the person over a period of several weeks.

just the stupid random thoughts of the local village idiot.](*,)

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I've merged your two posts and moved it to the CO&R forum.
 
My only advise would be that you try to remember that dating is supposed to be fun, so lighten up and enjoy yourselves. If intimacy occurs, play safe.
 
Keep in mind that sex quite often changes things. I do know some people that have jumped in the sack on the first date and still managed to make it work, but that's not the case with me. Every time I've given in to the urge too early it's backfired. You need to make sure this is someone you connect with on multiple levels before you open up sexually.
 
Just be the real you, and dont make up stories. Meet in public place and wait for sex, dont be in a rush.

and when and if you do have sex, play safe. Get to know the person first...if he rushes you to have sex and you are not ready then dont....

dont get your self in a spot hard to get out of..
 
Are you curious about sex with another man or are you curious about a relationship with another man?

They are two very different things.

From my point of view, nothing wrong with either as long as you are honest with yourself about your motives.
 
Well.... what happened?
 
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